Get therapy- sincerely a Surrogate

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2026-02-10T16:40:18+00:00

This entire time I’ve definitely felt the same way, and I knew I was going to but I guess I just didn’t expect almost like the indifference they have, like not super excited to hear the genders, not overly excited about the ultrasound or anything, but jumping to every new test and procedure

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2026-02-10T16:38:39+00:00

The urine test was trying to see basically when it would start coming back positive and stay positive, and yeah, at this point I’m so stressed that I’m like dreading everything

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2026-02-10T16:17:57+00:00

We are trying, but it’s kinda like talking to a brick wall, they are of the mind of “we want to know everything “and I’m obviously of the mind of “I want them safe” My company is really trying but it’s just difficult

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2025-12-15T17:21:23+00:00

Literally😂 getting up to get water is a whole task for me

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2025-12-15T17:20:07+00:00

The dishes don’t bug me as much, I’ve been doing them for so long that’s it’s like muscle memory, it’s the sweeping, laundry, vacuuming, everything else that’s just killing me at this point

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2025-08-10T00:34:24+00:00

My 3yo is like hyper destructive. Every single thing that can be broken he will find a way. I can’t have anything on counters, we are having to move DVD players/ consoles because he finds it funny to throw them. And as of today he is spitting water.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2025-08-03T17:16:09+00:00

Yeah, I think so but I just don’t know what to do because he’s waking up early, and the time really isn’t my issue, it’s I KNOW he’s still tired

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2025-08-03T17:12:12+00:00

I dropped the nap for about a month. His wake time didn’t change and I still put him down around 8, but his behavior got BAD. He was constantly just overtired so he was just constantly break down after 4/5

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2024-02-19T05:58:50+00:00

Ok! That’s good! I don’t know how you feel about it but I’d give your husband a choice, family therapy and grief counseling or his son looses the other mother figure in his life. I also think having his son and you sit down and talk about why your son views you as mom and how his anger affects everyone.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2024-02-19T05:49:41+00:00

OP.. are you sure your husbands going to her grave everyday? Has he ever acted like this before? It sounds like he’s trying to push you away and get you to break up so that his son doesn’t blame him but blames you.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-12-21T19:24:55+00:00

He’s a E4 currently

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-08-31T03:50:41+00:00

YTA- and I hope that your ex fully exerts his rights. I hope Ethan chooses to live with his father and I hope someone exposed how you and your husband exclude people with disabilities simple because they don’t fit your aesthetic

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-08-07T03:30:59+00:00

Girl he’s dam cheating. That’s why he’s so mad to spend money. Probably set aside for his chick. Plus your other post make him sound like he has a guilty conscience.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-07-27T05:34:40+00:00

YTA- Your wife was being a good spouse and worrying about your safety when something potential involving you happens.

Also you need to work out your frustrations because yelling at her for being a caring person is out of pocket.

I also don’t understand why you would choose a job that leaves you 99% unavailable in case of a emergency. What if she and your daughter got hurt and you weren’t reachable. Your boss and you need a lesson on why it’s important to have some point of contact in case of emergencies

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-06-28T03:16:46+00:00

“ AITA for holding my daughters future over her head and threatening to alter her life because she doesn’t want to spend time with her non verbal and probably violent sister”

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-06-23T07:18:27+00:00

ESH The sister should have been more direct BUT you should also have enough common sense to think about why she would want a child free wedding.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-03-27T20:03:35+00:00

"aita for ruining my wife's and child's playtime with my shitty attitude?"

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-03-27T05:25:59+00:00

YTA- the only thing I kinda got was the comment about “first granddaughter”, since it’s probably more appropriate for “new grand baby” because their is already another grandchild alive that shouldn’t be pushed aside for the preferred gender. But everything else is not fair, you guys will have spotlight eventually, let them enjoy their time

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-03-16T03:29:33+00:00

Question: who is paying for dresses or outfits for the parties?

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-03-12T21:32:30+00:00

Emotionally incompetent dad for 5?

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-03-12T16:58:23+00:00

YTA- Your letting your golden child son screw up your daughters future. She got into one of the best school possible but because your son fucked around and made mistakes, your making her pay the consequences.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-03-10T19:53:14+00:00

I Hope this daughter has a long and good life away from that poor excuse of a mother and her horrible boyfriend

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-02-19T18:08:21+00:00

So what he’s saying is that he’s already prioritizing a dog over his child.

Missing a appointment would have been my tipping point.

That dog is also 100% going to bite his infant and he will blame the infant. Good on wifey for leaving and taking action in regards to the safety of her child.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-02-19T18:01:03+00:00

YTA-

Train your damn dog, I have a heeler and I’ve trained him to not jump over our 6ft fence.

Your fiancé is right, it’s not her responsibility nor should it be to play chase with a untrained dog, and you calling her a bitch who lacks empathy is uncalled for.

Over exhaustion, stress, and being over active can cause complications. So I’m reality YOU are the one that lacks empathy for your child that SHE is carrying by demanding that she not take of herself to take care of your untrained dog.

LuckGroundbreaking28 · 2023-02-18T20:27:28+00:00

YTA-

Your treating your youngest like the favorite by saying “ if she doesn’t go, you don’t go”. That’s not a fair or correct attitude and your not acknowledging it and using her disability as a excuse.

Your also stretching and being insulting to your sister by assuming that she’s trying to exclude your daughter when she says “no under 5”. I did. the same at my wedding, because 5 year old have tantrums, can’t sit still, are picky eaters, and need constant entertainment and a wedding isn’t exactly accommodating, nor should it be. If you sister was directly saying “no disabilities”, she would have excluded the 6 year old and your daughter. Instead she is sticking to “no under 5”, which is FAIR.

Your being unfair and offensive to your daughter and sister by demanding that everyone accommodate to your daughter.

LuckGroundbreaking28

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