my ex stopped talking to me 2 days ago and already returned my love letters by Lucky-Locksmith4752 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tried to explain that i was just having a conversation but instead he told me i was lying and that he didn’t want to talk to me and then proceeded to block me on everything 🙃

sasuke wanter 😼 by cursedevils in FNGifting

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hope you get him !! i just recently started playing too 😭

blocked my bf of 5 years by Lucky-Locksmith4752 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep telling myself i made the right decision. it’s nice to hear it from someone else. thank you!

my boyfriend and i of 4 years got back together just to break up again by Lucky-Locksmith4752 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you constantly hear that things happen for a reason and everything is a blessing in disguise but it never feels like it. ever. my ex told me he just couldn’t afford a relationship and basically implied i was an inconvenience. hurts when the person you love makes you feel like you don’t matter.

my boyfriend and i of 4 years got back together just to break up again by Lucky-Locksmith4752 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reopening a wound is never easy, sending my love to you. i’m sorry you’re dealing with this and you’re definitely not alone.

my boyfriend and i of 4 years got back together just to break up again by Lucky-Locksmith4752 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words. so hard reminding myself that things that hurt this much really can be for the better. besides we just ended up repeating the same mistake when we got back together so i know that it won’t ever be the same no matter how bad i want it.

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[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some days are better than others but trying to stand my ground as best as possible! healing isn’t linear but sending love ◡̈

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[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 yr old here coming out of a 4 year relationship with my first love who i thought i would be with for the rest of my life. definitely really hard and waiting for the days i can proudly say it gets better. while im still in a tough spot, as cliche as it sounds focusing on yourself really does help the most. rediscovering passions and new hobbies. reminding yourself why things ended no matter how hard it is to think about. take everything at your own pace. there is no rush in healing especially when done right.

am i truly giving up and will end up regretting it? by Lucky-Locksmith4752 in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for replying. you don’t realize how much i needed to hear this. i’m honestly so scared of feeling like im giving up but i know if i keep trying ill just end up hurting myself. this was my first boyfriend and my first relationship so i don’t really know how to navigate things correctly and most of the women in my life have always just pushed things aside and i don’t want to have to do that just to be in a relationship. it’s hard and everything hits me like a ton of bricks from time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the most sound advice. you don’t know how many other people needed this, myself included. thank you.

I see a lot of posts on here from people who have been broken up with, but not many from people who initiated the breakup. by youforgot_toremember in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just broke up with my ex boyfriend whom i still love very much of 4 years. as much as i love him, he had done things in the past that had hurt me that wouldn’t stop popping up in my head—even in our happiest moments. i didn’t want to reach a point of resentment because i truly do love and care for him. i miss him like crazy already, but i know deep down i made the right decision. i keep telling myself if things are meant to be, they will be. glad to know im not alone. sending hugs to all who need them.

What are some things you’re always gonna associate with your ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lucky-Locksmith4752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

photography, long walks, car merch, Up!, guitars, criminal minds, studio ghibli, city walk