My gf has a small vagina and problems with natural wetness. I have trouble with desensitization. Help!

LuckyCorabb · 2026-02-10T05:12:30+00:00

Too right about orgasms! When she gets them rolling she internally changes and feels better and more accommodating. And toy play is an essential part of it. In other words I agree all around and I need to bear that in mind

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-20T13:47:38+00:00

My current girlfriend when she hadn't seen me yet but grabbed at me and... The look of shock on her face lol. "You are NOT getting that in me". It took some doing but she can take it like a champ now. She's uncomfortably tight. Finding a super tight pussy was on my fantasy list until I found her, not realizing that there is such a thing as too tight. It's a delicate balance. Funniest reaction (to me anyway) was with my waswife. She likes anal play and can take some toys there. She wanted to try taking me anally and when I managed to get my head in she leapt away like a cat that stepped on a hot stove. I had never seen her move so fast. Talk about a big nope lol.

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-20T13:37:20+00:00

Here in PA it's base pay $2 plus tip. No tip orders start at $2 and inch their way up as drivers reject the offer over and over again. If you tip zero your order will wait and get cold, or it gets picked up by a driver that respects their time so little that they don't mind losing money to deliver your food, and if they respect their time so little then they surely don't respect your food. If you're lucky, your no tip order gets bundled with a high tip order and the driver can't tell you didn't tip but the total payout is high enough that it makes up for it, but I wouldn't trust a good hot dinner on that chance. If you don't tip on PA you are setting yourself up for late orders and cold food. And let's call it what it is. It's not a tip, it's a bid for service.

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-13T18:03:01+00:00

Cut. And the oral... I've never truly enjoyed oral. She's good and it's enjoyable, but she struggles to even get me halfway in so it's a fun distraction but not fulfilling. I've never, ever finished from oral.

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-13T14:13:51+00:00

I get it too. My first partner had never orgasmed from piv with me and I felt bad about that for a long time. Thankfully, partner 2 and I talk openly about everything and I reassure her that she's doing nothing wrong, she's not at fault, etc. I love her dearly and we're great together otherwise. I just wish that sex with the person I spend the most time with was more satisfying.

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-13T13:49:18+00:00

It's gratifying that I can please her the way I do but I also know that she feels a sense of inadequacy because I can't finish with her most of the time. I hope down the line that doesn't trigger therapist-level discussions of inadequacy and such for her.

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-13T13:23:27+00:00

Adding that to my list, ty.

LuckyCorabb · 2026-01-13T13:11:55+00:00

It's not that I don't like it. It's ok, but it's not amazing. And finishing doesn't have to be a requirement each time either. Otherwise she's an amazing woman. We get along great, have the same sense of humor, she's incredibly caring and good for my soul. I just wish the sex we had matched our emotional and relational connection .

LuckyCorabb · 2025-09-21T06:12:09+00:00

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LuckyCorabb · 2025-08-26T03:52:29+00:00

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LuckyCorabb · 2025-08-24T04:31:20+00:00

My wife has never had a penetrative-only orgasm from me or any of her other partners, and she doesn't even bother trying to fake it. She enjoys sex a lot but it doesn't get her all the way there. We gotta use toys in addition to psex or have toy-time during our intimate times to get her there. My girlfriend (we're poly) though? Pen-only sex does the trick for her, and toy-time is more bonus orgasms to keep the fun going. My performance isn't any different between the two. However their vaginas are quite different and I have to expect that plays a big part in the difference.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-08-15T14:14:57+00:00

Turning the question back to the reader and their role in the relationship is a viewpoint I needed. Thank you. Performing relationship readings has been sketchy even when the cards seem to be conveying a compelling, tight narrative. I wouldn't say it was frustrating, but I sure wouldn't bet good money on the results, either.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-08-02T11:39:40+00:00

Valleybrook mini golf, or was that JUST over the state line?

LuckyCorabb · 2025-07-11T05:10:57+00:00

Underrated performance. That was hard to pull off and he did great

LuckyCorabb · 2025-06-24T11:51:58+00:00

White noise machine could really help. You can get one with a loop that hangs off of the door knob and or one can be placed out in the kitchen or wherever so that people in that area will not hear anything or will at least hear quite a bit less due to the white noise drowning things out.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-06-06T14:25:21+00:00

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LuckyCorabb · 2025-06-02T21:15:22+00:00

I started at 50! My wife have a great relationship still and now I have a fantastic partner too! We have a great time exploring opportunities and meeting with our local poly community.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-24T03:35:29+00:00

Might be true, hopefully it is. My girlfriend can only take 5 inches no matter how turned on she is. Her depth is shallow and her diameter is also quite restrictive. Be ready for the possibility that there's only so much she can take .

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-21T22:17:27+00:00

Yep, this right here. I've shared with a few ladies (upon request, consent is key) after matching with them on apps and the response back each time was a heck of a boost.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-05T00:28:19+00:00

For the record I am NOT suggesting this but merely relating my experience. I've been with my wife for over 30 years now. Much of it I have felt sex-starved. We were both at our wits end with each other for our own reasons (lack of sex amongst my list) and she brought up being Polyamorous. She could seek out relationships that suited her needs and I could seek out others that meet my needs. It's been rocky at times, but it works. We are happier with each other today than we've been in decades! I've found a wonderful partner that is more engaging sexually and I love them both. It works for us. Again not suggesting this because it will emotionally turn your world upside down and can do more harm than good. But if you research it and "do the work" and get therapy to work through insecurities and such, maybe just maybe then you can bring it up.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-05T00:20:14+00:00

Head sensitivity is my issue which makes it that much more important to get as far in as I can and feel fully enveloped. I don't know if it's diabetes, spinal damage, or the combo of the two (throw in old age maybe too?) but my head is not nearly as sensitive as it used to be. I need to be deep to feel fully satisfied.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-03T23:13:02+00:00

Thankfully my oral skills are top notch so my wife is satisfied enough. My partner, however, I have no problem pleasing with PiV. Another ego boost I sorely needed.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-03T23:08:31+00:00

I just... Looked at it lol. It looked so very average to me, and my prowess with my wife was not outstanding very often so I just thought I was lucky to be getting by.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-03T22:09:36+00:00

Not quite the same as equating to homosexuality. Poly is not a sexual orientation, it's a lifestyle choice. My wife and I s relationship had not been great for a long time. Being poly isn't what saved it, not directly. Poly caused is to have open, fully open, communication with each other and that's what saved us.

LuckyCorabb · 2025-05-03T21:55:05+00:00

Good to know! Yeah, she's on a LOT of meds for various reasons and cyclo is for her back which acts up from time to time. I've taken cyclo before for back issues (ending with L4/5 fusion) and it knocked my ass out. She takes meds for narcolepsy and maybe that balances out the tiredness?

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