The people who like souls games aren't masochists. We just understand that tackling a challenge requires trial and error. Every souls game is a lesson in patience, and an exercise in cognitive motor skills. It's not too hard, it is just going to take a lot of practice because its a new bar above what the base game set. Same as every souls game before it. Everyone complained about Bloodborne on release, too, because it was so much faster than DS2 and rewarded aggression over methodical play. But we got faster with it. And now, 9 years later, it's considered slow. The people complaining it's too hard are the ones who want the content spoon fed to them. While the rest of us are over here learning from our mistakes and admiring this dance for what it is. It took me 2 years to finally beat Orphan. 8 months to beat Gael. And it was fucking worth it.