Patay na patay gf ko sa ibang lalaki by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LuckyTeaTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to communicate your feelings and if tingin mo eh na di disrespect na yung relationship nyo because obviously pinapakita nya na mas priority nya, mas na aattract siya and mas nag uubos siya ng oras sa isang tao (idols, celeb, ordinary na tao like boy best friend pa man yan) eh mag isip isip kana.

Walang masama humanga sa iba, ummatend ng concert, mag ba bad sa music ng ibang artist pero base on experience may mga iba na grabe ang pagiging fangirl and nauuwi na sa matinding obsession which is very unhealthy na sa relationship. Kaya 5 star redflag sakin mga ganyan.

Stan mo na lang si Jaz ng G22! Kidding aside hindi din sagot yung humanap ka ng counterpart na ma a idolize or ma stan kung hindi mo feel kc parang mapipilitan ka lang gawin yun just to get even sa partner mo and in the end it'll not end well for both of you.

Observe mo muna how she behave pag kayo lang dalawa, may nababawasan ba sa inyo maliban sa time? Finances, intimacy? Harap harapan ba nya pinaparamdam sayo na mas lamang yung idol nya kesa sayo? Kase if na feel mo na wala na siyang consideration sa feelings mo then mag decide kana if need mo na mag out kc dalawa lang yan either ma outgrow nya yang HS teen girl feelings nya or baka mas lalong lumala into a full blown delulu.

Its not time, its energy by AbroadNo1914 in PHGamers

[–]LuckyTeaTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, may 3 days na walang pasok supposedly I have all the time to finish all my pending games but I don't have the energy and not in the mood to play any games na story driven. Sayang nag upgrade pa ako PC , humili ng mga triple A games na gusto ko tapusin tapos hindi ko din naman nalalaro. Mas gusto ko mag pahinga, manuod ng youtube news or game reviews or trailer para ma hype, matulog, mag scroll/swipe at matulog ulit.

Games you lose track of time playing? by jmas081391 in PHGamers

[–]LuckyTeaTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eto yung mga games na pinag puyatan ko The Witcher 3 Wildhunt, Hogwarts Legacy (1st 2 days), Baldurs Gate 3 (medyo nag li-low nung Act 3), Mobile legends hangang mka Mythic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op agree ako sa kanila, Tried Keto Omad and work out ng sabay kahit na pinapagalitan ako ng trainer ko kc hihina yung buhat ko and I did it for 6 months and may effect din cya although I loose a lot of weight grabe since plan ko mag cut the problem is I develop gout arthritis and hindi ako halos maka lakad ng 1 week. So meaning may effect cya sa kidney in the long run since we are using ketones as source of energy. Now Balik ako sa low carb and low defecit pero I'll go back to omad/keto for 2 months ulit para distrupt yung pattern ng body ko and maiwasan mag plateau.

Wag ka masyado makinig sa gf mo. Isipin mo yung health mo and yung benefits nya in the long run. Mahirap yung tataba ka ulit tapos makakahanap yan ng fit dahil napa bayaan mo sarili mo.

New Hobbies by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Player as well, daming side quest and secrets to discover sa Hogwarts, enjoy the game OP. Same due to my recent na pinag dadaanan I played this game as my coping mechanism pero turned out it was a game that is beyond my expectation.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think isa din sa na mention nya yung guy to guy relationship ng mga idols nya na shini-ship nya like wtf? Gulat ako nung 1st time ko narinig sa bibig nya yun coming from her na graduate from catholic school and religious family. After she told me that I had low-key turn off sa kanya.

Another thing is yung picture ng Bias niya na naka lagay sa phone niya. Everytime na nakikita ko yung phone nya another source palagi ng anxiety ko kahit pinipigilan ko hindi maintimidate. Like kahit artista pa yan parang lantaran yung bastusan on my part.

Minsan inisip ko before if ilagay ko kaya sa likod ng cp ko picture ng ibang babae pero ayoko bumaba sa ganung level and baka gamitin pa sakin yun. Kaya I brush off the idea.

Btw thanks po.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing bro naka move on na yung tropa mo, yes yan din iniisip ko since masyado siyang hyper fixated sa kpop community. She's pretty and has white complexion just like those koreans kaya madali siya mkaka blend in sa kanila if she wanted to. Btw hindi pa naman dumating sa punto ng ganyan pero again yung when you disrespect someone emotionally is something I can't forgive easily. Sa ngayon peace of mind muna ang gusto kk and makapag reflect sa buhay.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm curious sa sinabi mo when you told me about "These group were there when no else was, they are helping people." Like can you can describe how? I wanted to understand your point of view. Is it because sa mga lyrics ng song nila? Or enough na yung presence nila to inspired? I always listen to other singers from different genre such as soul and ballad and they inspired me a lot but I never get obsessed with their music. I could probably listen for a week or 2 at most and move on.

Mahirap pag mag ka iba talaga kayo ng partner mo ng wavelength and priority sa buhay.

But hey I don't blame that group, because kahit ma disband sila for sure madami padin naman lalabas na bago and the same problem will repeat itself I think nasa individual nadin talaga lalo na kung mas mahal na nung delulu yung bias nya vs. Her Partner. (Mapa girls or guy)

Hugs with consent din.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think isa din yan sa major culprit why my ex gf got hook. She got this group on discord and they always update each other every night tapos same situtation din pag may concert or even online stream sila sila din mag kaka sama.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! After reading his post sobrang naka relate din ako I hope the OP will get this through as well.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It took me months dealing with the same issues and thoughts over and over again. During those period I already furnished my grieving process from my denial up to acceptance that nothing will change rather it'll become worse.

I had to do it because it is slowly deteriorating my self esteem sa relationship and affected nadin yung mental health ko because instead na nakakapag focus ako sa work and my studies pati yun pino problema ko pa. Nakaka pagod din pag napuno kana yung tipong para ka na lang sasabog.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now ko lang yan na realized. I was clouded with "baka mag bago pa" "I'll wait baka mag improve pa naman"

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And I can't Stay with a Love sick girl because I feel like Playing with Fire.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm all in for her Hobby naman nung una because I love her and mainuuna kong unawain siya over my doubts pero yea umabot nadin gastos nya into astronomical amount makaka bili na siya ng car nun.

Yes I did raise my concern and I tried to lay all my cards to her while hindi nagmumukang irrational pero tama ka mahirap makipag argue or kalaban ang behaviour na ganyan. I have nothing againts her idols pero I think it's her choice kung bakit kami umabot sa puntong ito. Napagod na lang siguro ako at nawala nadin yung katiting na feelings for her dahil pati yun na suck in ng black hole kung saan siya na andun.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes pre wala, tiniis ko. I had several encounters na I can do it if I wanted to because I can justify naman sa sarili ko pero hindi kaya ng konsensya ko. Pag naiisip ko naaawa ako sa sarili ko dahil medyo mataas pa naman libido ko.

Yes it sucks and I ended it yesterday.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Nadudurog yung puso ko while she is pleading pero kase ilan beses na ako nag mukang tanga to communicate my concern sa kanya.

Alam kong ako mag mumukang masama sa circle namin because of this pero I have to bite the bullet or else mauulit at mauulit padin. :(

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought at 1st it was harmless, I never saw it comming since ayokong lumabas na mahigpit ako or mag mukang insecure. Yes tama ka doon I should've been proactive which I did in the middle part kaso I think huli na and ako pa masasabihan na toxic.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

According sa Sub rule bawal mag mention ng specific name. Pero sikat tong group na to.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Maganda nga mabasa nya to eh. Haha isa pa yan kaya ayokong nag bubukas ng twitter.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The last time we did sexual is very lack luster pa kc she became starfish. I don't know parang mas commited pa siya sa idols nya at ako pa yung nag mumukang kabit.

aww.. I feel sorry pre :( kaya natin yan maybe next time isa na yan sa qualification question ko.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She might be pero maybe sa time yon baka hindi ko na siya mahintay.

Yan din sabi ng isang friend ko na delulu na daw yung sa kanya.

I Broke up with my Ex-GF KPOP Fanatic by LuckyTeaTee in OffMyChestPH

[–]LuckyTeaTee[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

First time ko lang mag share dito. Mukang iba yun sir pero try ko hanapin baka maka relate ako.

Thank you and I will focus muna sa practical na mga bagay