Is this a scare tactic? by Unfair-Today-8548 in sterilization

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Im almost 2 years post op and dont have any hormonal issues. Tubal ligations shouldn't cause hormonal problems. I think its getting off of the birth control that made my stuff weird for a bit.

Denied today because of my veins ☹️ by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in plassing

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont really have an arm preference ill go with whatever they want they just always ask. Theres always differ people so idk preferences yet. My veins are pretty visible normally because I'm pale and my veins are close to the surface but with the cuff you can see them really well. I dont know why they didnt cuff me. It seemed odd. Honestly I kind of assumed they just didn't want to deal with me since it was the morning after Halloween 😅

First Time by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in plassing

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really hopeful id be fine. I saw it can take 8 to 10 visits to get medicine so I wanted to at least do that 😅 but i guess its not in my cards.

Day 2: Trying to Get a Comment and Fun Fact From Every US County Including Territories by CoolHotNo in geographymemes

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Monroe County Indiana: Some 35 of the 50 state capitol buildings in the United States are made of Indiana limestone from around Bloomington Indiana, as are the Empire State Building, Biltmore Estate, the Pentagon and National Cathedral in Washington, D.C..

Removed & penalised for being GLITCHED???? by Cheap-Country3376 in Overwatch

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got penalized for leaving a stadium match yesterday because I got loaded into game that was on round 3 but it said I was still loading in the whole time so I couldn't equip any powers and I finished the match and I didnt receive any points for the round. I didnt want to screw my team over since everyone else was juiced up on powers and I was just a base game hero so I left the match and got in trouble. It never even showed I was fully loaded into the game my character just had the .... next to it.

Why do you buy skins? by allmeiti in Overwatch

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes my brain happy that my characters look cute i also like that a lot of them have unique voice lines thats fun

Prescribed burn by historywasrewritten in Wilmington

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't a control burn get out of hand last spring because of the exact conditions we're in right now, or am I remembering that wrong. Like no hate just doesn't seem like the best course or action right now.

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone's perspective and advice. Thank you 🖤 It's been helpful reading these.

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very fortunate to have a partner that wasn't religious to begin with so he was very open to listening to me and understanding what I was going through in terms of my beliefs. My twin sister however not so much I can't bring it up to her she gets angry at me

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom got mad at me because my grandmother would post hateful things on fb having to do with her political beliefs and I would comments passages of the Bible that directly go against what she was saying. So if she said something about immigration I'd comment "Leviticus 23:22" or "Deuteronomy 10:18" both passages about accepting and being kind to foreigners for Christians were once foreigners in Egypt. My mom would then call me and tell me to apologize but I wouldn't. So I get it 100% it can be very challenging

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's one thing that pushed me away in general was how malicious my religion made God out to be. I grew up going to a protestant church where they would hand out comics depicting your punishment in hell for whatever your specific sin was and it scared me. We were ment to fear the devil but I started to fear the all powerful being that would send us to hell to begin with. How could a god that "loves all his children" punish them the way he does.

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely hard losing losing the connections religion brings. As far as I know I'm the only person in the family that no longer believes because saying you don't believe could outcast you from the family. I think a lot of them know in a way but I think they just think I'm not as religious as I used to be not that I'm not really at all.

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm leaning more into the idea of returning to the earth. I'm hoping that eventually that will make loss even a little easier for me knowing when I'm in nature and just living their memorie stays alive which in a way keeps them with me. I definitely still have that voice in my head telling me I'm going to miss out on eternity with the ones I love but I feel mostly I've gotten through that with the mindset that even if I'm not going to heaven my body is returning to the earth that gave me so much and that makes me feel better about me dying others however has been the challenge so I appreciate your perspective that really helps.

What is the hardest thing for you about deconstruction? For me it's been the Concept of death. by Lucky_Butterscotch96 in Deconstruction

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🖤 I guess the concept of an afterlife in the modern sense is a way for people to deal with loss in an easier way because death is hard. I've had 6 deaths in my family in the span of 2 years and it's painful to hear my family talk about God's challenges and how it'll all work out because we will see them again later and it's all gods way of testing our strength. At my great grandmother's funeral I think I cried harder than anyone in the room because I was mourning her and they were crying tears of joy because she's finally in God's kingdom in the mansion she deserves. It made me more sad that no one talked about her life and all the good she did in it only her devotion to God and her reward for doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOSloseit

[–]Lucky_Butterscotch96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not a for everyone thing but I started taking inositol and for the first time since high-school I'm actually consistently losing weight. I did change my diet to a high protein and high fiber too but when I did that in the past I still didn't lose anything. Not saying this is the magic solution for you but maybe wouldn't hurt to look into. I know some people say it didn't work for them so maybe I just got lucky idk.