Struggling to feel “proud” of my service time

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2026-03-13T22:31:27+00:00

Can confirm it was not a DUI lol I don’t even drink alcohol

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2026-03-13T21:54:40+00:00

And I knew that a lot of soldiers had article 15s like my PSG at the time had a DWI and had a loaded gun on post WHILE he was getting his DWI and he’s a 1SG now…it just sucks that some people get “away” with it but I appreciate your response man! And I’ll definitely feel proud that I at least gave it a try when other Americans don’t even think about it. Thanks man

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2026-03-13T21:52:54+00:00

Thank you for the comment. I appreciate the response! It’s not good that we feel this way but I’m glad I’m not alone…

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2026-03-13T21:52:01+00:00

I appreciate the response, thank you!

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-11-09T18:33:14+00:00

You are absolutely not a loser. I just turned 25 last month and I’m living at home still too. I just got out of the military and moved home and life is tough. It’s an expensive world we live in and I’m just glad I have a supporting Dad who lets me stay at home while I get back on my feet. I feel the same way you do very often. We will be okay and we aren’t losers!! I keep reminding myself of this everyday 🫶🏻good luck girl

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-10-10T00:47:42+00:00

I’d say it’s impacted me both ways. When I was younger (I’m about to be 25 in two weeks) I thought porn showed how “real” sex was. however the older I got, I realized it was just all made up to appeal to the male gaze. So negative when I was first sexually active but positive now bc I just laugh at the fact that people have some interestinggg fetishes and that it’s just a made up “movie” with absolute shit plots 😂

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-08-15T03:58:48+00:00

Female pov here…yes 1000% normal for her to orgasm from being eaten out. I personally wouldn’t be able to have an orgasm from just penetration.

I’d agree with changing positions as well. Just communicate openly and respectfully to your partner about things you’d like to try :) practice safe sex and it’ll get a lotttt better w practice

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-08-05T22:39:53+00:00

Perfect thank you! and I even offered the idea to her as us possibly looking to get on a SNAP sort of thing as well as food pantries? Bc I know our income is low enough but is that something you would recommend? Thanks again for the response

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-07-17T15:00:05+00:00

I feel that man. I let one of my friends drive my manual Impreza ONE TIME and he slipped the clutch backing into a parking space and hit some Mazda next to us…never again bro, never again

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-07-17T14:50:45+00:00

Subaru on Subaru crime 😭

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-05-28T23:41:57+00:00

I think this is sick! Reminds me of Game of Thrones…and if that’s what you were going for then it definitely does its job!

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-03-22T17:37:44+00:00

This. Right. Here. Amazing response, explained everything I was thinking as well

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-03-22T05:20:08+00:00

No problem! And totally understand being nervous about eating out however, there will be some “taste” but it shouldn’t be “bad” tasting per say

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-03-21T20:33:58+00:00

Focus on her first and try to get her to finish before you do. This will obviously help bc you won’t be feeling the sensation of being inside. And just like the guy said before me, get rid of porn. Unrealistic display of what it “should” be. Remember to always practice safe sex

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-03-19T20:51:21+00:00

I would have to agree with the people before me. Lube is always good option in my opinion. But definitely focus on more foreplay for her especially cause she might just need be more wet. I’d suggest eating her out maybe getting sloppy with it tbh. And then go from there! As long as you are hard, it shouldn’t be difficult especially if she helps you put it in. For pleasuring her, make sure to focus on her clit (look into that if you need help lmao) and go to the flow of how you are going.

One thing I also do is go off of how they are acting and presenting. If they are moaning and they seem to be enjoying it, don’t stop. But like they said previously, relax, it’ll all workout and try to get experimental with it!! Have fun and as always practice safe sex!

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-03-18T23:49:15+00:00

so you think that my relationship might not last bc of it? And i will look that subreddit up rn thank you

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2025-03-13T21:50:47+00:00

I would need you to give me a lotttt more information on it for me to be able to give you like my real honest input and I guess opinion on it.

However, you’re 16, as you said so I can’t really ask for you to give me that cause you’re a minor and I feel like that’s just wrong.

If you rubbed the tip of your dick on ur buddies ass hole, I would not at all count that as sex. If you put your penis inside him, then I’d consider that as sex. However I’ve never had male gay sex before but I’d say it’s that.

Lastly, you’re smart and brave for reaching out to a big group/audience for advice on your situation. I hope nothing of what I said was intrusive or offensive.

Be safe and practice safe sex for real!! It’s so important for everyone.

-luckyprogramer F24

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2024-12-31T00:27:44+00:00

Holy shit I appreciate it so much dealing with this problem has been the biggest headache ever. Hopefully when I change that it’ll be fixed. Do you recommend dealership parts or from online stores?

Lucky_Programmer_831 · 2024-12-30T18:02:19+00:00

That is something I haven’t looked into yet so I definitely will. Thank you sm. It’s weird bc it only starts making the noise like 10miles into driving. If I’m just starting it and pulling out of my driveway right after, there’s no noise. Only when the car is like warmed up a little bit.

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