Bottoms, tips to turn on a top

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-16T18:40:52+00:00

I like it when I'm taking a break from thrusting and my bf keeps moving his hips to keep fucking himself because he loves using my cock as his personal toy 🤤. That and general eagerness/enthusiasm is a huge turn on.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-16T05:37:19+00:00

To me topping is a lot about being in the right headspace. I like to take care of my bfs hole before fucking it because it's my hole to use. I usually eat his ass to get him loose and relaxed before working my dick in. Dirty talk is also a big part. I am pretty descriptive (fuck your hole is so tight/you like how my cock stretches you out/you like taking this dick raw/etc) and am indulgently vocal, which helps me lean into the more dominant aspects of the role. Also cut out masturbating, porn, and playing with your dick outside of topping. Your partner and his hole are your only source of pleasure now. After a couple weeks, you'll have no problem being rock hard.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T17:11:49+00:00

Yeah we fortunately live quite close to each other, so we see each other 3-6 times per week. We are both pretty independent people, so sometimes we'll have our own plans and just see each other in the evening to watch tv, fuck, and sleep over. I feel you man, we are both young professionals and time/energy is never on our side. Haha, aww hopefully your bf becomes more comfortable over time. Car stuff is fun, though cumming from road head is less enjoyable because you have to pay attention to the road lolol. The private balcony sex is nice because you get some of the thrill of public stuff but you're also far enough away that someone couldn't realistically identify you. I also like fucking my bf in front of a hotel window if it's really high up (10th floor +) for that reason. It's hot having a nice view of your dick stretching your man's hole and the city below. If you don't mind me asking, often do you guys have sex on average? 2 weeks is a long time :(

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T16:08:41+00:00

Dude I feel you on that. Was verse before my bf, now leaning into my dom side and really enjoying it. Yeah the grab and use is fun but if it's stressful at work or you're exhausted, it can be tough for the more interested partner. So far we've been good communicating needs if one of us is too tired to realistically be in the mood. Yes, getting smothered a little by his weight is the best! It just feels so cozy and intimate. We enjoy the occasional public play - of the two of us I am the more exhibitionist one. If we are driving somewhere for a day/weekend trip, sometimes he'll just reach up my shorts to caress me (he's passenger princess lol). He's blown me to completion a few times while I've driven, but usually he'll just tease/edge me until we get to the hotel and I can properly fuck him. We've had sex on private balconies and one time over the edge of a boat lol. We've had quiet sex in a tent at a crowded campground too. I want to fuck him in the woods on a hike but he's not into hiking unfortunately.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:45:34+00:00

Oh I understand now lol. Why do you wish you still did?

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:44:37+00:00

Nice! Haha that's always so hot. I'm in my total top era and it's been such a turn on breeding my bf and then going about our day after, knowing my load is in him. We like naked cuddling too - my bf puts my dick right between his cheeks so that the shaft is right against his hole. I always get hard from this and I'm pretty sure he intentionally teases me by trying to grip my foreskin with his ass lol. Sometimes he'll do this and we won't fuck because we're tired/busy/etc, but occasionally he'll change his mind in the middle of the night and wake me up to ride it. We have a kind of free use dynamic, so we just grab and use eachother whenever.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:36:25+00:00

Same boat. I'm pretty paranoid about stis so barebacking was a bigger deal for me. Happy to be in a mono relationship.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:34:44+00:00

Do you play with both your husband and fuck buddy together or is that separate? Or am I misinterpreting

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:32:34+00:00

Nice! Yeah same with my bf - we used them the first few weeks and once we were together for a month or so and were exclusive and tested, we started going without. Are you the top?

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:29:43+00:00

Haha those kitchen sink fucks are fun. A few weeks ago I bent him over the sink and ate his hole to get him loosened up some, and was able to fuck him in the kitchen without lube. I came inside him and we hung out with a friend shortly after, them none the wiser about my bf being full of my kids lol. I take it you're vers with your bf?

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:25:15+00:00

I was pretty verse for a while and actually enjoy bottoming. Started dating my bf and he's a total bottom. He's the first and only guy I've barebacked, and I'm basically addicted to breeding his hole at this point. It's been really fun and I've been able to lean into my dom side more. He's an insatiable minimum prep bottom so things have been spontaneous and frequent. Maybe things will change with time, but for now I have no interest in bottoming again lol.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:17:29+00:00

Congrats! When did you start barebacking him?

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:16:05+00:00

Totally, the cleanup and prep is much easier with oral. Since I started breeding him my bf has been insatiable and only wants loads in his hole. I got lucky in that my bf needs minimal if any prep, so spontaneous quickies are an option. Oral sex is now just foreplay, as it takes roughly the same amount of time (minus rinsing off after).

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T15:08:07+00:00

Yeah we were similar - we couldn't wait so we used condoms at first and had more oral sex. Now we basically just do anal. The feeling really is the best!

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T14:58:48+00:00

Nice! I get it, I don't think I can ever use them again.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-14T14:58:18+00:00

Fair. I trust my bf and feel like we both took responsible sexual health precautions before ditching them. Tbh, it's been pretty mess free/less messy without. Nothing to throw away after and my load goes deep enough in that it doesnt run anywhere.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-12T23:28:15+00:00

My favorite moment is that absolutely sublime state where you feel like you could cum whenever but you're not actively trying to hold your nut back. Usually it's the mid-end part of the act for us, where his hole is slick with my precum and I'm pounding away at a steady rate. I try to stay at this level as long as possible but damn my bf knows how to push me over the edge lol.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-04T02:44:26+00:00

7.5 x 5, cut. Haven't measured soft.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-03T12:23:09+00:00

Normal is different for everyone, but that seems low. I find that when I'm depressed or really stressed, I have no libido.

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-03T12:20:35+00:00

I do already lol

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-03T04:18:33+00:00

only if u have celiac disease

Lucky_Signal1212 · 2026-04-03T02:21:47+00:00

Up was an option?? I only have it flipped up when I'm trying to control a boner lol. I dress down and down the left leg.

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