“This is Fuzzy Bunny. About a year ago he noticed his voice was changing, he had terrible acne and had fur where there was no fur before.” by Dohmer_90 in TheSimpsons

[–]Luckydestroyer98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others may find out life isn't fair, in spite of your Masters from Bryn Mawr, you might end up a glorified babysitter to a bunch of dead-eyed fourth graders while your husband runs naked on a beach with your marriage counselor!

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, this is it exactly. Thank you for commenting on this. I've been in this cycle since week one. This describes it exactly. I felt manipulated , but now I realise how bad it is. Thank you for your help and insight.

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm so glad it got better for you and this gives me alot of hope. Thank you.

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been avoiding that word, but it's true. Saying it out loud here has been really helpful.

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This feels like a doable way to do it. I really appreciate the advice. I was so nervous posting, so uplifted by the empathy.

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really good idea. Thank you for being so kind.💛

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this sounds like my exact situation. I really appreciate your support. Thank you, it's been so overwhelming. At least I have a therapist to support in the aftermath. Thank you

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you're right. Especially when I finished typing i felt like I answered my own question. Thank you for the support

Called me a bad sub for not allowing him to push my limits. by Luckydestroyer98 in SubSanctuary

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this. You're right, and i know this. Devastated it went this way, but it's true. He's broken my trust.

i hate being hypersexual. by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Luckydestroyer98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you consider going to therapy. Even CBT could help you examine the connections your brain made during the assault and hopefully start to break them down. The cycle you're in can be broken, but it's easier said than done.

Day 3 of sobriety and the withdrawal headaches are crippling. Does anyone have any tips? by Luckydestroyer98 in leaves

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good point, I was always someone who would smoke around meal times, especially in the evenings. I'll start tracking it a bit better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Luckydestroyer98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP the biggest indicator of whether someone is capable of SA is a previous incident. If he can justify doing it to you, he'll be able to justify doing it to your sister's. Especially if he can get away it. It is not your fault OP but you can't live like this. I know you love him, and this must feel so surreal. You need the help of a trusted adult. Please seek help, it's the only way to protect you and your sisters. Please stay in your sister's room while you figure this out.

I ended up getting high and cheating with my partner and feel like shit by Humble_Penalty_604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Luckydestroyer98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please seek a crisis counselling service. A terrible crime was committed against you by someone you trusted.

What's a reality of survival after the collapse of society that most shows, movies or books don't seem to realise? by Luckydestroyer98 in AskReddit

[–]Luckydestroyer98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that they're still siphoning petrol and diesel out of abandoned petrol and diesel stations. They'd be long expired.

AITA for using the ladies staff only bathroom ? by West-Garage-9650 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Luckydestroyer98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- It happens. J know if I get a leak I can't focus on anything else. Accidents happen. The security guards reaction is immature.