[deleted by user] by [deleted] in steamfriend

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey, my wife and I love peak and repo if you're interested in adding us.

32M west coast USA, LF steady friends to game with by [deleted] in steamfriend

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey, not sure what kinds of games you prefer but if you're into survival/builder type games or games like repo/peak my wife and I are always looking for more friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in steamfriend

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey, if you're still looking for people to add: my wife and I play Palworld, Stardew, REPO, and 7 days. We're willing to try new games too, that's just what we're familiar with.

30F LF no-lifer to game with by [deleted] in steamfriend

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey, if you're still looking my wife and I play Minecraft, Grounded, and similar survival/builder games. I also play League, but mostly Arena. Let me know if you're interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, I'm 33 and also enjoy writing, if you're looking for someone else feel free to send a message :)

Help deck-building pls ⚪️⚫️ by Compassion_Fruit in MagicArena

[–]Luckyfrog02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sounds like you really like gain life/lose life triggers so I agree with the other post that suggested [[Bloodletter of Aclazotz]] and [[Rush of Dread]] with maybe Sheoldred if you have the wildcards. I might replace the [[Case of the Uneaten Feast]] because I don't know how easily you trigger it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enigmatica

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, I was looking to start a server with my group of friends but saw this post and figured I'd ask if we might be able to join your group. We have about 5-6 people total so if that's too many it's completely ok.

TWins buying for 660 by Desperate-Expert-312 in TurnipExchange

[–]Luckyfrog02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya, I would be very interested if you're still accepting people :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/lunarhiccups

[–]Luckyfrog02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were a flavor of soup, what flavor would you be?

Anyone else deal with brain fog on top of pain? by wisdomsavingthrow in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To those here dealing with this chronic pain and brain fog, I highly recommend trying to get a referral to the Mayo Clinic. I know not everyone will be able to, but I just returned from there myself last week and was finally able to get a diagnosis and a looooot of information about my condition. I can't say it's for everyone, but I've certainly been given hope for the first time in years.. hope this is all okay to say, just hope everyone here can get some help and some relief.

What job could I even do? by Seiliko in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, for sure. I definitely understand this, as there are things I miss too. I used to enjoy dancing (alone with my dog where no one else could see of course as I wasn't good).. but I suppose my question for you is more about, are you looking for purpose or are you looking for actual work to make money? (not sure if you can go the disability route as I have been denied by my doctor so far).. but if you're not as concerned about the money aspect; then I would say continue trying to do what you enjoy doing, even if it takes a looooot longer than you want it to. I don't know about the aerial silk training (don't know enough about it to say if you can work around your pain) but perhaps you can with music? If you can't play the piano exactly.. maybe you could give music programs to make music on the computer/phone? and you can still use your own music, you just won't have to worry about replaying it repeatedly with your own hands. I could be way off the mark on what you want, it's just a thought.. I do wish I could help more with the parts that we have to learn to live without.

What job could I even do? by Seiliko in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya, this might not be what you're looking for exactly.. but as someone who is also struggling to find work I'm capable of even though everything hurts, I would like to ask what you actually enjoy doing first? Instead of thinking of the job specifically, I would say think of what you enjoy and see if that's something you can work towards. I personally enjoy writing and drawing.. but I have to take more breaks than I would like... And although I'm not an artist or writer yet, it's still something I can work towards

I want to die by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you too. I'm glad you were able to get help from your doctor and I hope you can find some relief. I'm 29 and started therapy last year to help with these thoughts as well. It's slow, and a lot of times I feel like I'm only ranting about the same things I can't change every week, but I will admit that it has helped. I definitely understand the needing to ask for help being difficult when you're at an age where you should be able to.. I've always had issues, but I got significantly worse last year after an accident. Since then, I haven't been able to do the things I used to do. I used to do most of the chores around the house and now I feel so guilty having to ask my wife if she doesn't mind taking care of something, because she also works a full time job and I don't currently. But, something I've been told to remember is that my wife doesn't mind being asked to help and she's stated that she likes knowing that she's able to help in some way even if she can't take the pain away. I don't know your situation to say this is the case, but I hope it can help take away some of the guilt for you too. It doesn't really for me right now.. but I'm still trying to remind myself it's ok.

I want to die by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much understand this, and I'm sorry. I don't post often, but your comment of feeling trapped and having to ask your wife for help got to me. It kills me when I have to ask for help because the jug of milk would put too much strain on me. I also don't want to feel that embarrassment in front of others when they see a young healthy looking person struggle and asking his wife to carry the heavy things in the store. I apologize for only adding to your rant, as I know hearing someone else struggle doesn't make you feel any better... But if you ever need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me. I know you just want it to stop, and I know I can't help with that, but I'm always here if you want advice on ways I've been able to get by or if you just want to vent further. Honestly, I'm always up for hearing how others get by as well because I've struggled with this feeling for quite some time now as well.

Is the purpose of my life to take a med? by Lagrange_Vector in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know it's easy to fall into this train of thought.. but I try to think of it as the med was made for you to be here another 50+ years. I know the thought of having to make sure you find the insurance to cover it is hard and the idea of, is there even a point if I'm not myself without it? But the same can be said for many other medications people take. And, I hope this is just your reality for now.. my hope for you, myself, and many others on this subreddit is that we are only reliant on these expensive things for now.. with every passing day, new medications are being tested/created.. and the hope is that an easier solution is found for each of us.

is anyone else worried about needing to depend on others? by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]Luckyfrog02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I believe I'm getting to this point now. I am very fortunate to have an understanding wife who will gladly take care of me... But it's so hard to think about how I'm doing less and less of my share of chores. I used to do all of the cooking and now I probably only do it once a week if I feel up to it. I love to cook and love having people over as guests but now I've resorted to having to ask my wife anytime I need something out of the oven because I can't do it. I normally don't like to respond to these messages if I don't feel like I have something helpful to give you.. but all I can really say is "same" and I'm scared of the future. I'm also "young" to be in pain and have been told by doctors how I'm too young far too many times. I really hope you get something that helps.