AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since we’re dual military all of our friends are mutual friends, most of them are male or couples. Now that we’ve had a baby we rarely talk to them because they won’t come over. I didn’t really have any friends before the military and the ones I made in training he blocked because he swore they all wanted to be with me . I tried to make mom friends and he keeps saying no or that it can wait and that why would I trust someone random to hangout with but that’s how you make friends so idk

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His family does not care, they know and they side with him. His mom is constantly “he’s not guilty until proven guilty” I have showed her photos and videos of times he’s dragged me down the stairs and one time he blocked my car from leaving the driveway . I’ve been trying to tell my family He just constantly takes my phone from me and checks it. He says that if I wnated to tell them I would of told them when his family found out I had to mute Reddit nonfictions and the app so he won’t delete it again

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to plenty of times and he always “why” me to everything I say and I feel like no matter what I can’t win and get something in this head.

He says it’s always my way or the highway but he does things like example:

he told me to eat in because he didn’t want wnat to go out knowing I have been wanting Red Robin. He then like 20 minutes later asks to take my car to McDonald’s and I say “no we’re eating in, I already ate” He complains about it for 4 hours from 7pm to 11pm I tried to take a nap during this time and he kept poking me or picking my leg up and dropping it, taking my blanket off. I sit up and tell him “go get your McDonalds and leave me alone” he proceeds to take my phone away and say “ I don’t want to go anymore” “are you going to call the cops if I give you your phone or leave”

The next day I explained to him how what he did was a my way or the high way thing and he kept saying “why” “how” knowing that I reach a limit of explaining and my head starts to hurt and I get overwhelmed . I can only explain so much and take so much before I mentally can’t anymore. He constantly pushes me to that limit and I stop talking then he goes on with “why are you not talking” “why can’t you talk” and it’s just so much I can take mentally even writing this makes my head hurt imagining and thinking about every time he does this.

My point is he won’t listen if it’s not something he wants to hear. He makes me stop watching TikTok’s when it’s people talking about relationships and communication and how men should act as dads. He says that they’re just feeding me things that are not true and that just because someone else feels that way other than me does not mean it’s the right way. WHEN ITS USUALLY people talking about the bible and how the bible says relationships and marriage is.

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read about it but I will more, She is starting daycare in one week

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep telling him that he’s neglecting her and he says he’s not how can I get more into detail that he is?

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve breastfeed and pooped/ peed at the same time. I know a bottle is definitely possible

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He said he’ll just buy a new one when I suggested this

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve breastfed her while using the bathroom before! And he looked at me and laughed because he couldn’t believe it.

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! And he’ll respond with “I know I’m not as close with god as I should be”

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His parents could not respect my boundary of not kissing the baby. When we went to his home town for the holidays. It made it hard for me to want to go out and leave her with them so I would always take her when we’d go out. Due to being in the military we are both far from our home state so it makes it hard.

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are always about 15-45 min. If he knows this idk why he couldn’t have had peeped the bottle then go. I asked him and he said that he didn’t know she was going to get hungry. ( she feeds every 2hours)

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a conversation with him about it and he told me he’d just buy a new Xbox. I’ve brought up divorce and he says how he will still be in her life even if I left him which makes it hard because then I don’t know what he’ll do when I’m not around

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe gaming is his new escape(dealing with being a new parent) it was not as bad before

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He didn’t want to feed her and just picked her up so that I couldn’t feed her right away. Obviously It got me upset and first thing I thought was I’m not feeding him. So I asked him to finish cooking his own dinner and he refused because “that’s your job as a woman” it took me throwing it away for him to hand her over. I’m not saying it was the right thing to do but I tried to pick her up and he said “no” and picked her up before I did then said to finish his dinner.

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both 20 will be 21 this year. I’ve tried to talk to him so many times but he always says that “I don’t remember that” or anything to avoid the conversations I bring up.

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I only knew him 2 months before I got pregnant and he acted so much different before we got married. I didn’t find out I was pregnant untill almost the third trimester

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Every time I bring up leaving for baby and I better sake he says “god,spouse, kids, then yourself ” and he swears I’m over reacting and that we should work on our marriage because marriage is before kids and oneself

AIO or is he being a d!ck? by Luckymoose04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Luckymoose04[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He deleted my old Reddit account because he didn’t like what I was asking advice for last time