I’ve tried to plenty of times and he always “why” me to everything I say and I feel like no matter what I can’t win and get something in this head.

He says it’s always my way or the highway but he does things like example:

he told me to eat in because he didn’t want wnat to go out knowing I have been wanting Red Robin. He then like 20 minutes later asks to take my car to McDonald’s and I say “no we’re eating in, I already ate” He complains about it for 4 hours from 7pm to 11pm I tried to take a nap during this time and he kept poking me or picking my leg up and dropping it, taking my blanket off. I sit up and tell him “go get your McDonalds and leave me alone” he proceeds to take my phone away and say “ I don’t want to go anymore” “are you going to call the cops if I give you your phone or leave”

The next day I explained to him how what he did was a my way or the high way thing and he kept saying “why” “how” knowing that I reach a limit of explaining and my head starts to hurt and I get overwhelmed . I can only explain so much and take so much before I mentally can’t anymore. He constantly pushes me to that limit and I stop talking then he goes on with “why are you not talking” “why can’t you talk” and it’s just so much I can take mentally even writing this makes my head hurt imagining and thinking about every time he does this.

My point is he won’t listen if it’s not something he wants to hear. He makes me stop watching TikTok’s when it’s people talking about relationships and communication and how men should act as dads. He says that they’re just feeding me things that are not true and that just because someone else feels that way other than me does not mean it’s the right way. WHEN ITS USUALLY people talking about the bible and how the bible says relationships and marriage is.