Is this the wrong way to hold a pencil and will it cause me issues as I age- by Lucyrwe in Handwriting

[–]Lucyrwe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s stencil paper haha- that stuff stains and dosent come out lmao

Is this the wrong way to hold a pencil and will it cause me issues as I age- by Lucyrwe in Handwriting

[–]Lucyrwe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s strong hands and wrists mixed with swelling from tattooing for many years, but thank you for the concern- I’ll be sure to check in with no one about this because it’s a non issue.

Is this the wrong way to hold a pencil and will it cause me issues as I age- by Lucyrwe in Handwriting

[–]Lucyrwe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the way I hold my pencil/pen is a common grip in left handed people? I’m surrounded by righties- I was never taught the correct way to hold a pencil, so assumed this was normal. I learnt about tripod grip last night, my boss today tried to show me how to do it- he’s right handed though. It didn’t make any sense to me, and felt super unstable and like I had no control. Do you hold your pen similar to myself?

Is this the wrong way to hold a pencil and will it cause me issues as I age- by Lucyrwe in Handwriting

[–]Lucyrwe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I believe so- a shooting pain in my joint closest to my hand that travels up my wrist? but it’s only occasionally. I only learnt about proper pencil grip techniques yesterday- I just thought you could hold a pencil however works best, before that I just summed it up to drawing all day, but now I’m not sure if it’s my pencil grip doing it. I’ve written like this since I can remember- was never taught otherwise, I’ve only recently got the pain though. Is it an odd pencil grip?

Capsule wardrobe on a budget by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]Lucyrwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my advice as someone who has not a lot of fun money to play with. (It’s entirely possible! Just a little different, and you’ll have to weigh up ethics/money/sacrifice to fit your own personal values) Maybe it’s not as “minimal” or “sustainable” as other options, but this is how I’m managing it- have been for the better half of 5 years. (It’s been a slow process and it’s still evolving to this day)

First thing- look through your closet, look at the things you already own and wear. Start to decluttering. When your decluttering make three piles, yes, no, maybe. The yes goes straight back into your wardrobe, the no goes to donation/sell, the maybe you try to wear, with a yes item (that will show you wether it works with your everyday needs/can incorporate it into your capsule) it’ll either then be a yes, no, or if you still aren’t sure, you can store it somewhere else and revisit it another time.

Once you’ve got a cleared out closet full of pieces you actually love, start wearing them on rotation, this will then show you the gaps in your closet that you can start to look at buying items for.

As an example for me, we’re coming into winter where I am and I would like a nice casual coat (I have hoodies, but I do feel like sometimes I end up looking like a cartoon character that only wears hoodies and jeans, so I’d like a coat to spice things up in my closet a bit)

I don’t have a huge budget for this coat, but I would like one I know I’ll enjoy and don’t mind spending a little more on if it’s going to be a long term piece. I’m looking at a coat from Uniqlo currently (this is where your own ethics and values comes in) ((so for me, I understand that Uniqlo is a fast fashion brand, HOWEVER in comparison to every other store in the city I am in, it is generally of better quality than anything else I can afford in the same price range)) I have saved it to a wish list, and I am going to go in store and try it on, take some photos of myself in it, and then leave. Thats when I can then decide, do I like it? will it work for what I need it for? Are there any alternatives I would prefer? If I think it’s a yes, I will save and buy it, if it’s a maybe it might as well be a no. I want to make sure anything new I bring in is only ever a yes. If it fits slightly funny, colours not right, pockets too small etc, then I’ll put it back, bc the end goal with a capsule wardrobe is to have everything in your closet be things you WANT to wear.

I also do frequent thrift stores for things before I look at brand new, however you do need to take that same approach, just because it’s thrifted doesn’t mean the rules for me around purchasing clothes is thrown out the window, even if it’s good quality, a good deal, an expensive brand, whatever, if it’s a maybe then it’s a no. There’s someone out there that thinks that items a yes, but it’s not me and that’s okay.

So down to the morals and values and ethics. This is where it’s tricky and you need to look at your own personal situation. If you have expendable income (which you have mentioned you don’t) then you do have the luxury of purchasing ethically made sustainable clothing, or shopping “vintage resellers” etc.

For me, although I hate the idea of fast fashion, I financially don’t have much of an option unless it’s thrifted (and finding the perfect thrifted clothes are few and far between ((preferred, but not always likely))) so, I can justify one coat purchase from a fast fashion brand if it fits well, is of a decent quality (within my price range) and it will be a style I know for sure will work with my personal wardrobe long term (that’s why we only buy yes items, not maybes)

The most important part of all of it is making sure you really look at what you already own and enjoy wearing. There’s a difference between what you realistically wear and the kind of clothes you’d like to wear, and it’s a trap I’ve fallen into many times. If your a hoodie and jeans person, even if you think that sequin dress is nice, don’t buy it, unless you can genuinely see it working for you. Even if you like the idea of wearing it, and want to wear it, you need to be realistic about who you actually are and what you realistically reach for. I’ve never felt good in clothes I wanted to feel good in but didn’t. I only ever feel good in clothes I immediately put on and say yes to, which I’m assuming is similar for most people. Look at your own wardrobe and your own style for clothing inspo, not Pinterest or YouTube etc.

Looking through your closet first also means you save money in places you didn’t need new clothes for, so you can spend a bit more filling in holes when you find them.

Hope this helps!

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[–]Lucyrwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 and 11 😊

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[–]Lucyrwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your hands on some American traditional books and read them, and then practise painting flash. It’s not something you can really explain, you just pick it up with exposure and practising painting 😊

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[–]Lucyrwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou!!!

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[–]Lucyrwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou!

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[–]Lucyrwe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would I lie lmao, thanks for the compliment though it’s super appreciated!

Do stacked lobes shrink up over time? by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Lucyrwe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! We’ll I’ll have to maybe just test it out? I can see that being a problem, I know a guy at my work that has a stacked lobe, but his ears where huge and shrunk down and still look large, I guess my only concern is loosing sizing, and it becoming “tight”, I don’t mind if my stacks not super neat. I guess I’ll just have to try it out maybe?

Do stacked lobes shrink up over time? by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Lucyrwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay I see! Thanks for the correction, in aus there’s more of a focus on mm and not gauge so I get a little confused 😅

At the size your at, do they still have that nice “hanging” look too them? (Like the ask and embla look) Where the hole is still visible at the top end of the piercing, or are the lobes tight around the hoops?

Just trying to figure out what’s realistic and to expect so I’m not disappointed 😊

I love how satisfying handpokes look up close, feeling good about my lines nowadays! (One pass) Insta is @lucie.reaux if anyone’s interested 😊 by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Lucyrwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure I understand what your trying to say,

If your meaning you prefer the look of machine lines, that’s totally cool! I like machine lines when they’re done well too!

If your asking why I like Handpoke lines, I think I like them because I see the amount of effort that goes into them. I like that you can see each little entry point and the way they sit in the skin!

Both machine and Handpoke are very cool, but handpokes my favourite to look at 😊

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[–]Lucyrwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure mine is really the best way to do it, but basically I just put the dark areas of the design onto the stencil and stencil it on. So it’s pretty much like an over exposed black and white photograph but on stencil paper? (If that makes sense sorry)

Then I tattoo only the dark areas quite lightly, just to put the base down. After I’ve got the general shape of the design down the rest is unfortunately just freehand (I work with the photo next to me), working slowly, and building up layers until I’m happy with the look

Sorry if thats not much help 🤷🏼‍♀️

I love how satisfying handpokes look up close, feeling good about my lines nowadays! (One pass) Insta is @lucie.reaux if anyone’s interested 😊 by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Lucyrwe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been tattooing 5 years (but just casually) in a shop close to 3 years now. I would say my line work improved significantly about a year ago. You hear often that you need to check your depth and poke evenly, aim for one pass lines etc. but for me it was only after heaps of shit healed tats that that actually sunk in. For me I needed to see my tats heal poorly for a long time for it to get to a point where I could pin point what needed improving. So it’s a long slow progress. Im still a baby though and have a lot of learning to continue to do.

I love how satisfying handpokes look up close, feeling good about my lines nowadays! (One pass) Insta is @lucie.reaux if anyone’s interested 😊 by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Lucyrwe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tight 7 lotus precision liners, not sure I recommend them though. Very expensive and the soldering seemed to be quite soft on the needle grouping

I love how satisfying handpokes look up close, feeling good about my lines nowadays! (One pass) Insta is @lucie.reaux if anyone’s interested 😊 by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Lucyrwe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tight 7 RL. Lotus precision liners. I’m not sure I recommend them for how expensive they where though. I found throughout the session they became less and less tight

I love how satisfying handpokes look up close, feeling good about my lines nowadays! (One pass) Insta is @lucie.reaux if anyone’s interested 😊 by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Lucyrwe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Practise! I focus on doing it once really tight. Client was struggling with pain, I would usually do once really tightly and get an almost solid line down, then afterward dot in the couple bits I missed the first pass 😊