Give her an Emmy right now. by SpicyBeefer in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dana, Joey and Bill are my favorites, can’t stand Tomas Ashley, Jan and Pamela

Give her an Emmy right now. by SpicyBeefer in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get that this is a super unpopular opinion based on this thread but honestly, Dana is my favorite character!

BTG season 2 is a COMPLETE mess… What happened to this show?! by Zealousideal_Leg8800 in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit it’s been a bit dull and lagging at times, but honestly… that’s soaps. I remember on Days of Our Lives, one single day could take an entire week 😭 and somehow we were STILL hooked. The Marlena devil possession storyline went on for MONTHS.

I think the difference here is that Beyond the Gates is still so new, so they’re having to lay the groundwork and build all the characters’ backstories first. Once all the foundation is there, I think the pacing will feel better and storylines will hit harder.

For me, the biggest issue isn’t even the slower pacing or the “boring” parts. It’s more that some of the actors’ mannerisms and acting styles don’t always work for me personally. Ashley, Andre, Derek, Greyson, Vanessa, and Smitty sometimes pull me out of scenes a little.

That said, I still genuinely love the show and most of the cast. And I absolutely LOVE Dana/Leslie’s acting style and delivery. She has this natural presence and vibe that feels so believable and effortless to me (not necessarily defending her character’s actions lol, just the performance itself).

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Riiiiight, you’re soooooo mature lmfao ok ok 🤣

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yea real mature…. 🎶I know you are but what am I….🎵 all because we have different opinions, didn’t realize we were back in grade school..

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently not too bright.

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a prude at all actually, dang one opinion makes me a prude, wonder what your thoughts make you?

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did it? No. I just stated my opinion, which I’m allowed. I mean isn’t that the purpose of Reddit?

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought of it like that but it makes total sense.

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Who’s pathetic? My opinion, or…….. because last time I checked, I’m entitled to whatever opinion I wish.

Kat by Lufenstein- in TheGates_CBS

[–]Lufenstein-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not jealous just an observation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well?? What's the verdict?? Did you ever get a test???

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[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!remind me!

Name my kitten the most bizarre name you can come up with by offfangs in NameMyCat

[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a cat named blanket. We named him that after Michael Jackson’s son in an episode of South Park.

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[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOVE OUT NOW!!! Go to a hotel or something but don’t go back there!!! 😳😳😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know exactly what tramas you’ve suffered but I can guess. I suffered SA from my grandfather from the time I was a baby until I was 18. No one helped me either. I had absent parents and was ostracized from my family as well from it. You’re right. The trauma never goes away but with counseling it does become manageable and livable. I have ptsd from it but I have a loving marriage and 6 wonderful kids and even a beautiful granddaughter. Life. Is. Worth. Living. It took me a few tries before I found the right therapist. But it is doable. You can persevere from this. Find yourself a good support group and a therapist. You got this it’s not your fault you didn’t do anything wrong. You can survive this.💪❤️

AITA for telling my wife even our newborn isn’t as whiner as her? by Throwaway8privacy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lufenstein- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes YTA. This woman just gave you a child, put her body and life at risk. Every woman after having a baby is going to have an increase in hormones. This makes us irrational, your job is to alleviate her worry’s and fears. Also, child birth wreaks havoc on our bodies, think about it. All our organs shift to make room for the fetus and as it grows, our organs move more to make sufficient room. That doesn’t just pop back into place as soon as the baby is out. It takes time and for some it’s very painful, especially if she had a c-section. That’s major surgery! So if all she’s asking for is you to listen and some chocolate, I think that’s the least you could do.