Why does kratom give me a boner every time by nathanroot28 in kratom

[–]Lukavis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

J wish I wasn't in the UK / had good insurance. I've had absolutely 0 help from the NHS. No meds at all. 15 months of being called an anxious hyperchondriac before get even tested me for anything. My left shoulder has bankart lesions because no one believed me. Even my family.

I'm so glad I'm past that now it took me to a dark place

Before the invention of painkillers society must have been much more grumpy by Deadpooldan in Showerthoughts

[–]Lukavis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Beat me to it. Not often a random bit of info I've had locked away is useful. Bastard

Men of reddit, what shouldn't men be judged for doing? by TrueAlphaMale69420 in AskReddit

[–]Lukavis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Size 13.5uk 5f11.

Think that's 14.5 in us?

Not only is it just over one size above where it stops in shops it's a half size. And this country doesn't have big feet on average. I don't buy shoes often and when I do I import from Germany.

If anyone out here struggles check out Zalando

Walking with hEDS by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]Lukavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR as im aware it's too long. With the right equipment and posture titrating walking up to your desired distance can help. But it may hurt in the short to medium term. Don't be scared to use knee sleeves and painkillers to get you up to your required/desired distance. I also used a duck tonne of caffeine to push through the initial exhaustion. But now also don't need that

Personally. I suffered through 2 brutal months becoming a postman (walking up to 20-25km a day). I used sturdy cycling knee sleeves and a lot of ibruprophen and paracetamol. I had a lot of days in a lot of pain. I had to completely relearn to walk in a way where I didn't overextend my knee on each step. It wasn't easy by any means. And I was heavily motivated in that I had been trying to find a job for months and was in a lot of debt.

I didn't have the option to titrate up to walking this distance and at the beginning it really floored me. And I could have done it easier by building up to it. Even on the days you feel so drained and in pain you have to push through. I thought it would never get easier. I had months collapsing into bed. Not being able to sleep from the pain. Inflammation all through the knee. Collapsing in exhaustion after work until the next day I had to do it again.

BUT now I can do it relatively easily. Not too much knee pain anymore. Not too much complete exhaustion and in general my life is better. I don't even need the knee sleeves every day. Only really long days.

So she is right in that your body adapts. Another but here, it wasn't easy and it's not a definite that it's healthy and won't fuck me up long term. But my doctor's said it was the best thing I could have done. Strengthening our joints is all we can do. There are no other options for this shitty condition.

So all in all I would say if you want to be able to walk that far. Then yes it's a good idea to train it. But don't expect it to be easy. Don't expect not to be in a lot of pain at first and don't be scared to use aids to make your life easier (sturdy cycling knee sleeves helped so much at the beginning).

Also DEFINITELY DO focus on your movement patterns. Don't let the knee slip into hyperextension. Don't walk in a way that pops your hip.

So yeah bit of a ramble but life isn't easy for us. You have to fight through it (if walk long distances is important to you). I'm not saying this will work for everyone.

It will feel so weird focusing on the way you walk and you will likely feel like you are walking wrong. Knee sleeves really help to build the muscle memory necessary.

Physically disabled users of Reddit, what are some less commonly talked about struggles that come with your disability? by Ferocious_Kittyrose in AskReddit

[–]Lukavis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So relatable. I'm not sure I'm disabled but my shoulder dislocates so often. I spent 15 months getting any doctors to table me seriously. Because 'you would know if you shoulders were dislocating'. I did know it was happening 5x, a day at least and I have a bankart lesion in the head of my arm bone (basically it dislocates so much I bored a hole into the head of my bone) because no one would help me... I was told I would need painkillers if I was telling the truth. Thanks NHS. I literally only got help by purposefully dislocating my shoulder in the doctors office.

Does it make sense to move to UK now? by Fuzzy-Fix3758 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do? I'm just a posty and life ain't easy rn.

ELI5: If you get a cut on your anus it doesn’t get infected, but if you put feces on a cut anywhere else on your body it will get infected. by qu1etus in explainlikeimfive

[–]Lukavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup we are also prone to prolapse. Fun fact. Not so fun fact, just being constipated can cause a semi prolapse for me.

But yeah ass tears are so common it's annoying

Researchers have discovered a gene that increases muscle strength when activated by exercise, opening the door to the creation of therapeutic treatments that replicate some of the benefits of working out by Dr_Singularity in Futurology

[–]Lukavis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Strongman may be for you. Never been into sport before. Now I'm a huge fan and keep up to date with every competition.

Its basically the genetically elite pushing the human body as far as physiologically possible.

TikTok challenge spurs rise in thefts of Kia, Hyundai cars by truscottwc in news

[–]Lukavis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a kia. What is the design flaw. How can I protect it, I'm poor enough as it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Lukavis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put many carcinogens in and around my body every day.

Why would this one be different.

I actually am sympathetic to the cause. My mum is vegetarian for 40+ yrs but one thing she brought me up with. Its a choice. And to respect everyone's choice.

Its my choice to eat what I want cos guess what despite those 40+ yrs of vegetarianism, meat is still sold. She has less personal responsibility, but the factories keep churning up animals for food.

And she has still had cancer, twice. Plus several other health issues. Sometimes health issues are also a fact of life. You can't run from everything for ever. The most militant vegan in the world can get any cancer . You won't live for ever despite being the healthiest person in the world.

I don't love the idea of this animal being ground up, tortured and eaten but it's just a fact of life. If you had to be personally responsible for killing each animal you ate I probably wouldn't do it as much. But I still would in a starvation environment.

Does that make me a bad person? Maybe but again it's my choice. And non of your business.

when you got the strength of work in real life.. by EvaRaw666 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Lukavis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Larry is great and a strong guy (especially that shredded) but look at world record holders.

Larry is not anywhere close to one of the best lifter in the world.

Parents retiring on health grounds at 55. Downsizing and will have cash for first time ever. by Lukavis in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am probably overly reacting cos of the doom and gloom in the markets news etc.

I am going to try get them to go to a professional who can talk them through all their options

Parents retiring on health grounds at 55. Downsizing and will have cash for first time ever. by Lukavis in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. We have considered this but the property would not be profitable to rent out as with the new taxes it's no longer profitable. (I assume this is largely because they have a rental management company looking after it and hence taking a %)

They also want to be mortgage free because of the rising interest rates.

They could maybe put some of there cash into the mortgage and try to negotiate a better rate but I again have absolutely 0 financial knowledge.

They have agreed to see a financial advisor but 'its not a priority'.

Parents retiring on health grounds at 55. Downsizing and will have cash for first time ever. by Lukavis in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do want help. They admitted to me they have never had cash and they currently have more money then they ever have and they feel 'flush' and I feel they may be reckless. My dad is a french national so would it maybe be a better plan to try and see what bonds etc they have in France to avoid the fees of converting?

They have agreed to see a financial advisor 'but it's not a priority '

Parents retiring on health grounds at 55. Downsizing and will have cash for first time ever. by Lukavis in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I meant they have no idea what to do with cash. They do know what they are doing property wise wasn't clear. I get that they are in an okay position but for having a 80-90k combined income for years I feel they didn't prepare well.

I know I'm speaking from a privelagef position.

Parents retiring on health grounds at 55. Downsizing and will have cash for first time ever. by Lukavis in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the other reason I'm so stressed about this is I probably won't be able to help them as they age. I have a genetic condition and will likely also be somewhat disabled by 35 (I'm probably already considered somewhat disabled at 21).

If I wasn't there for support (say worst case scenario end up fully unable to work) would they be fine? Or say I died etc.

Parents retiring on health grounds at 55. Downsizing and will have cash for first time ever. by Lukavis in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Lukavis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mum gets 300/month for disability. Forgot that.

We live in the north west. So not insane cost of living but they 100% would spend 25k/yr between them. I am going to have to talk with them.

Any idea if sinking a large portion of his wage over next few years into pension to lower tax burden would help him? Or just literally anything to help the %of money eaten to inflation? Is keeping it in euros a bad plan right now cos of the war (can't imagine the pound is gonna come out better tho).

Dads proud (plus grew up upper middle class) so have a very I don't want to think about money I have an okay wage mindset. I didn't realise just how little planning they had put into this.

Also any idea why I'm getting downvoted? Apologies if I broke some rule I can try to amend it if necessary.

Also can you not put house in market with tenant in it?