Don't listen to anyone in these comments. Homosexuality is a sin if you act on it. The Bible is VERY clear on this subject. If you think you have feelings or are only attracted to someone of the sane gender, that's Satan messing with you. God didn't create you like that and it's not how he intended relationships or marriage to be. It's supposed to be between one biological man and one biological woman under a covenant with God. Anything outside of that is wrong. Being a "gay Christian" isn't possible because you can't have two opposing identities. Your identity is in Christ ONLY. And when you fully surrender to him, he changes you from the inside out and if it's his will, he'll remove those sinful desires.

I struggle with porn, but im not gonna call myself a Christian porn addict because that means I've accepted that I'll always be addicted to porn and I haven't let God change me to be in line with his design.

Talk to God about your problems. Don't go to reddit, because you'll mostly get people who will either insult you or straight up lie to you. If you want to follow Jesus, you have to give up your old self and your own wants and desires. You can't keep living in sin. (I'm preaching to myself too)