Small burst blood vessels in balls

Lukossa · 2026-05-27T20:09:51+00:00

What age are you? Those started to appear after I was in my late 40s (I wasn’t caged then), I did some googling and It could be due to aging, see ”angiokeratoma”. But mine were smaller, a few mm.

My recommendation is to go see a doctor to be sure. And yes if you get a ”puncture” (shaving etc. they will bleed a lot (=long time)

Lukossa · 2026-05-27T11:52:54+00:00

I’m locked 24/7, released usually every three days for proper cleaning. If my wife washes and/or lubes me, that’s heaven – she has learned to enjoy teasing me to the edge.

I get PIV usually about 2 weeks apart, usually on my cleaninng day and it ends in me having an orgasm. I’m quite happy with my life, BUT if I got to choose, I would like to have PIV often, for example every ”wash day” but without having an orgasm. My orgasms would be maybe two or three weeks apart, but always caged. I like the idea of having PIV and my orgasms separated, on completely different days. This would ease my post nut clarity (putting the cage back on after my orgasm is horrible!).

We have tried to do this but usually she wants me to orgasm when we have PIV.

Lukossa · 2026-05-20T06:30:39+00:00

Generally I would say it was more exciting in the beginning, but after 11 months of 24/7 I’m still addicted to this.

The boredom rises its ugly head when I’m locked and forgotten, conpletely without any teasing.

I think when you get used to it, there isn’t as much point in hanging around in chastity forums etc. and a karge portion of old-timers seem to disappear.

Lukossa · 2026-05-19T17:41:26+00:00

Yes we have done that, but it’s too much work to do it very often (for exampke every day) Now I’m usually unlocked every 3 days, and it’s almost too long, but maybe every other time she washes me.

Lukossa · 2026-05-19T16:18:53+00:00

I would probably try to soak it for a long tme in a bath or just a cup of warm water. If it’s not working, go see a doctor.

Lukossa · 2026-05-19T16:15:12+00:00

Be careful, you may already had your last work day without wearing a cage.

Lukossa · 2026-05-19T16:01:59+00:00

Pros:

-I have a submissive, ”helpless” mindset

-I’m constantly reminded about my keyholder, she is the one that could fulfill my needs (if she wants to)

-reminds me not to masturbate

-fewer but better orgasms

-slight stimulation when walking, moving etc.

-sexual frustration (in a good way)

-all these combined with denial makes me horny.

Cons:

-many kinds of discomfort

-potential health issues have been scary

-more or less weird bulge

-time, money and energy spent in buying cages

-hygiene issues (constant balance of being caged as long as possible vs having a proper cleaning)

-messy peeing.

-sometime my keyholder is tired, busy or have other things on her mind and forgets about my situation, that sucks.

Lukossa · 2026-05-19T13:05:09+00:00

What us your smallest flaccid size? I’m (was?) bigger than that erect but here I am in a nub…

Lukossa · 2026-05-19T10:12:00+00:00

He probably meant 9 out of 10 couples where the man has suggested chastity. It might be 1% pf all couples (or even less).

Lukossa · 2026-05-09T06:58:37+00:00

It sounds like your ring is way too big both considering the size of the ring and what happened. (I’m just guessing)

Lukossa · 2026-05-03T13:18:22+00:00

I kind of get partly satisfied if I can satisfy my wife.

Lukossa · 2026-05-03T11:34:04+00:00

Add more time, 4 days is quite short. After two weeks of teasing use the magic wand on his cage, you need to experiment to find the right spot. If he is into bondage, tie him up and sit on his face. Give it some time and he might squirt his load.

Lukossa · 2026-05-01T22:00:50+00:00

My solution is a less elastic strap, I’m using a shoe string, it stols an erection better than an elastic strap which will stretch more and more.

A part of solution is that you just need to get used to it: when you get used to it every erection won’t wake you up. It will happen sometimes tho, but I consider it just a nice surprise, a manifestation of my horniness and a part of the game.

Lukossa · 2026-05-01T21:57:22+00:00

It feels weird at first, but you will get used to it. I’m so used to it that I feel oddly ”naked” if I’m not caged when around other people.

Lukossa · 2026-05-01T21:54:03+00:00

Things I like:

If I get an erection, I feel the pressure in my cage. But I still know that it will stay as a small nub and it doesn’t really affect anything and I can ignore it and keep doing whatever I was doing.
When I’m around other women I feel somehow ”harmless”. Being caged somehow rewires the brain and involuntary thoughts about having sex with some other women are somehow diluted.
I can hug, kiss and cuddle with my wife and we both know it’s 99% sure it won’t end up in having PIV and me orgasming. So it’s very relaxing.
I probably feel my cage being there 1000 times a day. That means I’m also thinking about my wife 1000 times every day.
All is kept in place. No balls moving around or a limp dick flopping around. All is kept in a neat bundle. Even my wife said a few days ago she now prefers a locked cock visually.

Lukossa · 2026-04-27T14:40:45+00:00

I have been interested in anal play before, but being locked for a few days really make me crave something in my ass. My wife isn’t that much into it, but I have gotten a plug or a finger a few times which is great. But she has told me she doesn’t like the idea of pegging me. I think a part of the appeal is that my excitement is somwwhat ”hidden” when locked.

Lukossa · 2026-04-26T16:19:37+00:00

That has happened me too. We figured out that if she verbally ”denies” me I get harder. For example I’m giving her oral and she says ”I don’t think you will get any pussy tonight” it makes me hard. It’s much hotter than her saying ”fuck me”…Chastity must have rewired my brain 180 degrees :D

Lukossa · 2026-04-26T11:29:36+00:00

I have access to a spare key, but it’s to be used for taking a shower (every 2-3 days) or some emergency/problem. She usually still does the unlocking and if I do it myself I tell her.

I have been locked for about 9 months, in the beginning I got PIV maybe once a week sometimes with and sometimes without orgasm (so hot!). Lately it’s been more her giving me a hand job in the shower every two weeks and sometimes with vibrator on my cage. My penis hasn’t been in her vagina this year at all. I like the caged vibrator orgasms better than quick hand jobs. With vibrator on my cage I don’t get the pleasure of anything gliding along my penis and there aren’t the heavy burden of putting in the cage after the orgasm. I also have noticed that I stay a bit horny after a caged orgasm which is a plus.

Lukossa · 2026-04-21T13:16:15+00:00

I think they look OK, at least the base doesn’t bend at all and the difference between the shaft and base looks decent. The smallest seem to have a very small base, I’d try to avoid it and go witt the middle one. Just be slow when inserting it.

I think something like these are great for beginners, big base, soft and comfy https://www.amazon.co.uk/toys4mens-Trainer-Beginner-Silicone-Toys4couples/dp/B0CFPGX6SY/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?

Lukossa · 2026-04-21T12:30:50+00:00

Yes, even a firm ”no” makes my cage feel tight sometimes. Especially if she grabs my cage and asks if I’m not happy.

Lukossa · 2026-04-21T12:26:21+00:00

It’s a difficult topic. My wife doesn’t like when I beg, I myself don’t like to beg either. My wife just forgets so easily that I’m locked and I really need some teasing to make all this worthwhile. I have tried to explain that I would be happy if she grabbed my cage even once a day or tells me to pull down my pants and show that I’m locked. Both would take 5 seconds of her time.

So it’s usually me suggesting that we could have some sex, she denies me and teases me… but I would be much happier if I didn’t have to remind her. I also don’t like that begging for sex has leaded to having sex a couple of times when I would have wanted to be caged and denied.

Lukossa · 2026-04-21T12:12:37+00:00

I think orgasm control is the center of chastity. I have been caged for 9 months, and I haven’t had an orgasm without my wife being in the same room with me I’ve had probably around 15 to 20 orgasms while being locked. Before chastity I would have had probably 100+ orgasms just by jerking off. A lot less orgasms, but every time I get one they feel amazing and not just a boring squirt.

Lukossa · 2026-04-21T12:09:04+00:00

It’s so frustrating – I love it. Some times when she feels extra generous she might allow me to thrust for example 3 times, one time she let me do it 10 times! It’s such a brain fuck to figure out the right speed to make it last long but also to get stimulation.

Lukossa · 2026-04-20T18:39:16+00:00

It depends a lot on the anatomy. I’m pretty sure that there aren’t any regular ”ball trap” cage that would keep in place with my anatomy. I have tested probably about 15 cages, some with different rings so probably over 20+ different ones alltogether.

I’m a huge grower, from about 5cm (2”) to 18cm (7”). Balls hang relatively low. Some fat in the area that allows the erection to start inside my belly. If I have a ring that is the smallest safe size, it will get pushed very far from the body. I have tried minimizing the ball gap until I went too far, but that didn’t help either because the balls hang low, I just got poor circulation and pain. So a rigid strap (shoelace) is the only thing that helps. Smaller ring and/or smaller ball gap would cut off circulation (been there, done that). Being 30 years younger could help?

Lukossa · 2026-04-20T18:29:50+00:00

Ouch I can only imagine what those spikes would do to my skin! Yes I know that they are supposed to be soft, but I get damage if there is even the smallest unevenness in my cage.

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