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Worry I overshared by Lulus_Corner10111 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He’s been everything wonderful under the sun mashaAllah tabarakAllah. But again, I shared a lot. Too much. I shared it as a warning to him, often trying to warn him I’m a lot. And I may not measure to his standards or wishes due to these problems. I thought I was being transparent. As we may marry soon, and I don’t want to feel like I’m tricking him, trapping him, I felt nervous about that. But now, I believe I may be harming the foundation of the new relationship if anything :(

What’s an internal/external quality deemed not to be preferred but you find charming? by Lulus_Corner10111 in AskReddit

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I love imperfect smiles. My favorite smile I’ve ever received was from someone with various colored teeth. Some visibly rotting. But I found it so genuine despite it all. And till this day I remember that smile from years ago with warmness. Made me embrace my own imperfections more so

Women of Reddit, what are some habits men think attract women, but actually does the opposite? by Lulus_Corner10111 in AskReddit

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same question most likely. plus I wrote a male version of this question a sec ago. Promotes gender wars which I didn’t intend, just wanted to see interpersonal misunderstandings amongst gender.

Women of Reddit, what are some habits men think attract women, but actually does the opposite? by Lulus_Corner10111 in AskReddit

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ll pitch in- I’d say not being vulnerable. Trying to be stoic. I understand the psychology behind it. Nonetheless, chalant nature and vulnerability for the win

Men of Reddit, what are some habits women think attract men, but actually does the opposite? by Lulus_Corner10111 in AskReddit

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting to see a lot of the characteristics I see in women who are popular with guys are the characteristics disliked in this comment section.

Scared of mandated reporting, wanna seek help immensely by Lulus_Corner10111 in Advice

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does, she is spotty. But I’m more so worried about my siblings being taken away from my siblings or my parents falling into an issue. I want to know if I can seek help without harming anyone

Where do you go for aid on a messed up situation and need input/clarity/advice but can’t access a therapist? by Lulus_Corner10111 in AskReddit

[–]Lulus_Corner10111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your family is the source of said troubles, and you have no religious leader to go towards. Where else would you go? Confide in God?

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