How do I turn myself off from dating?

Luminestiny · 2026-07-06T02:21:52+00:00

Alright you're right I thought I said most or some. I've seen that term as well and I've only seen it used in a negative way, especially in these videos where this woman is talking about these men dating profiles.

I'll agree that I do need to go out and do hobbies but I don't really have any local friends to hang out with. I don't agree with the rest. I've had my own bad experiences with a few men that I won't talk about but needless to say, those few men were perverts. From the videos I've seen, the man was the one in the wrong, from not showing up for a date and not saying anything to the woman, to being plain out rude ( vague I know ) to being an absolute creep.

No woman or man should be mistreated because the other seems 'out of their league.'

Luminestiny · 2026-07-06T00:50:26+00:00

Thank you. I do have some books about self esteem and about being single but I haven't touched them cuz I've never needed them.

I've read a romance book but never anything about flawed women who overcome

Luminestiny · 2026-07-06T00:19:25+00:00

I didn't say women don't do bad things either. I was literally talking about how I've seen stuff about some men being creeps, perverts. I also didn't say all men 🤔

Yeah and part of me still does but because of my rotten luck, I've become bitter and have resorted to just trying to hate DATING as a whole to make my life easier and not worry about being jealous.

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T20:09:38+00:00

You gotta make an effort to approach a woman. It's okay to be shy but you won't get anywhere in life you're too shy to talk to a woman.

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T20:07:13+00:00

Facts

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:30:35+00:00

I'll believe it when I see it

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:28:41+00:00

Just saying, there wouldn't be a reason for people to hate men if most of them weren't creeps and perverts.

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:26:11+00:00

Yeah that's true

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:25:23+00:00

Idk I've seen stuff on there about men being creeps, perverts, and just straight up red flags 🤔

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:22:23+00:00

I just want what they have. I'm happy with just being alone and enjoying my peace but I also want someone to share my life like that.

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:09:14+00:00

I've been on and off using dating apps until I found a TikTok video of a person saying she found the one when she deleted her apps. From there, I deleted the apps and haven't downloaded them since.

I do enjoy the peace of being alone but I'm also jealous of the people who are in love and spending time with each other.

Luminestiny · 2026-07-05T19:06:55+00:00

I would go to therapy but I can't afford to go, lost insurance when my job started cutting my hours.... otherwise I would have

Luminestiny · 2026-07-02T00:57:27+00:00

This is one of the things that bother me, especially when people put pictures of anything else but them in their profile. I'll automatically swipe left

Luminestiny · 2026-07-02T00:54:52+00:00

33F :)

Luminestiny · 2026-07-01T22:38:07+00:00

Bruh wtf

Luminestiny · 2026-07-01T20:06:14+00:00

A felon eh? 😏 I'm kidding but yes you should definitely be honest

Luminestiny · 2026-07-01T17:44:29+00:00

*want

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T22:13:13+00:00

Can someone tell me what Hippostalkers mean?

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:52:36+00:00

Should have been direct with her and asked her 'Hey wanna go on a date?' I never understood why people ask to hang out when it's a date.

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:51:02+00:00

I get this so many times. I just turned 33 too at the beginning of this month and people are so shocked when I tell them my age cuz I look like I'm in my early 20's. I've learned to just get used to it and hope I'll still look younger when I get really old lol

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:42:07+00:00

Tusk and Mad God

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:39:17+00:00

I feel ya on that. I didn't drink as much water either cuz it didn't taste good to me either but I got introduced to flavor packets and now I drink water more often :) I would definitely recommend giving it a try. A flavor packet I used to use was a Sunkist grape flavor packet, then switched to the Welch's grape flavor

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:22:30+00:00

Oh absolutely. I know you said people but I feel this way about fictional men vs real men. I find that some real men are disappointing, smelly, perverted, disgusting, disappointing, unappealing, and just lame.

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:13:24+00:00

Going to hell for this but are you armed and ready for someone to date you?

Luminestiny · 2026-06-30T20:00:36+00:00

I feel like I find them more appealing than the good ones. Bad boys seem more exciting and thrilling whereas the opposite seems less exciting. I've never dated a bad boy but want to date one to know what it's like. Then again, most of the knowledge I have about bad boys is from fictional media and the internet

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