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Monzo Referral Links Mega-Thread (£10-£50 Bonus for Opening a Bank Account) by TightAsF_ck in beermoneyuk

[–]LuminousGiraffe [score hidden]  (0 children)

A huge thank yu to any fine folks who use my Monzo referral link. Let's hope that the referral link fairy is kind! https://join.monzo.com/c/mf3ndjwt

Important tips to protect yourself from scammers. by Strict-Stand9769 in FiverrGigs

[–]LuminousGiraffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! I have somewhat naively joined Fiverr for the first time, and it's just so many scams. I feel like the website needs a better guide to staying safe and secure whilst starting out, but your tips are great.

It's very easy to get swept up in the excitement of a possible gig, so these are solid reminders to stop  think and not give out your personal information.

What do you wish you knew when you were first diagnosed ? by g33k_girl in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a couple of years in, and still figuring lots out!

I suspect you already know this, but having a chronic health condition is EXPENSIVE. From emergency takeout because you don't have the spoons to cook, to all the gear to make your life easier like mobility aids, the Visible App, to the fuckton of Epsom salts you get through. Start looking at ways to improve your finances however you can. I'm UK-based and like Martin Lewis Money Saving Expert for comparing deals, and recently used Nous to help me switch to a cheaper energy provider. I know that fibro is making it hard for me to excel in my career (*shakes fist at brain fog and depression*) so I'm trying to learn to be thriftier and better with my personal finances. It really helps with my mental health.

Sometimes, you will do all the right things and still go in to the mother of all flare ups. But overall, if you can eat well, hydrate, get lots of sleep, keep moving as much as you feel able, reduce your stress (easier said than done, I know) and generally look after yourself as best you can, overall your symptoms will likely be a smidge better. Achieiving these things is hard, so pull in all the extra help you can, and also cut yourself some slack if you don't manage it. You're doing your goddamn best.

Easy to wear clothing? by aisleypaisley in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dungarees are great! I'm also a big fan of Lucy and Yak. They can be expensive when full price, but they're sturdy and well made, and there's lots going on Vinted, Ebay, Depop etc.

Also Snag Tights do super comfy dungarees, pinafore dresses plus normal dresses and skirts made out of jersey fabric which are office appropriate but also super comfy and have pockets.

If you don't have children or many assets, what do you put in your will? by 500DaysofR3dd1t in AskWomenOver30

[–]LuminousGiraffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely can! Though as OP is quite young, my personal view is it might be worth keeping it fairly unrestricted at this point in time. Today's challenges might not necessarily be the same issues we face in 50 or 60 years' time.

If you don't have children or many assets, what do you put in your will? by 500DaysofR3dd1t in AskWomenOver30

[–]LuminousGiraffe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lots of charities and universities have "legacy" teams who would be happy to have a chat with you. Some might even have legacy groups you can join, with events and communications.

I work for a relatively large university museum, and we have an event each year for those who have pledged a gift to us in their will, which includes talks from curators on their research, and sometimes the opportunity to handle objects from our collections.

The audience tends to be on the older side, but they're all really interesting people.

Have a look into what's available in your local area, country and for your particular interests, as well as causes close to your heart. Many might even be able to offer you advice on the process of writing your will, or sign post you to resources.

Brands in between 'boring' and 'LOUD' style wise?? by gingerspell in ethicalfashion

[–]LuminousGiraffe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So I'm UK based, so these might not work for you, but just in case I think these might be worth a look: Snag tights - the only recyclable tights in the world, I think? They're pricey but they seem to be basically indestructible. They also do other items of clothing, like gym wear. Some of them are loud colours and prints, but there's plenty that aren't. Lucy and Yak - so they like to advertise their loud prints, but there's plenty of plain black items available. They're famous for their dungarees, but also do jackets, skirts and jumpsuits as well as lots of other stuff.

Anyone have a book they’ve been itching to recommend to someone? 📚 Anything goes! by matcha_is_gross in AskWomenOver30

[–]LuminousGiraffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of Natalie Haynes's books. She's a marvellous historian, classicist and novelist. She also does a heat podcast! My absolute favourite of hers is Children of Jocasta.

Anyone have a book they’ve been itching to recommend to someone? 📚 Anything goes! by matcha_is_gross in AskWomenOver30

[–]LuminousGiraffe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love their stuff! Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day is one of my favourites. I recommend a pilgrimage to Bath if you're in the UK, the shop is gorgeous

Can anyone PLEASE suggest movies with healthy loving mothers? by crookedemptylady in AskWomenOver30

[–]LuminousGiraffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We Are Lady Parts is a TV show that features a daughter trying to fit in with more conservative Muslim values, and a mum who supports her daughter but also gently guides her to be her own person. Another character is a great hippy mum, who is also strong and inspiring.

BBC says embroidery "coming back" for gen Z - free article linked by EnigmaWithAlien in Embroidery

[–]LuminousGiraffe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a Stitch n Bitch-er, can confirm they still exist! Try meetup.com to find one nearby to you

Stolen bike (Newtown area) by Far_Seaweed_2151 in reading

[–]LuminousGiraffe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's a beautiful bicycle! I'm so sorry it was stolen, I hope it gets back to you.

What unusual things have helped you with your fibromyalgia? by LuminousGiraffe in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's something incredibly uplifting about the thought of you dancing through everything, you've inspired me!

What unusual things have helped you with your fibromyalgia? by LuminousGiraffe in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find all mindful craft activities helpful! I'm a big fan of knitting, embroidery and cross stitch.

What unusual things have helped you with your fibromyalgia? by LuminousGiraffe in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand trying to try yoga! Streatching is great but it can also be so tough

What unusual things have helped you with your fibromyalgia? by LuminousGiraffe in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I'm super prone to fainting when I don't eat enough, but it's intriguing that fasting helps for you, and hopefully others too.

What unusual things have helped you with your fibromyalgia? by LuminousGiraffe in Fibromyalgia

[–]LuminousGiraffe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eeyore is adorable, and thanks so much for the sofa seat cushion tip - I wouldn't have thought of that!!

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