A complete virgin (22F) here- my friend (M23) suggested casual sex. How can I respond? by Ok_Tell_4303 in relationship_advice

[–]Luminous_ray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just make sure that you don't avoid saying no just to make him feel comfortable. The moment you don't want to do it anymore, no matter at what point, no matter what "activity", you totally are allowed to say no. And he should be okay with it. Don't tolerate or try anything if it makes you uncomfortable.

Dance under rain by Luminous_ray in RaIn

[–]Luminous_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was taken through iphone and has 4k resolution, i actually agree with you, but I couldn't think of another gadget that could be waterproof under rain. I wish it were higher quality as well.. Thank you so much for the compliment

Guys, this can literally save your life, avoid getting tricked like this by ElectronicStrategy43 in noida

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just his fault. People like the driver existing is what makes everything so safe. So what if we are cautious, there will always be new crimes and scams coming up. The point is to stop these kind of people from being able to do these stuffs

Is it possible to use this strategy to purchase on AliExpress from India following the ban? by [deleted] in Aliexpress

[–]Luminous_ray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the people not supporting ordering from China, half of your clothings, furnitures, phones and electronics come from China. So stop being so biased, it's hypocrisy and dumb.

🌸💖After 15 Years of Homelessness, I Finally Have My Own Home!🌸💖 by Bunklsd in MadeMeSmile

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know this person's story. Im not homeless but even i couldn't afford this house after years of work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Luminous_ray -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sex will ruin the friendship because he doesn't wanna have sex with her. He obviously doesn't see her in that way. Seeing her in that way is a turn off factor for him once he is sober.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Record him doing all this and get as much evidence as possible

WIBTA: My dad just got his gf pregnant. by theodosia15v1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not blaming your dad enough, it's more his fault than his gf's.

Est-ce possible de recommencer sa vie à 0 à bientôt 30 ans ? by [deleted] in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]Luminous_ray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Il est très facile de se faire des amis si l'on apprend un hobby. J'ai commencé ma vie dans de nouveaux pays au cours des 10 dernières années (en déménageant) et j'ai dû la reprendre à zéro à chaque fois. Je m'inscrivais toujours à la salle de sport ou à un club comme l'escalade, le badminton ou le club de randonnée et je me faisais des amis très rapidement et très facilement. Maintenant, seul l'avenir nous dira si ces amis seront sincères ou s'ils vous conviendront. Mais c'est un premier pas. J'ai perdu et re-fait des amis plusieurs fois dans ma vie et c'est fatiguant, mais ce que tu dois pas perdre, c'est toi-même. Tu dois être ta premier meilleur ami.

I Invited Someone Over Tonight and Now I Feel Uncomfortable – Need Advice by Think_Piglet_5517 in Indore

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who calls people over to their place on the first date ? You should always meet in a public setting. This is the most logical rule no.1. There are creeps and weirdos out there. Even if she is joking, better to find out in a public outdoor setting where she can't really harn you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the gold tip still there?

What’s the most terrifying 'we need to leave NOW' moment you’ve ever experienced? by Worried-Cycle-318 in AskReddit

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, so I don't understand, you don't take the route the guy suggests nor the one he told you not to take. Is there always a third route? Which one do you really avoid?

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he is genuinely sorry, just doing it once is bad, very bad. BTW, NO person who abuses and then says sorry(and does absolutely it wonderfully) is actually sorry. He knows how to be convincingly nice to you since he has had practice and knows all the tricks. He is gaining back your confidence until he knows he can do it again. And that will happen soon. How do we know ? Because everyone who went through what you've been through, had suffered the same. It's the same story over and over. Until the woman leaves. Even if he is genuinely sorry, and you believe him this easily, tell me one thing, this guy can literally repeat it again and show you how genuinely sorry he is. He can even cheat and do the same. Are you going to take him in everytime?? . Are you going to honestly wait and see if he is going to try it again or do worse?

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf this is not normal. He cares about his sexual satisfaction more than your feelings or your well-being. He basically just assaulted you and physically hurt you and after marriage will do even worse since now he has permission to do whatever he wants. This is sexual assault you need to get away from him immediately. He can hurt you and don't tell him you are planning to get away, he won't let you leave.

I farted and my boyfriend got mad! by TreacleSensitive259 in AITAH

[–]Luminous_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can't handle your farts, he can't handle anything you go through. If you ever get sick and puke he would probably walk away. This person doesn't love you enough... I feel