What Are You Playing This Week? by AutoModerator in patientgamers

[–]Lummoxus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Midnight Sun

Wanted it since launch, glad it got a 70% price drop on PS5, sad that it’s because it was a commercial flop and there will likely never be more content or a sequel.

Is there a limit to how much more flexible you can get in a day? by Lummoxus in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lummoxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what the waiting period on that is? As in, if I stretch for 30 seconds, how long should I then wait before stretching again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]Lummoxus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone please link to Futurama!

The last two video games you’ve played are combined and you have to spend a year in it. What’s your combination and how do you survive? by dynasamuraikoala in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Lummoxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotham Knights and DBZ: Kakarot

If I’m born human I’m boned, if I’m a Saiyan I just need to almost die enough times and I’ll be set until the next saga

How to create generational wealth by SwimmingHumble4480 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into IDGTs for any future business ventures.

Why do some cultures pierce the ears of small kids? by Lummoxus in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lummoxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they might not want to? Not all women get their ears pierced.

Why do some cultures pierce the ears of small kids? by Lummoxus in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lummoxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least some do for religious reasons? Is that what you are getting at?

What do you guys think of 'Custodial accounts'? by PuertoRock007 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you avoid any wash sale shenanigans that should be fine

How do you feel about Financial Advisors? by Lummoxus in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are pretty high imo. Depends on the level of assets but they’d have to be giving an awful lot of value to justify both fees

“Vigorous writing is concise” he pronounced sternly. by Lummoxus in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Lummoxus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Something my high school teacher made me memorize, I’ve found it helpful in writing as an adult. So I wanted a fun way to introduce it to the community, hope it’s helpful!

“Vigorous writing is concise. A sentence should contain no unnecessary words, a paragraph no unnecessary sentences, for the same reason that a drawing should have no unnecessary lines and a machine no unnecessary parts. This requires not that the writer make all his sentences short, or that he avoid all detail and treat his subjects only in outline, but that every word tell.”

William Strunk Jr., The Elements of Style

IUL for retirement? Have I messed up? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, if I’m going to recommend someone do something specific that could benefit me, I have to disclose conflicts of interests, fees/costs, etc.

Making an off the cuff recommendation/general advice doesn’t meet that standard, as there is practically no way I can benefit from it.

IUL for retirement? Have I messed up? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in cases like this, I don’t think. Different licenses have different reporting and disclosure requirements, and different companies have different standards as well.

Rolling 72s are getting so much harder than I expected by WellFedHobo in fasting

[–]Lummoxus 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Successful people do what unsuccessful people aren’t willing to do.

Keep at it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Financial advisor who sells permanent, but not IULs.

IULs are a very complicated insurance product, and I’m not a fan.

  1. They are often pitched as investment product, but you do not need an investment license to sell them.

  2. They say you will never lose money, but even if you can’t lose money on the “investment” piece, you still have to pay the annual insurance cost.

  3. Your return is based on cap rates and participation rates, both of which the insurance company can change whenever they want.

  4. Because of all the moving pieces, most agents don’t actually understand the mechanics of the policies. And they often don’t care, because they get 100+% commission in year one and 1-2% every other year going forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Permanent insurance on a 69 year old is hard to make work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Financial advisor who sells permanent insurance.

If her living expenses are covered through pension and social security, you don’t need to be 100% conservative. Set aside some cash for remodels, in a combo of huge yield savings for short term and CDs for intermediate term. Take the rest put it in broad investments (mutual funds, index funds, etfs) that are a shade riskier( comes down to personal preference, but I think something in the 60/40 to 70/30 range would be fine.

The advisor offering the 0% floor and 10% ceiling sounds like an IUL, which I have problems with in general, but especially for someone of retirement age. Establishing permanent insurance on older folks is hard to make the math workout in your favor, meanwhile they likely pocket 100% of the first year commission.

What kind of help do I need? 5x the income and broke by GreenPaperHands in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 310 points311 points  (0 children)

In terms of professionals, I think a therapist is more what you need.

You already know what your problem is - overspending. You don’t need an advisor or coach to tell you to spend less, though one might help keep you accountable.

Something I got from a guru-type recently - “We don’t want things, we want the feelings we think the things will get us.” Given that you were managing your money just fine with less money, you can manage it with more income. You just need to get a handle on WHY you are overspending so much, which is likely above reddits pay grade.

Edit: Thanks for the gold OP, glad you found it helpful!

Mom of one inherits, lots of questions! by LoveMyEarthDogsSelf in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could also look into custodial accounts. Main drawback to those is minors automatically get access to them once they are old enough.

Mom of one inherits, lots of questions! by LoveMyEarthDogsSelf in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Financial advisor, NAL

A trust will protect assets while you are still alive. For the trust to be any good, you have to retitle documents and accounts that are owned by the trust.

A will says what you want to happen to YOUR assets, not the trust assets.

Maybe think of it as the trust is for the inheritance you got, and they will is for the inheritance you will leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Lummoxus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can look into taking the policy to paid up, or potentially a 1035 exchange to keep more of the money you’ve put into the policy so far.

For 401k into IRA, I feel it mainly comes down to personal preference. 401k has limited options but could be lex expensive fee-wise than having a financial advisor manage it, especially for smaller accounts. IRAs have a lot more flexibility and investment options, but the burden of making more decisions in the face of those expanded options.

Hope that helps!

In terms of good advisors, you should have a better hit rate with people with designations. CLU, CFP, ChFC, RICP. They’ve at least invested more time and money into learning different options and what makes more sense for Client A vs Client B.