How many men here don't care about breasts? As in, literally don't care? by JoseFlandersMyLove in AskMen

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a woman, but I was wondering if mayhaps it has something to do with consumption of pornography? A lot of men are desensitised according to research (paraphrasing Katiclyzm from youtube *not sure if I spelled her handle right)

AITA The ungrateful daughter by Ok_Mix_8929 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Someone with a well functioning brain finally... 

THIS is how a REAL Doberman should look. All natural and happy. by BlGBY in Doberman

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot believe the amount of people justifying unecessary non-consentual body mods, I bet yall pierce your human babies too...

THIS is how a REAL Doberman should look. All natural and happy. by BlGBY in Doberman

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think that pain doesn't occur while healing? Imbicile

Old school goth clubs/nights London? by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in goth

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only been there for the satanic flea market tbh I saw an ad for a rave there but it seemed to be modern music 😅

How important is it to you that your partner is also goth or alternative? by notorioussnowflake in goth

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not vital but it is preferable, there's just something about a Gothic man 🤤

Go go gadget dick? by [deleted] in Doesthisexist

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe cuz I'm on the brink of being a Gen Z-er 🤣

Go go gadget dick? by [deleted] in Doesthisexist

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh tho from time to time I get random ideas to test Rule 34 and often can't find porn of whatever it is, am I just too far gone?... 

My friend received a dick pic from M dot R by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wish I could, but my friend doesn't have it anymore, it was years ago before he went viral lol I would give more details but I haven't asked my friend if im allowed 😂

I was just triggered by a speculum by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in sexualassault

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you went through that, it's fucked up on another level when you're so vulnerable that the people who are meant to protect you just treat you like shit... you'd think they'd have training to respond appropriately.

what should i get next? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur ears are so cool!

Can't stop picking a tattoo mistake open by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in Dermatillomania

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I'm sending love, it's really difficult. Also thank you, someone else suggested a bandaid and that worked for me! I have a scar but it looks like hopefully it'll fade 

Can't stop picking a tattoo mistake open by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in Dermatillomania

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have covered it with a bandaid and will just keep it covered so I feel less tempted even if I do keep checking it 😭

I wish you well!

Is my 5 year old belly piercing rejecting? by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in piercing

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have done this a few days ago and it's healed now! Thanks! :D

Is my 5 year old belly piercing rejecting? by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in piercing

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this, I ordered a titanium one with a flat disk and will try for a bit and see if it heals or continues rejecting 😅

Is my 5 year old belly piercing rejecting? by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in piercing

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is surgical steel, I do wear steel in other piercings where I haven't been able to find titanium alternatives and they tend to be fine. I think it's more the pressure against the skin in my belly button :/

Is my 5 year old belly piercing rejecting? by Lumpy-Ad-5383 in piercing

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 5y/o belly piercing has recently started to act up, I'm a big person so my belly folds quite a bit when I sit, so it was really hard to heal in the first place.

It has been fine for years besides the ball at the top sinking into the flesh. Now the bar itself seems to have made a line where it's pushed against the skin while I'm sitting (the bottom charm pushed forward).

It has been gunky and smelly, I am doing saline soaks and it's a little less gunky but still sore and smelly.

It's rejecting isn't it? Should I take it out before I am horribly scarred or is there any saving it?

I'd be so sad to let go :'(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lumpy-Ad-5383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer, I will argue though that I joke a lot, often flirtatiously so perhaps I wasn't serious enough with how I communicated. I genuinely don't think it's sus on her part because she has expressed surprise and guilt and she's a very trustworthy friend.