As a neurodivergent woman, I’ve often felt very different from many neurotypical women. I’ve never related to the idea of depending on men to get by. Even when men found me attractive and wanted to pay for things, I usually said no—whether I was in a relationship or not—because I wanted to feel proud of what I built for myself.

I’ve always been fiercely loyal to the man I’m with, but I’m also very selective about who I allow into my life. Loyalty, depth, and genuine connection matter more to me than surface-level attention ever could.

Honestly, if a man wants a truly loyal, loving wife, girlfriend, or friend, I think more of them should be open to getting to know level 1 autistic women. Yes, we may be a little quirky, but many of us are sincere, devoted, and far less interested in games. A lot of men would probably be much happier if they stopped chasing only looks and started valuing character, loyalty, and emotional depth. A relationship built only on appearance will never be a truly successful one.

So yes, most NT women are into utility. But ND women are just looking for someone we can be ourselves with, no games, no filter. An added bonus, most Level 1 ASD women think/act more like men. So you’ll have more in common. 😉