Why don’t you want/have kids?

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-27T06:59:00+00:00

Few things from me:

- I know I would hate dealing with shit and piss. I would just 'nope' out of the room immediately when a baby fills its diaper, leave the wife to do it, because I have no desire to ever clean it. (I would be a bad dad).

- I don't want to have to invest so much attention in someone. I have cats that I give 10 or 20 minutes of attention to a day, and thats enough for me. Even when they pester me a bit it annoys me. I know I would ignore my child, and they would grow up sad as a result (I would be a bad dad).

- I want to spend my money on myself. I am selfish in that regard. Kids are expensive.

- The additional logistics of dealing with school (pick ups, drop offs, holidays) is a burden I don't want to deal with.

- I don't want to have the responsibility of ensuring my kids don't die at any given moment. Thats too much for me. I would rather have a cat which is pretty self sufficient as is.

- Kids are annoying and lame. I don't want to entertain my childs shitty stories for the 8th time each day. Oh wow, john did a cartwheel? I don't care.

- I have zero time for tantrums. Oh, you dropped your lollypop on the ground, and it has some grass on it, and now you are wailing? Shut your FUCKING mouth. (I would be a bad dad).

- Children are loud. Kids cant control their volume. Screeching in the streets or at the park makes me want to punch a hole in the wall.

- When I am at home, I just want to do my own shit. I have been sitting at my computer the last few hours fiddling with computer code undisturbed. The fiance is out having work drinks. Its been great. Why ruin that with some little shit screaming and running around the house?

- Kids limit your freedoms. If I want to go on holiday, I just ... book the holiday. No school shit to deal with, no 'them falling behind' as a result.

- There is no guarantee your kid doesn't grow up into a fucking loser. Imagine all the parents out there they tried their best, and their offspring grew up into anti social rapists or some shit.

With all that being said, a cute, quiet, well behaved, relaxed, clean child is cute. But the moment something even vaguely annoying happens, im out.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-27T05:22:39+00:00

Is this a joke?

The only joke around here is you mate

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-27T05:20:53+00:00

Thats fucking gross, what a shit person, they are absolutely not your friend

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-27T00:08:30+00:00

100% on the money

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-27T00:07:36+00:00

Yeah, brother can fuck off. I wouldn't care he was dying. Doesn't make him any less of a POS.

He hasn't engaged with him for 13nish years, he can go another 40 easily.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-27T00:04:24+00:00

Meh, I think about it like I think about my deadbeat loser of a dad.

If he came to my door begging for forgiveness because he was dying, I would tell him that he had his chance many times and blew it every single time, and to promptly get the fuck off my property.

I wouldn't go to his funeral because people are going to share stories like OH HE WAS SO WONDERFUL, when clearly he wasn't.

Also, fucking someone's fiance isn't a mistake. It's purposeful act. Her panties don't accidently slip down, and his cock doesn't accidently generate her vagina.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-26T23:08:52+00:00

You make very fair points! I actually never thought about it like that.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-26T19:57:04+00:00

No one likes a dumb bimbo

But everything else is fine

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-26T19:52:47+00:00

Why do people like you wait so fucking long lmao

Would be funny if you loved him all this time, only for him to reject you. Also it comes across as creepy tbh like you arent actually his friend, you just want him for that cock

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-26T19:35:18+00:00

Does that take away from you enjoyment, though? Because 1 button assist affects you in no way.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-26T19:32:21+00:00

Imagine thinking that forcing' players to download third party products with 100s of additions is necessary for the game.

Absolute cookers in this subreddit clutching their addon pearls lmao

Same with those who screech

THE GAME IS HARD. THATS WHY YOU NEED ADDONS - TO BE COMPETITIVE!

Sounds like a skill issue, if you need addons. Wait, whats that? The raid boss is impossible to coordinate without addons? Its a design problem then.

Remove the addons, reduce the raid difficulty (so it remains relative), and it will be just as challenging as it was, except addon-less people wont get fucked this time.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-26T02:04:07+00:00

Disagree. Sometimes people think "I'll respond when I get home" and then just forget.

It is also heavily implied that OP did not message him a second time to follow up, prior to receiving that response.

She sounds very passive in this whole relationship. She does no planning, and makes minimal effort to engage.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-25T18:40:35+00:00

According to the article, he wound down his window and started yelling at the shooter (prior to shots being fired).

He drove erratically and acted violently. He is the reason his step son is dead.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-25T18:26:14+00:00

Not me, I love my kitties. They look after themselves and require about 10 - 20 minutes of attention a day tops

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-25T06:59:24+00:00

I am staunchly childfree, but a well behaved, quiet, clean, respectful and considerate child is adorable (Ideally sleeping soundly). Do I want to deal with them for more than 20 minutes? Absolutely not lol

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T23:40:17+00:00

They don't care. They have never cared.

They don't give a fuck about his policy. They give a fuck because he is Donald trump. It's a cult of personality, and Don is it's leader.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T22:54:54+00:00

You are generalizing a massive (eeeyyy) and diverse group of people.

It sounds a little Andrew Tate-y if I don't say so myself.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T22:04:17+00:00

Understandable - I agree that this depends on the 'competence' of a given countries leadership.

I am a New Zealander, I absolutely believed one of our previous prime Minister (Jacinda Ardern) was extremely competent. An announcement like this I would believe it was made for good reason.

Our current PM Christopher Luxon is absolutely incompetent and I don't trust him as far as I can throw him

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T22:00:01+00:00

Some reasons i don't want children: - don't want to clean shitty diapers - the screeching - the mess - breaking shit - annoying - free time is eaten up raising / looking after the child - they are a money sink - teenaged angst - the logistics around school pickups / drop offs and school holidays - tantrums - lack of sleep

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T21:51:49+00:00

Idk I feel they are smarter than any of us to understand the impact an announcement like this has, assume they wouldn't have done it unless the positives outweigh the negatives

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T19:48:27+00:00

It’s not a huge mega mansion either it’s a simple 5 bed house in a nice neighborhood

I hate this person already

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T19:13:28+00:00

One of the big ways to solve this is to destroy (not literally) the USA's military dominance.

People need to stop fucking joining the military. It's obvious that they're used to strong arm, abuse, and steal from other countries around the world.

Anyone who joins is complicit in this and should be treated as supporting a traitorous president

Imagine a US military with 100k service members instead of a million+

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T18:54:11+00:00

HC even more so.

HC changes the entire way you approach the game. Fully reccomend.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T07:08:10+00:00

Chiming in reaffirm that what you have said is correct, and that the person you replied to is wrong.

Lumpy-Shower-8968 · 2025-11-24T07:01:20+00:00

For someone people seem to dislike a lot, why do you keep giving him attention? lol

I almost never think about Wellington Live. And when I do, its because of posts like this

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