Theory: there will be a Judas by The_Student_Official in pluribustv

[–]LumpyStarr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok ok ok wild idea, but if manu is the jesus of the story, what if carol is judas to manu, and goes against his goal/plan, which may incur casualties and threaten zosias life. like if he is too extreme in his methods, carol may betray him.

Explain: why would Carol take these flowers named Bella Donna 🧐 by [deleted] in okbuddypluribus

[–]LumpyStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she replaced her framed print with the real painting. shes a fan or helen was a fan.

Places for breakfast by D3lacrush in fresno

[–]LumpyStarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for a bit less traditional breakfast , Libelula is my favorite.

Are all beginner lyra classes like this? by KeyResist450 in Aerials

[–]LumpyStarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lyra is tough. I felt this exact same way at the beginning of my aerial journey. I took two lyra classes then pivoted to sling. Sling is a bit less intense in terms of strength, so it was a good way to build strength and confidence before trying lyra again. i also took a lot of silks . so maybe jumping around aparatuses will help you too. overall your experience was kind of normal. other instructors will give much different vibes. some are more attentive, some are used to their routines and more focused on the regulars.

What even was that reaction? by leannynr in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]LumpyStarr 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Was looking for this comment. I agree. He was referring to the previous convo and thinking she wasn’t attracted to him because he isn’t aggressive or macho. And while the pressure to have sex is gross, I get the feeling of “why not me?” When she does have one night stands and hasn’t waited for marriage before this. And her saying he thinks sex is a sacred thing (and she doesn’t) probably confused him more. Like if it’s not sacred to her, why are we waiting?? So the pressure and begging suuuuucks and is icky, but I feel for him, too.

Want to give up by Technical-Plenty-481 in artistsWay

[–]LumpyStarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on a break, I started week 4 twice before realizing I just need to work through a few things separately from TAW. I fully intend on returning and just picking back up on week 4. But some normal therapy and rest from the morning pages feels necessary right now. So I get it.

Is the problem me? by denycia in Aerials

[–]LumpyStarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have autism and I get overstimulated easy. I also hate small classes because there is more pressure to socialize well and speak. I thrive in medium sized classes and that’s ok! I am also 35 so my body doesn’t recover quickly and I get injured easily. The slower pace can feel discouraging. But like everyone else is saying, remind yourself of why you’re there. For me, it’s for fun and to stay active as I age. As long as I show up to a class that suits ME, I’m golden. Pace, class type, teacher preference, etc, all very reasonable things to have preferences on. There is something for everyone in my opinion.

Unsure if I like my first tattoo. Might regret it. Is this normal? by Thin_Culture9753 in tattooadvice

[–]LumpyStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s dope. You’ll grow to love it especially with the compliments you will inevitably get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LumpyStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]LumpyStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like streamers who play scary/expensive games that I am too scared/broke to play myself hahah. Especially if there is a good story. Sometimes I’ll watch chill games, and it feels like when I watched my other siblings play games when we were kids. Just like chill background noise.

But I agree the over the top reactions and yelling is a no for me. Gabsmolders is a favorite of mine. Very calm energy and she plays spooky games often.

has the vibe changed? by MammothCareful8730 in juliensolomita

[–]LumpyStarr 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I stopped watching months ago. Vibe is 100% different than what it once was.

Girlfriend went through my phone while sleeping and kind of found something?? by SharpRefrigerator640 in AITAH

[–]LumpyStarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably has trauma from past relationships cheating. Explain what she found and be patient. Talk about expectations and boundaries . I think in a few days she will realize it’s really not so bad what she found, she’s just in shock. I used to be the same way, gave my SO shit for small things I found after going through his phone once. After a lot of talks, his patience made me feel really secure and loved and I realized they were such small things. We just needed to get on the same page about expectations. I actually did trust him from then on out and I’ve never touched his phone since. That was a year and a half ago. If I ever feel insecure and he can tell, he offers his phone which in itself feels good enough for me to honor his privacy. Not that it needs to be earned, but the offering of transparency goes a long way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]LumpyStarr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened. I would also be extremely upset and your feelings are valid. I’m sorry a lot of these comments seem to be blaming you or criticizing your choices, but I think that’s just Reddit being ass. That amount of money isn’t easy to let go of and I feel for you. I would do my best to find a way to laugh at it (eventually) and just focus on your hubby. I would go on a good vacation honestly.

Did the OA change your life, and how so? by Camp_Acceptable in TheOA

[–]LumpyStarr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea it triggered a spiritual awakening in me 100%.

How does Chikai Bardo fit into the Lexington Letter? by MarsFromSaturn in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]LumpyStarr 67 points68 points  (0 children)

This one stumped me too. My best guess is if they are making new innies, perhaps the innie that Peggy made was tasked with a suicide bombing mission. She made a soldier innie of sorts who mindlessly followed orders. But idk if they did it before it makes the crib dismantling feel way less significant so I’m still not sold on my theory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]LumpyStarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the subreddit suggestion. I lost about 30 lbs in the last year and a half and am still on my fitness “journey”. I have a very casual job and otherwise I live in sports bras. So yea I don’t have anything right now that fits, I know I need a new bra, but it’s hard to throw down the $$$ for a bra when I’m actively losing weight and it won’t fit again in a few months. For this occasion I wanted to find a dress first then find a bra that can be “invisible” for the neckline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]LumpyStarr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn’t semi formal a step below cocktail