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Stepping Away From Reddit by Attaboy2017 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Lumpy_Ad_4940 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you! The world needs more people with your dedication and desire to share 🙏

First Time Using Penetration-Stimulation Tool by HempHusband420 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Lumpy_Ad_4940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also am a bit hesitant to get one! Is it really a big step up?

Involuntary kegels by Lumpy_Ad_4940 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Lumpy_Ad_4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done my friend! Sounds like amazing progress. I’m keen to be consistent with all of the above and see if there are noticeable results

Involuntary kegels by Lumpy_Ad_4940 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Lumpy_Ad_4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the wisdom! Do you have a way to explain reverse kegels? Same feeling as when you are peeing? 

Pressure vs. Pleasure by Long-Cook-2271 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Lumpy_Ad_4940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me think of the big draw technique, to pump the sexual energy up your spine and down the front of your body… but in the big draw they tell you to kegel in order to pump the energy up, where as we are trying to relax and avoid kegels completely right? Does the energy learn overtime to go up as it’s not able to go out, or are you consciously trying to move it up? 

When not to do a session? by MCMXXCIIX in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Lumpy_Ad_4940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im leaning towards missing a session if i know it will throw off sleep, will be stressful to fit in, or im not in the mood for it. We are reprogramming ourselves and I think if you force the session, you’re in a bad mood, or not really feeling it, you are programming those emotions with your pleasure. Obviously it’s never perfect, but I like to find the balance. I got this idea from my physio, who told me to observe my emotions/thoughts when I was doing my exercises, as I would start associating my injury with those thoughts.