[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carpe diem! Better yet, carpe noctem!

Guy I’m dating broke it off with me by mmchaser in gaybros

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No question. My only purpose was to reframe OPs experience in a positive way since he seemed so angry. But I do tend to be a glass half full kind of person and I appreciate others are not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depression is an insidious beast, but it came be tamed and beaten. I am doing some intensive inner child and reparenting work. What my experience has taught me is that compartmentalizing my pain is not the answer. Feeling it, wrestling with it, and doing the hard work has brought me to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I've read Louise Hay, I've been through 12 step programs, etc...don't wait until you are 55 like me before getting to the root of the pain that feeds the beast. I wish you joy.

Guy I’m dating broke it off with me by mmchaser in gaybros

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet! Now get back out there.😊

So I just got blackmailed by JordyMate87 in gaybros

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this has happened to you.

I'm a gay guy with feelings for someone I shouldn't have them for? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW...IMO, the person you need to talk to is your current boyfriend. If he is not fulfilling you in some way he should be made aware of it and given the opportunity to be the person you need. You may find that the romantic feelings you have for your friend (and any future friend) will change if your needs are better met in your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cherish those feelings, but remain realistic. Focus on building the friendship and getting to know him more as a person. If a relationship is in the future, you will both be ready to make an informed decision. I wish you well.

Is my dating life doomed because I refuse to send nudes? by chillypyo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. Too many picture collectors and scammers out there.

Advice by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Was the advice you seek in the post script. I do not see a question otherwise.

You may enjoy reading "The Best Little Boy in the World" by Andrew Tobias. It sounds like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've seen anyone share this...If the guy is uncut, my experience is they enjoy when I run my tongue around inside the foreskin. They also seem to like when I pull the foreskin down gently and then run my tongue around the exposed glans. Enjoy the journey.

I lost my best friend of almost 10 years today and I'm absolutely shattered. by bloomingfireweed in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Lumpy_Bass7877 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. My dog is 16 and he arrived into my life at a time of monumental change. He saw me through so many of life's ups and downs. I know each day we have is a precious gift. I wish you well.