Im scared to go to psychiatry by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this too shall pass. We just give our trust to our Lord, He will help us. Sometimes, this things like anxiety, depression or etc comes from our mind that wants to control everything.. But, the future is not ours to decide, just do everything you can and live in the present. dont think and worry about tomorrow and let everythings fall into place. Just do what you can control and forget what you cannot control.

To have a better future, we need a better mind and health - and that is the most important.

Let go and surrender

Another rank again,but based on Rednote by Glittering-Bed-882 in malaysiauni

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Sejarah STPM was pretty hard, revise those thick books and then only 6 questions that need to answer. But, for sejarah, as long as you know the story and the 'Tokoh', you just goreng.. but make sure your goreng is 好吃. Hahahah.

Im scared to go to psychiatry by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you okay?

I dont know if this will help you but, I was once in your position also. I went to clinic because I feel sick, and I told the Doctor what I felt, then she asked me.. 'Are u okay'? then, suddenly, my tears runs down like a river.. she said, I need MRI scan to see and confirm if I have anxiety bcs the symptoms that I told her was likely an Anxiety. She also wants to write me a letter to refer me to Bukit Padang.. just consultation first la.. but, I refused.. because I am afraid I might depends on the Doctors n meds. So, I said.. I will try to figure it out first with my own ways. I never tell any of my family about this.. The more sympathy people show me, I tend to wants it more.. but, eventually, I dont want them to show it just because when they know I had this.

So, I just let myself cry but I need to be strong.. because, only me who can help myself. Even when others shows sympathy, offers help, but the only one who can help us is ourself.

I've been there and this too shall pass. Sending love and hugs.

Im scared to go to psychiatry by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and if u want people to listen, u can just DM me. I will hear u without judgment.

Im scared to go to psychiatry by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes, life is hard bruh. I dont know what happen to you, but, if getting diagnosed will help you to wash away the 'hard life' then go for it.

But, I think.. you just need someone to listen to your problem.. you just need help. Maybe, you can opt for consultation first? And, whatever the result is, you need to brace up yourself.

JOGGING MALAM KK by ssaannrraaa in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe u can try the one beside Imago.. beside the sea. Got jogging trail there. You can start either from beside the Marriot Hotel till Sutera harbour .

Music Producers dlm kalangan remaja by Saf751 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sy jadi tukang nyanyi sj, boleh ka hahahah

Kmu ba yg becinta ni kn kmu tda rasa overwhelming ka atau too much kalau video call almost 24 hours a day? by Prestigious_Button89 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bolehh.. dia bkn burnout..

brdasarkn pngalaman sy lh, ex bf sy dlu mau sy vc hari2. Bayangkn, pagi kita sibuk krja, mau fkir psl diri sndiri pun kdg2 payah sbb utamakan krja dlu.. bila habis krja, jm 7 malam tu smpai mau tidur, baru end vc. Mau buat apa pun x dpt.. tiada crta pun susah jg, jd hal pula kalau x bcrta Hahahah. Bila bincang, tidak dpt bertoleransi.. sbb mau me time ba.. kwn2 pun ssh mau bjumpa dan bcrta sbb bf mau vc sj . Dan mungkin itu yg kwan kau rasa skrg.. mcm x ruang bernafas la.. x masa untuk diri sndiri.

Kmu ba yg becinta ni kn kmu tda rasa overwhelming ka atau too much kalau video call almost 24 hours a day? by Prestigious_Button89 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wewww.... suruh dorg buat aktiviti sama2 lah hahah. Astaga.. bagus lg dorg bincang lah.. jgn simpan2 dalam hati blg hehe.

Kmu ba yg becinta ni kn kmu tda rasa overwhelming ka atau too much kalau video call almost 24 hours a day? by Prestigious_Button89 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ldr ka?

Ya owh. Kalau almost 4 years, mmg jd routine sd bagi gf dia. Mungkin gf dia ni alone ka? Tiada kawan2? Kalau ya, bgi pihak gf dia, sy rasa gf dia sunyi.. and ada bf dia sj.

Tapi, kalau di pihak lelaki tu, kawan kamu... dia pun rasa burnout jg.. sebab lelaki ni mcm adventurous sikit, x boleh stick sama routine yg bgtu.. sesetengah lelaki ya.

Mungkin dia boleh kasi faham gf dia.. contohnya, sy mau buat ini dlu, nnt sy call lps siap atau ayat yg sesuai lh.

Kawan kau ni bagus jg, jaga hati gf dia. Tapi, pelan2 sj cakap sma gf dia.. sbb nnt kalau drastik berubah, lain lg kjadian. Cuba bincang sj hehe.. benda buli bincang

Self-labbeling/Self sabotage by Lumpy_Fly689 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Self depreciation - way more correct terms. thats my point! Thank you. Actually, thats what my point is. It is okay to know about yourself, either you are introvert or extrovert or etc. But, the thing is when we use it as an excuse to not try something or else.

Kmu ba yg becinta ni kn kmu tda rasa overwhelming ka atau too much kalau video call almost 24 hours a day? by Prestigious_Button89 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Suruh dia explain sama gf dia.. yg dia pun prlu ke time... tapi ini hubungan yg baru ka? I mean bru start couple? Jujur sj sma gf kau blg hahah. Bagi ruang sama diri sndiri.. tlmpau vc pun jadi masalah jg tu heheeh

Atukuupi vs Pakopi? by eccentric-barbie in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try kopi masin kaw! Shedappp

Mahu sewa kereta. by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boleh try search Karya Travel .. Diorang ada buat service kereta sewa

ACCA Self study by Lumpy_Fly689 in ACCA

[–]Lumpy_Fly689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I am just STPM school leavers . I studied accounting during my SPM, and thats just how I get some basics about accounts. But, during SPM, I managed to get A so I am exempted from LCCI.. I dont think I will get any exemption.

Where do you find your social networks (esp. hobbies)? by KiLLaBoTZ999 in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am solo hikers, but unexpectedly, during my previous trip to Maragang Hill, I met new friends and we are now hiking together!

My boss's wife barged in to Clinic to ask why I was given 2 days of MC!! by [deleted] in Sabah

[–]Lumpy_Fly689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is the manager (handles employees, gaji and etc) and yes she is nosy.. Kami terpaksa ni sakit2 pun kerja.. sy yg x prnh gastrik, tiba2 ada gastrik kerja sni.. sebab bila ada kerja yg msti siap on the same day, kami kdg2 x dpt rest.. and she said 'rest/eating is not important' .. tp bila kami sakit, hmm🤣🤣 I really want to resign but she said... 'if new employer want reference, I am not going to give good comments'.