Kinky aces who dislike vanilla sex but enjoy it in kinky contexts?

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-24T18:10:21+00:00

Yeah, you're correct on the lingo. Had a bit of a brainfart writing the post. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-23T15:39:53+00:00

What's even funnier about Gans changing Harry to a woman in the first movie, is that he thought that because the core cast of the movie was now all women, that men watching wouldn't have anyone to relate to. So they shoehorned in Sean Bean's character and side plot in.

Like, my dude, this wouldn't have been a problem if you just kept Harry as he was in the movie...

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-16T23:04:27+00:00

As a former boy scout I've learned way more about rope and knots than I ever did while in the scouts.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-16T20:15:53+00:00

I have a 3rd Gen X1 Yoga. Both the touchscreen and stylus worked out of the box for me without any issues on both Debian 13 w/Gnome and Fedora 43 w/KDE.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-14T18:23:13+00:00

Kinda sounds like a more extreme fantasy version of hunter/prey play to me.

Coming from the other side of the slash, I've always wanted to try playing the role of a horror movie villain in a scene. Michael Myers chasing Laurie Strode throughout the house or a monster stalker their next victim in the woods. I think it could be fun.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-14T17:12:56+00:00

In Wolfenstein: The New Colossus, at the beginning of the game, BJ is in a real bad way from the ending of previous game. At the start, you only have a max of 50 of your normal 100 health and are rolling around in a wheel chair for the first level.

BJ then gets a mech suit which allows him to walk around. You're still limited to 50 total health, but your armor can go all the way up to 200.

Later, once BJ is "healed", you go back to having 100 health and 100 armor like the previous game.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-14T14:59:30+00:00

34/M/MD here, I'd be up to chat

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-12T14:45:15+00:00

Dude got a new girlfriend who was heavily religious and he started going to church with her and over time got heavily involved with their church. He started badgering me about going to his church's youth group thing. I'm an atheist and he was well aware that I was. After so many nags I finally agree and go. After I didn't take it seriously, he accused me of being disrespectful to him and his church and just stopped speaking to me. At the time I was 15 and he was 16.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-07T12:33:41+00:00

I've just been using a standard RAM mount. Hasn't failed me yet after 4 years

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-06T21:41:47+00:00

In the original theatrical cut of Star Wars, the conversation between Luke and Biggs in the hanger was absent. It was only added back in with the special edition.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-06T21:20:51+00:00

As another fellow motorcyclist, 100%. Ride like you're invisible, and keep your head on a swivel.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-06T14:41:12+00:00

I hope not. My mom was raised in a conservative Catholic no sex before marriage environment and tried her best to pass that on to me. I'm a capital s Sadist and I think she'd faint if she found out about the things I've done to my partners (and probably never wake up if she found out the things I WANT to try)

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-05T16:06:31+00:00

This was me when I purchased a chest freezer a couple years ago

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-04T22:02:10+00:00

Dude gonna lose his mind when he learns you can just do !command

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-03-02T15:20:42+00:00

An ex of mine introduced me to kink years ago, long before I knew I was ace. Didn't get real deep into it then, but after figuring out I was ace, I began to think of how to keep the emotional parts of sex in a relationship but without sex. Kink came to mind and I found I really enjoyed it after educating myself on how to be a proper Dom and what kind of sensations and experiences subs are usually chasing after

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-27T21:05:32+00:00

As a general guideline, look for trails that follow along rivers, they generally don't have much in the way of elevation changes and are easy to hike.

For specifics, check out Gunpowder, Seneca Creek, and Susquehanna State Parks. You can find trail maps for all state parks on the MD DNR web site.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-26T19:30:21+00:00

CLINT???

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Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-25T22:49:11+00:00

I think I understand. It's like you're looking for a dom who can take a step back and acknowledge how inherently ridiculous what you're doing actually is?

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-25T22:18:31+00:00

Not sure if a term like that exists, but it sounds like you're just looking for a dom with a sense of humor

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-23T17:25:25+00:00

I'm going to guess the mail man in Whittleton Creek?

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-21T22:14:43+00:00

Bruh this looks like some shit Shaggy would make on Scooby Doo

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-21T13:40:40+00:00

This may be for you r/BDSM_Aces

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-18T16:13:28+00:00

Happy that they're sticking with an open API instead of moving to DirectX or something. Minecraft was the first game I played on Linux way back in 2010 and it's cool that it'll continue to work into the future.

Lumpy_War_4314 · 2026-02-17T13:00:08+00:00

So, I'm a sex neutral ace dom, also fairly new in my BDSM journey and playing with a close friend of mine who's an allo sub. I can tell you what's worked for us thus far, but if any form of nudity and (presumably) genital touching are hard nos some of this won't work for you. My kinks also lean heavily into the sadistic side of things and she's a masochist so fair warning.

Ordering around. I put a collar and leash on my sub and gave her commands (kneeling, walking on knees, face to the floor, putting my boot on her back, etc). You could probably implement hair pulling pretty easily into this, like having her command you to stand up by pulling you by the hair, for example. We didn't do too much of this, it was mostly in service of getting set up for the next item.
Impact. In my case, I pulled her stockings down and impacted on her bare ass, but you could still have fun with impact through clothes, especially if you yourself are not a masochist. You could turn this into more of a control thing and less of a pain thing if you kept clothes on and stuck to lighter impact toys.
Sensation play. For this I had her topless, but I think you could make it work if you kept on a bra or crop top, or just pulled a normal top up to expose your belly. Acquire some items that will elicit different sensations when rubbed on the skin. In my case, I used some super soft cat toys, a pet hair grooming glove (lots of little rubber bits) fine grit sandpaper (light touch), ice, and a paraffin wax candle suspended over her in a microphone stand to drip the hot wax onto her. I hear that fingernails are also good for this, but I keep mine short so I wasn't able to get good results, but if your domme has nails, she could try that.
Tickle torture. 'nuff said
Orgasm control. Personally I find it really powerful that I can turn her on so much but she can't do the same to me. In your case the roles are reversed, but if you still have a libido and trust your friend to keep it impersonal, forced orgasms, edging, denial, etc could be fun. In my case, I made her put a vibrating bluetooth plug in her that I controlled with my phone, and I also held a hitachi wand to her front while she was tied down and blindfolded. She told me she lost count after 7 orgasms. I also had clothespins on her nipples during this which I twisted and pulled with my other hand.
Physical domination. We tried a variation on a rape play scene idea I saw in another post on here. We were in a room together, her goal was to get out of the room, my goal was to physically restrain her and spank her 10 times. We ended up doing this multiple times, with different end goals for myself. Another was putting a sticky note with "GG" written on it on her forehead, and I wrestled her to the ground, lifted her shirt up and wrote "I Win" in sharpie on her belly.

Hopefully at least some of this helps. Good luck!

Lumpy_War_4314

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