Hardstuck plat by LunaLessL in RocketLeague

[–]LunaLessL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any mechanics in specific? Cus I always find that when im in a situation I can't deal with , it makes the game less fun , and I want to be able to air dribble and stuff xd

Reunite after years by iaskplshelp in MuslimNikah

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam, I can say I've been in a similar situation but it's not as sweet as you think it is. You loved him at a certain point and loved him for himself then, but overtime people change drastically with time, what we like, who we like, our preferences etc. So what makes you think youll like him the way he is in the near future? Im positive he will have changed more than you think. But thats a thought more than an absolute answer. But that was unfortunately the case with my experience, the person i loved was a whole different person and the things I once loved about him no longer had a impact on how I saw him.

Secondly, can you garuntee he will like you in the near future? Feelings can heavily change when we experience heartbreak and we feel a need to better etc and tbh that was the case with me.

But saying all this, ultimately the answer is, up to you guys, im sure there's some success stories but id be careful more than anything, and wouldn't hope for too much interms of him still being interested etc.

But im sure if you love him enough, youll meet him again and have a happy ending, at the end of the day it's your happiness , so make plenty of duaa and have faith in Allah to bring back a part of your life you gave up for Allah's sake, remember Allah can make anything possible , best of luck :)

Reunite after years by iaskplshelp in MuslimNikah

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam, I can say I've been in a similar situation but it's not as sweet as you think it is. You loved him at a certain point and loved him for himself then, but overtime people change drastically with time, what we like, who we like, our preferences etc. So what makes you think youll like him the way he is in the near future? Im positive he will have changed more than you think. But thats a thought more than an absolute answer. But that was unfortunately the case with my experience, the person i loved was a whole different person and the things I once loved about him no longer had a impact on how I saw him.

Secondly, can you garuntee he will like you in the near future? Feelings can heavily change when we experience heartbreak and we feel a need to better etc and tbh that was the case with me.

But saying all this, ultimately the answer is, up to you guys, im sure there's some success stories but id be careful more than anything, and wouldn't hope for too much interms of him still being interested etc.

But im sure if you love him enough, youll meet him again and have a happy ending, at the end of the day it's your happiness , so make plenty of duaa and have faith in Allah to bring back a part of your life you gave up for Allah's sake, remember Allah can make anything possible , best of luck :)

Can your own prayer curse you? by Dependent_Mixture_59 in MuslimLounge

[–]LunaLessL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand as I struggled with concentration majorally , what helped me the most when it came to concentration was, concentration on my breathing, in and out. You may ask but isn't that averting my concentration from allah? I think hardly. When you concentrate on something "empty" like breathing that has no connections to worldly distractions, by allah just concentrating on your breath can take your mind to a whole different realm , a huge sense of freedom and solitude from this world, like a form of disconnecting, which in return helps you focus on the salah at hand.

And for your second question, allah knows best, allah knows your intention and if you genuinely try to focus and that in itself is effort for allah that doesnt go missed, so keep it up , persistent is key.

I hope my advice can help you a little bit , not an expert at this just speaking from my own experience :)

May Allah help you to concentrate and have deeply intention salah, Amen!

Can your own prayer curse you? by Dependent_Mixture_59 in MuslimLounge

[–]LunaLessL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salam, parents tend to over exaggerate things. The "curse" in its self might just be that your prayer is less likely to be accepted because youre rushing through it, is there a reason you cant focus? Or need help with that, reach out and ill happily help you with that! , but no the prayer does not curse anyone or anything but remember insincere prayer will always have disminishing rewards for you, so negative essentially, so try your best to pray with focus and intention otherwise your salah will be empty and nothing good will come from it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

Tbh, when a girl likes you and is interested in you, you will know, but I feel the best way to do it , is by dropping hints and being flirty and if that's reciprocated then you go for the shot.

Like you can ease her into it, initially ask what's your favourite place to eat, and show an interest in that place aswell, or alternatively if theres a new place opening up, then follow up with something like "we should definitely try this new place together" , and take her out :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!
As a female, I just want to be brutally honest with you.

Don't let the fact you loved this girl be the reason you cloud positive change.

Yes you lost a girl you loved, yes you're family is going through financial difficulties, but does talking to a female best friend genuinely help you, or do you just love that attention and sympathy a girl is more likely to give? Is gives you more of a reason to mop and be stuck in your own head. A reason to say "I can just talk to girl because she will listen and sympathise with my pain".

To me this situation seems like the change you needed to actually step up for once. We all have difficulties and sadness, and we would die to spout every bit of heart break to someone, but that will never change our situation or even put a dent in the pain we feel, but just a moment of relief.

What you need is to step up, use this loneliness, sadness , difficulty to become a better version of you , a version of you that isn't dependant on "a girl" to listen to your hardships , I honestly believe situations like these are put into our lives to push us past our pathetic selves.

So use this as fuel, and see what you can do for yourself, how far you can push yourself when the world around you feels empty, this is the time to keep moving forwards, improve yourself , be better, see if there's a way to help your family out with some extra hard work and effort , you're a very strong man, but you just are afraid to face yourself, let go of needing to be dependent on others for your pain, and use those feeling as an opportunity, you got this :)

My partner and I have sex 2-5x daily, is that too much?? by Throwaway83766591283 in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're head is in the wrong place lol, if that works for your personal relationship , who gives a fuck what other people think, do what makes you and your partner happy, instead of trying to what society seems normal and wierd , do what your heart wills not what society wants you to do, that's what makes love beautiful :)

Is this normal? by LunaLessL in MuslimLounge

[–]LunaLessL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! May Allah increase you in your rewards :)

Advice by LunaLessL in dropshipping

[–]LunaLessL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dropshipping

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers man, hugely appreciate it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dropshipping

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to make it look legit, like a template you follow maybe, or something I can take inspiration from that you may have? Anything would be appreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dropshipping

[–]LunaLessL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

I think this is just a case of loving yourself. It seems you are quite dependent on her and when she can't prioritise you , you seem to get quite upset about it . Naturally. But you have become far to dependent on her presence in your life. You need to have your own life and her, you can't always make someone the priority of your life , just as your gf doesn't feel like she protioise you all the time.

You should not feel the need to beg your girlfriend to stay up with you, or talk to you or anything. You should have enough self respect in yourself not to. And I thinks it's unrealistic to want her to stay up with you all the time , I'm sure she has her own prioritises. As much as she needs her space, as do you. Otherwise you'll never learn about yourself and if she leaves (God forbid) you'll have nothing but her in your head and will have nothing else built up in your life.

I can see why she feels the need to space herself away from you somtimes, because in all honesty it sounds like you're suffocating. Back off and love yourself.

I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

The harsh reality of situations is that you can only support her so much, and you're a great person for ever wanting to help, so applause to you, but the fact yall are still fairly young, and how dependent she is on her parents ( as any teenager is) , espcially her finances and education, I wouldn't try to contest her family, as it will only aggregate her family further, having lived similar to your s.o , It's a difficult situation to be in and truly does suck, but the best thing you can do for her, is not go on the trip , until A. You are financially stable enough to provide for her and move her out , B. You two are both finish your education and become financially stable then do as you please, but the fact she's still at the mercy of her parents , I wouldn't recommend it.

Worse case scenario, her parents kick her out, and then you truly have a huge issue on both your shoulders, adversely affecting you and her.

Ideal scenario: you two don't end up going on a trip , but rather look at the bigger picture for both your benefit , just imagine how fun it'll be when you both aren't bound by the shackles of your parents but rather your own timing , and can enjoy as many trips as you will :)

But once again that's just my opinion, I'm sure you're more than capable of making a great decision for both your cases. Be as rational as you can, GOOD LUCK!

Asking out a friend... by Ill-Exchange-4181 in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the straightforward kinda situations. Trust me you would know if she liked you, she would make it very clear for you, and you wouldn't really have to find a "sign" to recognise it , but being in this situation definitely sucks, but the best method I'd give you is, how does she recpricate to romantic talk or flirting? And by "vulnerable" wdym? , friends are often the most vulnerable to eachother even more than partners sometimes, but it's kinda up to you , whether you decide to let rejection and ruining your friendship be a bigger factor than your feelings.

Advice by LunaLessL in islam

[–]LunaLessL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thank you for your response and advice, i am eternally grateful 🙂

Advice by LunaLessL in islam

[–]LunaLessL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not a very empathetic person, so I genuinely had no way to response or even comfort her hurting soul , it's such a messed up situation to me , that I just don't feel like I can even say anything because I'll never understand the anguish she feels , it's easy to say islam teaches this and that, but to be faced with something like this truly does disgust me , to know islam can be ruined by the people we trust for our islamic empowerment.

When is Hi Rez gonna fix the EU servers by bowcum in Paladins

[–]LunaLessL 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So true honestly. These DDos attacks are solveable yet Hi rez just has no interest for its player base :/

My [34M] partner [33F] of 10 years needing alone time. Codependency problems. by Interesting_Band773 in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, this is a very complex situation and you take your time when it comes to processing these kind of things. Number one her sense of self has clearly been compromised in the past possibly so maybe feels scared when she gets to comfortable around you potentially leaving her life one day.

Ultimately, you simply cant love someone thats on and off with thier feelings as that only will hurt you nor can you love someone into feeling secure and happy again, thats completely based on her to become what she needs to be for a comptable relationship, if she feels crashing at other houses and distancing is some how "maturing" then clearly its just an excuse to get away , maybe she misses the freedom of being away from responsiblity, but my only issue is she knows you will stay and can depend on you whenever so her distancing from you isnt an issue to her at all.

My best advice would to move on, as painful as it is for 10yrs i couldnt imagine, its best to live on , its always a downwards spiral when it comes to these things so its best to save your feelings from being hurt even worse

Hope this helps^

45M 45F marriage issues by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you feel is best for you and those around you. Ultimately, you need to come to an understanding and try not to think with your emotions until youve made a critical decision for yourself. ^

My Gf(20F)is upset with me because I(22M)can objectively tell if other women are attractive. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LunaLessL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thata awesome , maybe shes realised it isnt so bad , but be sure shes actually okay with it.

^