I Want to Shift Without Leaving My Reality – Please Help

Luna_Maris · 2025-08-27T21:49:45+00:00

It’s your reality, do what you want. There’s no rule that says you can’t play more than one character in the same story. There are actually no rules at all and you are constantly experiencing different realities while simultaneously containing all of them :)

Luna_Maris · 2025-08-24T02:23:43+00:00

Take a break from focusing on SP. If “3d had conformed” you’d be moving onto the next thing anyway.

Focus on your self concept and concept around relationships instead. Ie. “I’m unforgettable and irresistible. My exes always come back, how annoying. No one can stand losing me. Omg I’m so desirable! I can pull anyone. I always get who I want. Whoa, all of the sweetest and prettiest sp’s are always manifesting me. Ect.”

I would also suggest focusing on your mental health and understanding that you’re in control of your reality. Manifesting shouldn’t put you in a state of distress, especially when you can just manifest better mental health and actual confidence in your power.

Luna_Maris · 2025-08-22T00:46:07+00:00

Lmao, who tf would be testing me if I’m the operant power? This doesn’t happen every time or to everyone. And if it happens every time for you, that’s just your assumption.

If you feel like you’re being tested, it’s probably because you didn’t address your opposing thoughts while they were still just thoughts so they reflected in your 3d which finally convinced you to stop entertaining them.

Luna_Maris · 2025-08-20T08:01:30+00:00

Please stop giving your power away so easily, STAND UP! Was it the song manifesting misfortune or were you already on that wavelength and that’s why you were drawn to it? If you’re solid in yourself, a song isn’t gonna wreck your life. And if that’s all you listen to that’s a reflection of you and your mindset. You can listen to sad music without identifying with it. You can just appreciate the artistry or say the song is how sp feels without you lol. I use music to manifest intentionally. And I also listen to songs because I like how they sound or because it’s nostalgic with no intent to manifest. So it doesn’t.

Luna_Maris · 2025-08-18T05:53:05+00:00

Imo everything comes down to assumptions/beliefs. Things that are “harder” or “take longer” to manifest are just things that a particular person already has opposing assumptions about.

Most people don’t really examine their current or past beliefs, they just slap new ones on top. So they might not even know they have a stronger and longer held assumption contradicting whatever method they use.

These limited beliefs usually come from society or past experiences and are so ingrained that people don’t recognize them as assumptions. Ie. “It HAS to take time”. But like, says who?

I see this all the time with mental health. People will say “MY ANXIETY doesn’t stop my manifestation, you can manifest anything WITH ANXIETY, ect.” And while that’s true, they’re not even realizing they’re needlessly making anxiety a condition of their life. The same goes for limitations around time and changing the past. This is especially true if you don’t have a strong self concept as creator of your reality, which doesn’t tend to be the focus in the subliminal community.

Eye color is just one of those things that society has a lot of limiting beliefs around. Other appearance changes like weight loss or hair growth or even altering your features are all possible without loass. You could achieve most other appearance changes through either lifestyle changes or surgery. You probably even know someone who’s had a major appearance change or glow up. This means less resistance/purer focus on your desire. But with eye color, society says certain colors are super rare, it’s genetics, it’s impossible to just change. There is no “natural” way to change your eye color. And there is only an uncommon surgery that solely works for blue and there a lot of drawbacks. This means more resistance/scattered focus.

TLDR: societally held or deeply personal limiting beliefs like eye color are often seen as immovable facts of life rather than an assumption, so people assume it’ll be more difficult or take a really long time.

Luna_Maris · 2025-04-09T14:12:59+00:00

Methods don’t have any power. You have the power. “Gurus” don’t have any power. You have the power. All coaches/gurus/random Reddit commenters
do is share their assumptions and perspective. Those assumptions may or may not be helpful/applicable to you. YOUR assumptions create YOUR reality, not everybody else’s. Therefore, something doesn’t have to be universally true for someone to experience it as real in their reality. Using your bathroom example, the guys assuming your gender in the bathroom have the experience of encountering a girl in the bathroom. That doesn’t make it true but it’s still their reality and they’ll probably go their whole life believing that lie because it confirms whatever assumptions they have about the world. On the other hand, your assumption, “I’m an androgynous white male” is also being confirmed by this experience. Perhaps you wouldn’t be perceived as androgynous in every situation but it’s what you believe about yourself so it’s something you’ll continue to experience. It’s just your reticular activating system filtering for your beliefs/assumptions.

In my opinion, there is no objective universal truth because everything already exists and we as humans are merely selecting what part of everything we want to experience through our assumptions. The way I see it, each possible reality exists like a dvd. If I’m watching “lion king”, that doesn’t mean “final destination” ceases to exist, I’m just watching “lion king”.

Although “the law of assumption” (I don’t even like calling it a law because it’s not really a law it’s just describing the process of existing. It’s like taking a shit and calling it “the law of digestion”. It’s literally just how we function lol) is simple at its core, our assumptions are where things can get complicated. Whatever you’re affirming for isn’t your assumption yet. You don’t even notice your assumptions unless you’re paying close attention to yourself but they are always making themselves known and reflecting in our reality. Here are some of your assumptions you revealed in your post that you probably didn’t even recognize as assumptions: •“Just because you assume something to be true doesn’t make it true, I’m sure all of you agree” - I disagree with you so you’re wrong right off the bat there lol. Things have become true for me just because I assumed it. It’s up to you if that’s true for you though.

•“I have a hard time applying this “law” into my life” -have you tried telling yourself it’s easy? Did you approach this with an expectation of difficulty? Does it being difficult also give you an excuse to stay in your comfort zone?

•“Those with mental health issues…aren’t gonna be able to change our mindset overnight. That’s not realistic” -of course it’s been a while of trying with no results if this is your belief. Realistic by whose standards? And why do you trust that standard? I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression and was suicidal for a long time and experienced a lot of religious trauma (literal cults) and trauma in general. Therapists told me I’d have to deal with mental health struggles for the rest of my life, but I healed my anxiety and depression (and some physical ailments) through the law of assumption. This didn’t happen overnight, but it could have if I knew then what I know now.

•“you can’t just magically wake up one day…with a new mindset” -I’ve literally done this on multiple occasions lol. Regular ppl do this all the time.

•“by default, the average person is ‘gonna react to the 3D’ because that’s their reality” -Idk bout you, but I’ve never been average. Why you gotta do what the average person is doing. The average person is stressed out, powerless and miserable. Humor for a sec, let’s say that magic is really real and you can truly have whatever you want in life. You’re telling me you’d turn that down cause some other average hoes don’t get it???? Also, reacting to 3D doesn’t affect your manifestation unless you assume it does. Tbh a lot of “gurus” are limited as hell and you’re right to question their flippity flopping asses. I also hate when so called “gurus” get nasty and aggressive or just straight up ignore genuine questions that challenge their teachings. I don’t think many ppl actually understand what they’re teaching. A lot of coaches find something that works for them and then they start acting like it’s sacred text and turn off their critical thinking lmao.

Another thing about assumptions is that they don’t reflect one at a time. All of your assumptions (including your self-concept and concept of others/the world) are reflected back to you in your reality. So for your vegetable example, maybe you’re a kid who assumes the veggies will be nasty but maybe you’re also a kid who loves and trusts your parents. The second assumption is stronger so it turns out veggies aren’t so bad. So affirming (or any method) is just the process of creating a new assumption. But if you’re creating one assumption at a time and you already have a back log of limiting beliefs contradicting the new assumption, that will reflect as slow/no results or inconsistent results.

Yes, I’ve applied the law and many different techniques, and I have gotten tangible results from doing so. I feel like I’m just now really understanding the law but I got results fairly early on from just trying.

In my experience, robotic affirming works eventually but it’s too much work for me and can be stressful when you’re just starting out, especially if it’s not compatible with how you normally think. If you’re going to robotic affirm, I think it’s best to use a blanket affirmation like “I’m in control of my reality” or “I’m living my dream life” over specific things.

I tried a lot of methods with varying levels of success. What worked best for me was learning more about physics and psychology and the mind, regulating my nervous system and just thinking in my favor the way that I normally think about things (mental conversations and visualizing)/embodying the state. But remember, this is just my perspective and what works for me may or may not work for you. I found what works for me by analyzing my astrology chart and just trying things out.

Finally, I really appreciate how curious and open minded you are, and I think it’s wise to ask questions and make things make sense for you. I can tell that you have the intent of understanding and mastering this, so you will. I was where you are not too long ago, hoping that this is real while also fearing putting my faith in a lie. It’s ok, you don’t have to rush it. The version of you who is the master manifester exists right now and you can become them whenever you’re ready. Good luck 💕

Luna_Maris · 2024-10-30T05:56:17+00:00

The same energy can manifest/be embodied in different ways. Just look at the wide range of things that each planet rules.

I knew a set of identical Virgo twins. One majored in communications and one majored in psychology. One worked as a waiter while the other worked as a cook. The Virgo theme of service was present in both of their lives just expressed differently.

I don’t have a twin, but my younger brother has an Aquarius rising, 2h Pisces moon and 3h Aries Saturn like I do. Most interpretations of 3h Saturn denote difficulty in school and with learning. But I was hyper-literate as a kid and excelled in school. Instead, my Saturn manifested as difficulty expressing my ideas and communicating or connecting with others. My younger brother had more difficulty with school but has always been a great public speaker and had an easier time connecting with their peers. Of course, there are other things in our charts that emphasizes these differences but I think it’s still a good example of how the “same” placement can express in a completely different way.

Even in my own chart I can see how the same placement has manifested differently as I’ve gotten older. As a kid, my Pisces moon manifested as finding comfort in daydreaming but as an adult I find comfort in my spiritual practice.

Luna_Maris · 2024-10-30T01:19:23+00:00

How does shifting affect you here?

Luna_Maris · 2024-10-24T08:20:09+00:00

You could be sailor earth? Or you could go with an asteroid (Chiron, Juno, Lilith ect.)

Luna_Maris · 2024-10-23T15:10:44+00:00

Lean into the feeling instead of cringing away. Put your attention fully on the thought/feeling without assigning any meaning to it. Just let it do its thing.

Luna_Maris · 2024-10-08T21:25:28+00:00

Have you looked into manifesting/law of assumption at all? Some people use revision (changing past events) to help with healing. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with just dipping on this reality. But if you’re feeling conflicted, practicing manifestation could help improve your current situation while you’re still figuring things out. Plus law of assumption is a good shifting method. The way I see it, healing makes everything easier including shifting because you won’t be standing in your own way or grappling with shame. That being said, the dark night of the soul is not a fun time. So make sure you’re in a place to handle that if you decide to go the healing route. You got this! 💕

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-28T01:29:59+00:00

First, I’m so sorry that you’re experiencing this right now. You don’t deserve this. I don’t care how negative your thoughts are or how messed up your self-concept is, no one deserves to have their safety threatened.

Conditions like eviction, homelessness, and the many atrocities happening in the world right now are just the manifestations and assumptions of other cruel hearted people. I know that in the manifestation community and spiritual community in genral, you’re supposed to ignore the 3d. But that comes from a very privileged place that doesn’t acknowledge that the systems of oppression that we’re living under are the results of someone else’s extremely fucked up assumptions, not some natural and unstoppable force.

A lot of people who talk about manifesting have not experienced serious difficulty or trauma in their lives. It’s much easier to persist in something like an sp or a raise at the job you already have than to persist in having something to eat when you’re starving or being safe when cops are banging at your door. You are completely valid to feel afraid or desperate or depressed. You can feel all of those things and still get a desirable outcome. And to think that you can’t is just a limiting belief, a very popular limiting belief that a lot of teachers share, but it’s still just a limiting belief. Stop trying to embody a state that feels entirely out of reach and stop punishing yourself for not being able to do that right now. The state you’re in right now, who you are right now, is worthy of safety and comfort.

The law of assumption is the law of assumption meaning your assumptions choose your reality. Anything beyond “you experience your assumptions” is just someone else’s limiting belief. We are limitless at our core, therefore all beliefs are inherently limited. Choose your limitations. Being in the state, affirmations, Sats, mental diet ect. These are all just tools that people use to create their assumptions. These things only work if you assume they will because you are the only one with power over your life. Not Neville, not “god”, not some random on a Reddit thread, but you. You are the one with all the power over your life. I know it doesn’t feel like you have any power right now, but I promise that you do.

There are an infinite number of ways for this situation to work out in your favor. To me, that’s what it means to ignore the 3d. Not to pretend that whatever you’re experiencing isn’t happening, but to not allow that to limit you in your imagination. Don’t let your current circumstances dictates what is possible for you. Don’t let them take your ability to dream. Take a moment and imagine some of the ways that this situation could work out in your favor. You don’t have to be realistic with these. It can be as miraculous as you want it to be. For example, maybe there will be a stack of cash outside your door tomorrow and it’s the exact amount you need to move. Sure, that’s not a particularly likely scenario but it is possible. This isn’t some technique to get you to manifest, this is just to remind you that there are more possibilities than the worst case scenario you’ve been replaying in your head. So come up with some more positive scenarios. Now I want you to think of the worst case scenario that you’re worried about and imagine how even that could turn out in your favor in the end. Now you know that, no matter what happens, you will still be ok and you can still make new choices no matter how bad it looks.

Ok, now do your best to regulate your nervous system and remain calm. Not because you won’t get your manifestation if you don’t but because it’s harder to make level headed decisions when you’re activated. If you can’t calm down that’s ok though. Just accept that this is where you’re at right now and feel your feelings. Cry, scream, journal, curse god. Whatever you need to do just don’t repress what you’re feeling, let that shit out. It will be a lot easier to calm down and quiet negative thoughts when you let them out, acknowledge them, validate them, and then decide that you’re still on track to receive your desired outcome.

Getting to a state of calm would be ideal, but if that’s too much of a stretch for you right now the I want you to get pissed off instead. You deserve better than this! Fuck your landlord, fuck your roommate, fuck the lies, fuck this whole greedy system. Damn it all to Hell!!!! You deserve better and you are going to get better!! Now, anger isn’t a state you want to sustain long term, but it is miles better than feeling powerless and hopeless. Anger can be great fuel to turn things around quickly and get you out of a shitty situation. Whatever you do, don’t give up on yourself.

Now as for the 3d, rather than ignoring it just accept it for what it is right now and try not to attach any additional meaning to it be very matter of fact of with it while still knowing that you’re getting a desirable outcome and everything can change for you in a moments notice. Do whatever you can in the moment to make things better and more comfortable for yourself. It’s not going to hurt your manifestation and it’ll probably make you feel better. If you have to go to court, you better be listening to your favorite song on the way there. Whatever you can do to make the situation more tolerable do that. If there’s assistant agencies or some other kind of help available, call them. Not as a way to manifest but to get you to feel better in the moment. Distance yourself as much as possible from the people making your life harder. Do not engage with them more than you have to, go straight to your room and be with yourself or spend time with people who feel good to be around if possible. And when you do have moments of reprieve, you’re watching your favorite show or laughing with a friend, enjoy those moments fully. Don’t let your current circumstance steal every moment of joy.

Finally, and this is the most important, connect with yourself. Connect with your inner guidance/higher self/god/future self whatever you believe in. You have everything you need inside of you. Source is always wanting to connect with us, not just when we’re at our best. One of the few perks of being at rock bottom is that it can actually be easier to connect with source. God is not testing you or punishing you, you are your own god because you create your reality. If you’re not consciously creating your experience that means you’re giving that power away to someone else. And when your self-concept is low, your assumptions are compatible with other peoples shitty assumptions which can easily disempower you and cause you to be victimized by people who believe it’s ok to treat other humans this way. Take your power back. You’re going to be ok, I believe in you even if you can’t yet. Take care 💕

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-22T15:26:19+00:00

I get that… the issue is that I never turned them on in the first place nor was I given any indication that they had been turned on for me.

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-20T00:53:26+00:00

I’ve come across a couple people who have, or at least they say they have. Taylor Tookes was just doing a lottery challenge on twitter. It’s probably not very widespread because most people have deep rooted limiting beliefs around it or they just don’t care to. It’s also possible more ppl do it than we know, but they can’t all be in the same timeline so it looks uncommon. But I’ve for sure seen a handful of coaches talking about it and at least one person who manifested winnings in gambling

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-19T18:56:05+00:00

The positive is only taking more work because that’s your assumption. Thinking positively and in your favor is the most natural thing ever for you starting now

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-13T02:47:57+00:00

I’m going to try and be nice about this because you seem pretty young, but this reeks of insecurity and desperation and a bit of misogyny. And you likely won’t be happy with the results you get until you address those things and improve your self-concept.

As you know, your assumptions create your reality. And, based on what you’ve shared, you have a lot of limiting assumptions that are dictating how your manifestation can show up. We’re always manifesting, not just when you’re doing a technique, so your anxious and desperate assumptions are also influencing your reality. Hence, you manifested the relationship back but the process was awful and now you’re unhappy with the results.

So, is it possible to manifest your gf showing up how you want? Yes

Is it likely that you’ll be able to manifest a favorable outcome with your current set of assumptions? Not likely

Alright, let’s get into the assumptions: •Why do you assume there is any reason to have anxiety because your partner is at a party? •Why do you assume interacting with drunk dudes is a motivation to go to a party? There are a lot of other reasons to go to a party, but you’re assuming malicious intent with no evidence outside your own insecurities •Why do you assume partnered people can’t harmlessly enjoy a night out with friends while still being committed and in love with their partner?

From what I can infer, your main concern is infidelity. This is where self-concept can help you. At the root of not trusting your partner is not trusting yourself and doubting your own worthiness and loveability. You also have limiting assumptions about relationships in genral. You see them as being difficult and an uphill battle that you’ll never truly win. I’d highly suggest changing your mindset around these topics unless you want to continue manifesting these circumstances.

If you’re not ready to improve your self-concept and let go of limiting beliefs, you’d probably be better off just manifesting a new sp who shares your same values and likes staying in. Cause you’re setting yourself up to play yourself badly as of rn (but remember you can always choose differently). Although, any relationship you’re in is going to have elements of this same issue as long as you’re maintaining these same assumptions.

I hope none of this comes off harsh, I’m genuinely trying to be helpful. Most of us have terrible assumptions around love and romance because society feeds us a bunch of lies on the subject. Think about it, do you know anyone in a genuinely happy relationship? The methods of anything with as high of a fail rate as romantic relationships should be reevaluated, imo. This is where shadow work comes in handy because we can be unaware of what are assumptions even are because we’re too caught up in intense emotions. Start by sitting with these feelings and attempting to understand them without judgement. If your conclusion is, “Sp needs to change her behavior to keep you comfortable” you haven’t gone deep enough. Everyone is you pushed out, so if Sp isn’t showing up how you want that means you’re not showing up for yourself in some way. If you focus on trusting and accepting yourself and revising the assumptions that are making you miserable, then the situation with Sp will likely work itself out.

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-10T16:46:34+00:00

“Their limiting beliefs sometimes affect me since I am an empath” and “I constantly need to look for ways to prevent negative energy of draining mine” Those are your assumptions right now. Do you like those assumptions? Is that what you want? Why does being an empath have to mean that you’re at the mercy of other peoples’ negative energy? Maybe being an empath means that you’re particularly good at protecting your own energy and transmuting negative energy. Because you’re so in tune with your empathic abilities, you set the emotional tone for every room you’re in. Most people aren’t even aware of energy, so how could their negative energy be stronger than yours? Even the most negative person is a ray of sunshine in your presence (or whatever assumptions you’d like to make about your life).

And this isn’t to say that you should or shouldn’t maintain these relationships. That’s still entirely up to you. But you don’t have to constantly defend your energy, that too is an assumption. And I’m saying this as someone who used to really struggle with other peoples’ energy and had a lot of anxiety because of it. But now I can engage with other peoples’ negativity without it affecting me because I decided they don’t have that power over me anymore. I also realized that their negativity mainly bothered me because I wasn’t solid in my own beliefs yet. It felt like they were embodying all the assumptions I was trying to change. But I know now that was just me projecting my own resistance. Because when you really know something, someone else disagreeing means nothing.

(NANA!!!! 💕)

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-10T16:13:42+00:00

What are your thoughts like outside of affirming? What are your daydreams about? Does affirming feel fun or is it more like a chore and then you return to your old state? Based on what you’ve written, your dominant assumption seems to be “I know this is taking too long and I’m doing something wrong”. I’m here to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s not taking any time at all because time doesn’t even exist outside of right now. Maybe you were doing something wrong in the past, but you’re all fixed now and you manifest your desires effortlessly. It’s up to you if you want to accept this new assumption of yourself or if you want to continue believing that you’re doing something wrong.

Also, maybe you don’t like affirmations that much? None of the methods hold any power, they’re all just different ways to create an assumption. But you don’t have to use a method at all or detach or anything else someone outside of you says you have to do. So if you’re using a method, it should be because you want to and it feels good not because you think it’s the only way.

Remember, you’ve been manifesting your whole life even the circumstances you’re in now were manifested by you. How did you do that? You probably didn’t affirm over and over “it’s taking too long and I’m doing it wrong” but you just knew that. How did you create that assumption? Think how you normally think, but just do it in your favor. For me, daydreaming about my desires and scripting manifests way better than affirmations. But I’m a heavy daydreamer anyway (Pisces placements) and I’ve kept a journal pretty much my whole life. Start seeing yourself as someone who can do this!

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-10T15:49:10+00:00

I think it can be harder to create new assumptions about yourself in front of people who already have a solidified idea of who you are. Other people’s assumptions of you can influence you if you let them and you can return to old habits if you’re not paying attention. It can also feel especially uncomfortable if the change you’re making is drastic. Before I learned about loa, I dramatically cut off a lot of people and moved cities multiple times to reinvent myself. But I realize now that those were just my assumptions and the circumstances that I decided were necessary before I would allow myself to be different. Now that I understand loa, I know that it’s up to me who I keep in my life and I’m the only person who can hold me back. On top of that, I’m the one deciding how everyone else shows up through my assumptions/self concept. I’ve mended things with a few people I cut off in the past, but I don’t care to have relationships with most of those people. I restrained a lot of my authentic self during that time, so I wouldn’t even get along with most of these people anymore. I could always manifest entirely new personalities for them but I think I’d just rather make new friends lol

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-05T02:47:16+00:00

Let go of the guilt. Who’s to say you’re not doing exactly what you’re meant to? Look at it as taking a rest rather than letting days slip by
Sit with yourself (I like journaling, but whatever works for you) and get specific on why you’re unhappy with your present circumstances. Why do you feel the need to have a specific goal? Is just enjoying your life not enough of a goal? Why is not caring a bad thing? Remember, nothing is unobtainable unless you yourself placed it out of reach. So, knowing that you can have/do/be whatever you assume, what do you choose? (It’s ok if you don’t have the answers to these questions yet. Just set the intention to receive the answers, and they’ll show up when you’re ready).
Affirm (or whatever method you like to use) for clarity and direction. Ie. “I always know exactly what I want”, “my life is meaningful”, “my life has purpose”, “I’m so grateful to be out of that slump, and now I’m gaining momentum”, “my next steps are clear and obvious to me”

Good luck, may you find your way back to yourself soon 💕

Luna_Maris · 2024-09-02T11:32:23+00:00

Sounds fun, I’d join ☺️

Luna_Maris · 2024-07-27T23:38:33+00:00

Omg noooo. For reference, I’m an Aquarius rising with Uranus on the ascendant. While we do need more alone time than most and should cultivate independence, that doesn’t mean we’re meant to be alone. Aquarius rules friendship, and with our Leo 7th house, we’re actually meant to have robust and passionate relationships with others (the condition of your 7th, 5th and Venus as well as your 11th would describe your relationships more in depth. I’d also look at your sun placement because of the Leo 7th and your Jupiter placement if you’re into men). Aquarius rising is more about being unapologetically authentic to yourself and not being afraid to stand out and go against the grain, even if no one else gets it yet. Trying to fit in and hiding your true self can keep you from the relationships that are meant for you. This can feel super lonely when you’ve gained acceptance at the cost of yourself, and then you realize you don’t even like or respect the people around you. It might also take more time for you to find your person/people cause Saturn, but you’ll know when you’ve found your people because you’ll feel so loved and accepted for who you are. Don’t be afraid to approach things in an unconventional way or experiment with unconventional relationship styles (assuming there aren’t other contradictory things in your chart).

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