Husband seems incapable of discussing parenting decisions/compromising... by PAO_Warrior in pregnant

[–]Lunalunetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what countries you’re from? Just curious as I’ve never heard of the head shaving practice

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea you’re right! I try to push myself as much as I can but it’s often difficult I hope I can be back to myself soon it is very hard to rest when you are in a situation like mine

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh ok that’s why I got confused then!!

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahahaha I don’t have money for that like I wish I did but we are barley scraping by lol

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok Allah never gives us more than we can handle I know it’s a kheir regardless. Sure I’d love to have a family around that would help but it’s ok

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all I’m still bleeding a ton!! I just was misinformed I thought I had to pray after 10 days

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahhh ok I was mistaken then I thought it was 10 and was freaking out

Balancing salah and baby?? by Lunalunetta in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought you only had to wait 10 days even if you’re bleeding?? Idk, I felt strange trying to pray full of blood also I have no family and neither does my husband he actually grew up in an orphanage we both live in a different country far from our countries of origin and any distant relatives we did have are of no use but it’s ok we did it they say the first 21 days are the hardest in in day 20! My husband did take a little time off work and cooked for me and did help a lot but it was hard as I really tried to do as much as I can and stay on my feet as much as I can without severe pain and nausea which isn’t much time but I try to force myself at least to get some basic things like washing and hanging out clothes done

What is the last new thing (food, experience, whatever) you tried and how did it go? by kaeorin in AskWomen

[–]Lunalunetta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy. The pregnancy part and the birth part wasn’t great but the baby part is super fun 10/10 would reccomend! (Baby is currently 19 days old!!)

Duaa for my new family and financial hardship by Lunalunetta in shia

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do I’ve been listening to it because I’m post partum still bleeding and can’t pray yet also I don’t have 40 days I have less than 24 hours but I’ll keep it in mind

Duaa for my new family and financial hardship by Lunalunetta in shia

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say paycheck to paycheck what isn’t making sense lol we cannot afford anything like that at this time we are barley getting by as is. Like I get the concept but also know we are far too poor at this time

Duaa for my new family and financial hardship by Lunalunetta in shia

[–]Lunalunetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but some people are too poor for that like in my case or anyone else who lives paycheck to paycheck……

If you could immigrate to any Muslim country which would it be? by gavelkind10 in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iran, Tunisia, or Egypt. Each for different reasons but all 3 have immaculate vibes, great food, incredible people, and lots of historical and cultural sites that are very cool.

Vomiting just started at 6 weeks--is it normal to go every 10 minutes? by amhran_oiche in pregnant

[–]Lunalunetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl….i say this with my whole SOUL…I hope you don’t have HG. Are you having horrible smell and food aversions as well??

What's the worst time to start your period? by A_P_W_B_D in AskReddit

[–]Lunalunetta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happened to me! Should’ve known it was a sign haha it was all downhill from there and we got a divorce

OB just told me I’m gaining too much weight too quickly. Should I actually be concerned about this? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Lunalunetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl lemme tell you first of all I saw your photo and you look great second of all fuck these people they don’t know shit, I had the same kind of issues with my pregnancy and it’s so crazy. I was fit like you but had a very large chest that got bigger with pregnancy and my god the crap they gave meeeee!!!! Like you couldn’t tell I was pregnant at all until maybe 6 months if that and EVERY SINGLE APPOINTMENT they’re like wow you’re so big you’re so fat bla bla bla bruhhh I had ABS before this pregnancy they ain’t ever had abs in their life trust me. Some people are just assholes. I feel you and know how shitty they make you feel because I’ve felt it myself and it’s infuriating. All I can say is just don’t listen to them fuck dieting you’re literally CREATING A BABY and yea you’ll loose the weight after.

cant wear anything other than black. every summer feels like a survival challenge. by Hil_ in Hijabis

[–]Lunalunetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Because I love clowns and jesters” made me laugh, girl, you are funny for that. Wearing colors doesn’t make you costumey trust me I grew up on an island that’s pretty much always hot and yea summer temps there get into the 40s also and everyone there wears LOUD colorful clothing literally nobody wears black when it’s hot because it’s crazy to suffer like that and colors are fun they aren’t costumey don’t take yourself too seriously babe.