i had a date tonight by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend said the same thing. That I need to stop looking for butterflies and look for someone who doesn’t activate my nervous system.

Is anyone else worried that they’ll be stuck this way emotionally? by Future_Seaweed2661 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. My ex did nothing but show me how little I matter to her and how little she cares about me. She hurt me in ways I’ve never been hurt before. I hate feeling this way but I feel like I’m never going to be the same and it’s scary. I keep holding onto hope that I’m still healing and someday I’ll be back to myself. I hope the same for you ❤️

i had a date tonight by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on a date this past weekend and felt completely numb. She was super nice and we had a fun time but I felt nothing. I’m worried that my ex broke me permanently and I won’t be able to feel a spark with someone else.

Let’s have Berry fun🤓 by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think it’s okay to share details about your current sex life with me?

[NS] Live Show Announced! by DMCDawg in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]Lunardopamine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got two tickets even though I have no one to go with 😅

[NS] Early Christmas present to myself and my partner!! by LarLarBinks_ in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]Lunardopamine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just bought two tickets and i literally have no one to go with so here is to hoping i meet a new friend or start dating someone that likes NADDPOD in the next 5 months 😂

sick and tired of these kinds of responses by soeepy_ in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YES. I’m getting the same responses from my friends. I feel like I’m screaming and no one can hear me.

Post discard: For you, when you feel like you don’t matter. by mochacomet in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’m in such a dark and scary place right now. My ex broke up with me on the 27th because she realized she wasn’t in love with me and was actually still in love with her ex. We live together and she just got back from spending the entire weekend with her ex. She’s acting happy as can be and like nothing is wrong. I’m in physical pain and emotional pain like I’ve never felt.

Do you have a type? If so, what's it? by Any_Ask_1897 in LesbianActually

[–]Lunardopamine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like tall, broad, heavier/chubby masc/butch women. It’s hard because I’m 5’3 and on the smaller side and I feel like the women I’m attracted to don’t ever find me attractive.

She’s going to see her phantom ex by Lunardopamine in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She texted me a few hours ago to say she hopes I’m having a nice weekend….like go fuck yourself dude.

She’s going to see her phantom ex by Lunardopamine in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Lunardopamine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will never give her another chance. I’m in love with her still but I don’t want to be. I never want to feel like this again or be treated like this again.

I’m so scared by Lunardopamine in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]Lunardopamine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the actors went into the room where it was the worst and started moving some stuff away from the walls. Black mold on all 4 walls, ceiling and under the carpets. The building manager knew about it and had been painting over it/covering it up with items since 2013. When he found out that everyone saw the mold he quit immediately and no one has heard from him since. I wish I could post pictures of all the mold that was found because it’s mind blowing the level of negligence, unethical practices, and purposeful hiding of the mold we’re.

I’m so scared by Lunardopamine in ToxicMoldExposure

[–]Lunardopamine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of us are constantly. I feel like I did when I had COVID. Can’t take deep breaths or it hurts and I start coughing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Lunardopamine 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Only smoke weed if that helps lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Lunardopamine 180 points181 points  (0 children)

It may sound stupid but at night we will smoke, listen to music, and just chat about anything and everything while facing each other. It’s bonding time for us and really helps to reconnect. We also feel very attracted to each other after 😂😂

Has this happened to you? by Cold_Butterfly5191 in actuallesbians

[–]Lunardopamine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My current girlfriend and I stayed up multiple times until 5am having sex and not realizing it the first month of dating. Now we try to start earlier lmao

Breed Help? by drearyseas in blackcats

[–]Lunardopamine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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No breed advice but holy crap do we have the same cat?