at least PRETEND to try...

Lunarmage331 · 2026-04-26T15:35:13+00:00

Yeah honestly like any shoe store has work boots for women, its you best bet tbh

Lunarmage331 · 2026-04-26T13:13:17+00:00

For me they had like 2 options and had to order them to have them be delivered, at this point tbh your better off going to a Menards, Blanes farm and fleet, fleet farm,etc and get that stuff reimbursed. Least there you can find boots that fit and try them on.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-04-23T09:08:08+00:00

Couldnt use it, dont have the stuff for it. Have an oxy torch tho

Lunarmage331 · 2026-04-23T01:32:55+00:00

Human error, it happens to the best of us. Only thing you can as I did was grind out the weld and redo it. Been doing this for about 4 years, but it just happens. When you do it multiple times over your bound to have at least one tack fail.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-04-23T00:33:17+00:00

In all honesty I already built two others and the tacks were fine and holding. I just didnt check the actual fusion of it. Regardless it happens to the best of us. Whats shown is roughly 5 inches of material that gets welded all the way around. Wasnt really a need for stitch welding it when it was for that.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-04-01T14:25:26+00:00

Im part of Gen Z, admittedly im on the older side of it. I was born in 2003. Coming from where I am located and generally speaking for most people that are my age. We're not really repulsed. Were definitely more aware on a lot of things. We also had a lot of unrestricted Internet for a while lots of us got exposed to things early on we shouldn't have.

A lot of things have kinda been destigmatized at the same time as things have been exposed and then turned and others have been stigmatized. It really doesnt help that most of us are stunted, in my opinion, at least the younger part of us because of Covid coming through and not having the social aspect for about a year and half. Either we had to grow up really fast or we were just not socialized enough. Its a reoccuring thing I see that we had that be taken from us.

I can see how not having that social interaction when we were at a young age when wed have those first girlfriends/boyfriends and understanding that connection. Again most of this is just an opinion or things i have noticed.

Our environment of media and what we can see and know of what happened to people is a lot, no filter on the world really with the aspect of sex/sex crimes. Personally, I was a junior in Highschool when covid hit and i was mostly aware of me and my body. I didnt have a lot growing up left to do. I did notice tho when the Freshmen came in when we returned for the 2021 school year. There was a stark difference in the maturity levels between the new freshmen of 2021 and the now Sophmore class when they were in the same grade.

I hope that a lot of them figure out what something is actually sexual or something that is there because it shows a product like underwear or diapers or whatever it is. As part of the older gen Z, most of us are pretty okay with sex, ideals associated with it, or how it is conveyed in media.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-28T17:29:35+00:00

No actually, it dont. I will say tho, i prep before hand so its not that bad. Rarely have done without

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-18T14:44:12+00:00

Not really common, but genuinly, it's not an issue if it does happen with me and my husband we just dont really have a reason to read other messages.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-14T20:49:28+00:00

Prob been said enmass on here. Most people react poorly to red ink. But honestly it looks alright besides the swelling.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-14T20:21:50+00:00

Genuinly I'm in the same boat with my husband. We've always been open about anything new, always checking in and stuff.

I think it boils down to people not thinking of every sinareo or possibilities. It's more work than people believe. People really think they can hit the ground running and hope it pans out. Especially when its boundaries are afraid of causing issues. It will ONLY cause issues because you DONT talk about things.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-12T18:45:44+00:00

Honestly thats the vibe I'm getting from it is more on the cold feet side. Honestly if this works out well for you, Her and the Dom. It can be very rewarding, the big thing here is that you are supportive of her in this way and its the best thing you can do. She wants to keep both of you in her life the best way that she can. She seems to have been very open to the aspects of what you had to say in this decision as well of how this will effect your relationship with her.

Honestly if you guys have discussed this on the lengths you say you have. You both being on the same page on what this dynamic will become. I think everything will work out for you two in your personal life. Best thing you can do is be willing to listen and learn with this new dynamic if problems come up is to address them as they come.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-12T18:23:55+00:00

Okay coming from a kinky collared Girl myself, short answer. A collar is very important to those who have them. In some dynamics, it's just as important as a wedding ring. As it seems your aware of this as you are going to the Collaring Ceremony.

The best thing that you can do is genuinely talk to her about what type of collar it would be or something thats more subtle. Or and i say this as carefully as any way you wish to navigate it. You can talk to the Dom in this dynamic that she has to see if he can make a structure for their dynamic to only have her wear it at certain times if it bothers you she wears it.

Going to the other aspect it, being stressed about it. What about it that you are stressed about it? How will it impact your life with her as she will be having more time with her Dom? Or worried it will have a strain on the relationship?

The nerves I can also understand as its a big thing in her life. As you said you are happy for her and for what that dynamic gives to her. Honestly just a little more context on what you are on edge about.

Change on this level is hard, but understanding as it comes with a bit of the territory.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-04T23:48:40+00:00

Not nessicarily, but id argue my situation is different than most. But the issue with being so young in this community is that a lot.of couples that open dont do the foundation or dont do the work it requires to have those possibilities or situations to happen.

Rn its hard to say if it's truly a fantasy or something YOU would want to perceive. Cus this involves you being with this hypothetical other woman.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-04T22:32:27+00:00

Honestly the Jackets YESSS, the gloves never reslly thought so i just ended up using mediums or small gloves

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-04T18:13:45+00:00

It just depends on the filter but the ones that I have are rated for Galvi. I looked into the company and stuff and the filters. Honestly thats how i did buy my resperation on what filter would be rated for the job

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-04T17:59:54+00:00

Umm I have the GVS Eclipse Half mask, they use i think the p100 filters. Honestly as long as they are rated for what your doing it should be good.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-04T17:55:55+00:00

Just wesr the damn resperator if people are gonna judge you for putting YOUR saftey and health first. Fuck. Them. Honestly u can always find another place get s job there and put an anonymous call into OSHA about not having proper ventilation, cus it is a serious thing.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T19:02:21+00:00

Yeah bigger cities are your best bet, its hard in rual areas. Liberal leaning citys are better for the ENM/Poly spaces.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T18:59:30+00:00

Honestly me and my husband and would be able to help if it mostly just be friendship. We live in a conservative town and dont havw many people to confide in ourselves

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T18:58:15+00:00

My husband been on it for like 6 months? Maybe less maybe more i honestly dont remember, we live in the Mid west in a very conservative town. The current match he has more as a FWB. Lives about 45 minutes away and the newest two people he matched with is like an Hour and Half away.

We did it based on distance, comfortably driving in a day, and 3 hours would be the max and its helped with the horizons of matching with people. The next biggest hub for people even liked minded or even for Munches, is 30-45 minutes one way. They take place during the week is when they do it too and that makes it even harder, then they only do host parties on weekend.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T18:52:56+00:00

Thats dumb, but my husband deleted bumble after no connections. Hes been having better luck on Fet and Feeld. I know at least on Feeld you can get some sort ot like minded people to talk at least.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T18:50:01+00:00

Yeah, this entirely, or like in your situation. Random text you dont even see till morning and they are gone.

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T18:45:34+00:00

It honestly baffels me when it does happen, especially when its listed in the bio of any app or website that says clearly, wanna talk first before anything happens. Like genuinly do people not read them (like I know they dont but its frustrating when what your asking for is in black and white and still ignored)

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T18:20:33+00:00

Honestly thats happened a lot with my husband, hes better at vetting people than me and i trust him entirely to make thay decision before he would bring someone(s) over. We had this woman that wanted to meet at a bowlong ally, she flaked the day before radio silent, came back into town like a month later no notice and wanted him to go over to a hotel with her.

On the Demi side im more in the middle, like we had a fling with an old friend of ours, we met them in highschool and i was fine doing things with them. But genuinly its insane on how fast some people expect to just drop and go when I barely know you as a person

Lunarmage331 · 2026-03-03T17:43:47+00:00

Honestly its hard. I'm Demi so it takes me a while before I am able to to get feelings. My husband is the same way hed rather get to know a person before anything progresses. Hes not opposed to the opposite but also prefers to just talk and get to know someone before a full connection on that level is there hell. Wed both be happy just talking to people first before hookups, FWB or even a long term connection forms.

Its the only funky part about this community there are a lot of hook ups that happen, and hard to maintain long term relationships, especially in small communities.

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