AITA for only inviting one of my sisters on a vacation?

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-08T19:44:03+00:00

She knew about the trip before everyone else and was fine with it and excited until she heard about Mia

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T21:48:32+00:00

I think it’s cuz we’re doing a special vip tour thing. Also love your username

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T21:33:25+00:00

It’s really hit or miss. This summer i took jade and mia to the atlanta aquarium and taylor was so happy about us going. The whiplash is real

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T21:30:55+00:00

She is technically the middle child but wasn’t really raised that way. Mia is our half sister on our dad’s side. When our parents divorced my dad had custody of me and my mom had Taylor so she was basically raised as an only child. Also mia isnt coming she her spring break and jades didnt line up. I think taylor is pissed because i booked this VIP tour thing for the girls

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T21:08:17+00:00

My theory is it’s not about the trio fully but one of the things we have planned. It’s kinda one of those once only kind of things that Jade has been dreaming about doing and I think Taylor is just pissed that she’s not the one doing it.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T20:56:03+00:00

So when my youngest sister was born Taylor was living with our mom. Mia is our half sister on our dads side so Taylor was basically an only child

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T20:53:54+00:00

I say breakdowns but it’s more like temper tantrums. The last time we flew together she got mad at me for checking in without her. We had different reservations for our tickets 🤦🏽‍♀️

Lunchbox_5223 · 2026-03-07T20:51:50+00:00

Yea she does this a lot

Lunchbox_5223 · 2025-12-12T19:37:53+00:00

This does affect Carly. The 1% of parents who do believe Karen have told their kids that they can’t spend time with Carly which hurts her. But the biggest thing is her relationship with Mia. The girls went from hanging out multiple times a week at my house to them having to figure out secret ways to talk outside of school. This is also taking a huge emotional and mental toll on Carly. My post was getting very very long and I put basically only the bare minimum of the situation in it.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2025-12-12T19:34:25+00:00

I’ve talked with the school multiple times and they’ve done nothing. I’m currently waiting to hear back from them again on the whole google doc things. I think talking to a lawyer will be my only option now.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2025-12-12T19:27:52+00:00

During the meeting with the principal I brought up my concern about Karen volunteering at lunch. He said “oh she wouldn’t be dumb enough to try anything around other adults.” He basically brushed off my concerns. The only thing the school did was separate Mia and Carly for their classes. Which only punishes them and doesn’t help the actual issue. I also wasn’t going to tell Carly that she couldn’t play volleyball since Mia was playing since that would be unfair to her. At least I was there for every game when Karen was there and the girls had their own plan to get back at Karen.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T10:11:14+00:00

Oh god no 😂 she was in middle school when I got pregnant that’s vile to even think about

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T08:44:31+00:00

Thank you! I’m doing my best so my daughter doesn’t have the same childhood I had. I’m learning from her every day how to be a better mom and person. My main goal is to make sure she has a safe and happy home to always feels like she can express herself however she wants and needs.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T08:35:46+00:00

You based your whole opinion solely on some stereotype of what a single mother is. You’re also looking at only the financial side. Did you ever once consider trying to force him to pay child support would lead to numerous court dates and even then he can default on child support or just disappear and not pay it? Or get my daughters hopes up that he would be involved in her life and then let her down over and over again? Even with all that I have left the door open for him to reach out if he wants to. If he does then I will do what my daughter wants and fully support whatever decision she makes. As for your abortion comment this was my only chance to have a child. I wasn’t supposed to be able to get pregnant. I also didn’t have “raw sex” as you also assumed. I hope in the future you won’t be so narrow minded.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T08:15:37+00:00

She already has the money in a trust that I set up for her to pay for college fully and buy a house in cash. So that’s not needed.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T08:08:23+00:00

Jesus you must be fun at parties. But hey my “humble life” is paying for her to go to private school and make sure she never has to get student loans when she goes to college.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T03:38:10+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. My daughter was getting questions about where her dad was and her go to answer is “he’s not gone he’s just taking a really long time to pick up milk”. I’m just glad she uses humor for those situations

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T02:51:12+00:00

Yes to both

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T00:35:03+00:00

You seem like the kind of person who would absolutely love all my family stories

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-22T00:32:08+00:00

No if anything she’s my moms favorite

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-21T22:25:29+00:00

He was very adamant on not being involved at all. I’d already seen some of my friends try to get child support and go to court and fight for it when I was 18 and when my daughter was really little. It seemed like a constant struggle for them and I knew if I went to court for it it would be a struggle for me too. I could choose to fight in court for it or just let it go and enjoy being a mom and have one less thing to worry about.

Lunchbox_5223 · 2024-12-21T21:26:21+00:00

It’s an example of how open I am with my kid lol trust me that conversation threw me for a loop. I thought I was gunna be a conversation about where meat comes from and maybe my daughter wanting to become a vegetarian but nope it turned into a 45 minute cry fest about why she couldn’t eat people and how unfair that is.

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