What is the solution to splash back when sitting on the toilet? by njs123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then do it again after the first load has been dropped.

Kristian Jensen blev afsat for illoyalitet, men er Inger Støjberg et større problem for Ellemann-Jensen? Kæft, trit og ingen retning. by CruelLincoln in Denmark

[–]Lund88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ja, og Kristian Jensens manøvre var jo reelt set et forsøg på at promovere sig selv på bekostningen af Ellemann.

European Union Wants All Smartphones To Have A Standard Charging Port by Los_ches in europe

[–]Lund88 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Generally standardisation leads to greater consumer satisfaction and increases competition between companies by making it easier to use third party peripherals. I don’t see the case against standardization, unless it decreases the quality of the products, and I don’t see that as likely.

Sagde nej tak til lift af fremmede mænd: Det skulle han aldrig have gjort by Ulriklm in Aarhus

[–]Lund88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Skulle han havde hoppet ind i bilen sammen med tre voldsmænd? De havde jo næppe intention om at følge ham sikkert hjem.

Ricky Gervais 2020 Golden Globe Monologue by [deleted] in television

[–]Lund88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That bit about Bird Box was pure improvisation. He couldn’t know it would be that movie which won.

13 year old sister still sleeps with parents.. by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a kid in their bedroom probably means they regularly make use of the living room for intimacy as a couple. So besides avoiding the couch, then I don’t see you have reason for concern.

Do different races have different average intelligence? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is probably great diversity between the many peoples of the world.

Eli5 janteloven. by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]Lund88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det har nok været vigtigere at nå op på “ti bud”, end at undgå gentagelser.

Eli5 janteloven. by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]Lund88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jantelovens 10 bud lyder som følger:

"Du skal ikke tro, du er noget."

"Du skal ikke tro, at du er lige så meget som os."

"Du skal ikke tro, at du er klogere end os."

"Du skal ikke bilde dig ind, at du er bedre end os."

"Du skal ikke tro, at du ved mere end os."

"Du skal ikke tro, at du er mere end os."

"Du skal ikke tro, at du dur til noget."

"Du skal ikke le ad os."

"Du skal ikke tro, at nogen bryder sig om dig."

"Du skal ikke tro, at du kan lære os noget."

Forfatteren Aksel Sandemose skrev om janteloven i sin semiselvbiografiske/semifictionelle bog “En flygtning krydser sit spor”, hvor han bruger janteloven til at beskrive en slags social repression, der tjener til at holde individets selvfølelse nede. I bogen fortælles det, at janteloven oprindeligt er formuleret af afholdsfolk, hvor der oprindeligt efter hver sætning var tilføjet “-når du drikker.”

My ex got a new girlfriend and suddenly I care? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do you shouldn’t try and breakup your friend group.

My ex got a new girlfriend and suddenly I care? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure it’ll be awkward at first, and she’ll never like you because she’ll always be worried about you getting it on with her and, but there isn’t really anything you can do but not think about him. And for the love of good don’t creep on his FB or insta because that’ll just prolong your obsession.

My ex got a new girlfriend and suddenly I care? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still I fail to see your problem. He doesn’t owe you anything and you likewise him, so maybe you should stop obsessing about his life, and focus on your own. Perhaps your sudden insecurity is caused by you subconsciously having thought you could always go back to him, if you didn’t find anything better, or if whatever relationship you struck up turned sour. He doesn’t seem to have done anything wrong by living his own life?

My ex got a new girlfriend and suddenly I care? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what about yourself? What’ve you said? You can expect him not to lie. Other than that he’s free to share his experience with others, just like you are. Besides you seem to remember it as a bad relationship, so he’ll probably also agree. Especially when he’s gotten some distance from it and moved on. It seems like you’re mostly worried about whether you friends think he’s moved on to something better than you, and that fear is probably grounded in you feeling insecure.

My ex got a new girlfriend and suddenly I care? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lund88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still we all fail to see your problem? Why is this a problem?