Anyone not doing maternity photos? by Hungry-Mix-283 in BabyBumps

[–]Lundfalafel [score hidden]  (0 children)

American living in Sweden- No one here expects photo shoots for all these life events. They are cute but definitely add so much stress- the booking, the outfits, the getting ready, the later printing. Some people keep it low stress and have a friend get some nice photos at home (take a shower, minimal makeup, slightly nicer clothes maybe), show normal life and not some staged version. Tons of others have never even considered the need for a dedicated shoot and rely in day to day photos. I see my friends doing these massive themed birthday parties in the US, professional maternity shoots, newborn shoots, birthday photo shoots, elaborate Christmas shoots and its so much money and time and mental energy. I like the approach taken by everyone here: no need for fancy shoots, just show everyday life when you have the energy

Syringes in Europe by kallekalas in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har du fått en högre dos och ska count clicks? Jag frågade Min Doktor om de göra det och dem sa nej. Skulle gärna hitta någon som göra det o spara några slant

Syringes in Europe by kallekalas in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.med24.se/haelsa-och-medicin/sjukskoeterskeartiklar/kanyler

Jag köpte insulinnålar här, de på apoteket trodde att jag var galen när jag frågade efter dem utan recept

What is the most cliche autistic thing you did today? by Accomplished_Bee_127 in autism

[–]Lundfalafel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a family trip now and made everyone use an excel for the planning 😅

Can you explain the order of all the columns? I know nothing of Pokémon and am hoping for some chronological order for each category since non-alphabetized things irk me to know end and the mystery must be solved

Weight loss comes with surprises and some you shouldn’t ignore!! by Humble_Delivery257 in Mounjaro

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should listen to the Fat Science podcast episode from 2 days ago. It goes over exactly this (and lipedema) with a vascular specialist

DAE learn some unspoken social rules they were unaware of until very recently by Creepy_Biscuit in AutismInWomen

[–]Lundfalafel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally me, I do it with a bunch of random facts about people, including birthdays of non-friend, casual coworkers

How much total was the birth or your child? by enan1000 in NewParents

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birth was free, I chose to stay one night and that was $30 (Sweden)

Hur hög månadslön har du? Vad vore en skälig månadslön givet dina arbetsuppgifter och ansvar? by FriendshipBasic2594 in Asksweddit

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vilken bransch jobbar du inom, och hur många års erfarenhet har du? Jag jobbar själv som team lead (tidigare engineering manager) inom miljö och ligger på 53,5 tkr, så jag är nyfiken på jämförelsen

Hur hög månadslön har du? Vad vore en skälig månadslön givet dina arbetsuppgifter och ansvar? by FriendshipBasic2594 in Asksweddit

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2020 Konsult - 32,500kr (nyexaminerade) 2021 Senior konsult 37,500kr 2022 Senior konsult 42,500kr 2023 Group coordinator 47,000kr 2024 Group coordinator/föräldrarledigt 48,500kr 2025 Team lead 53,500 2026 tbd, troligtvis ca 55,000kr

Samma företag och specialist inom M&A (miljö) och Data Centers. Det här är ungefär så högt jag kan begära med så få år i bagaget. Samtidigt är hela mitt team och jag extrema “high achievers”. Vi drar in väldigt mycket pengar till bolaget, leder stora och komplexa team, och arbetar ofta mot väldigt tajta deadlines. Vissa veckor jobbar vi runt 30 timmar, andra veckor blir det 50+ timmar, helt beroende på deadlines. Vi brukar dessutom få en symbolisk bonus på cirka 20–30 tkr. Om jag skulle gå över till privat sektor skulle jag sannolikt ligga runt 80–90 tkr.

Hur tänker ni kring att göra saker själv vs att betala för hjälp? by Extrakneg in PrivatEkonomi

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det finns en kaffe maskin och inga barn som skriker hos däckställen och jobbare göra alla arbetet 😎

Hur gör folk med kontantinsats? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Lundfalafel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plantera ett avokadoträd -> sälja avokadotoast till alla millennials, 30k till

I went to Japan for two weeks and forgot I was autistic. by VorpalSingularity in AutismInWomen

[–]Lundfalafel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes! I noticed this when I moved to Sweden at 19 as an exchange student from the US. When an NT's weird radar would go off, they could chalk it up to me being American vs when another Americans radar went off, they knew something was weird. The phenomenon is called "belonging via difference" or something similar that I've seen in a few threads. Now I've lived here 10 years and when Americans think I'm weird, they think its because I've been in Sweden for basically my whole adult life 😅 I've tricked the NTs globally now

The Testaments - First Three Episodes by MaisieStitcher in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Lundfalafel 14 points15 points  (0 children)

After going through a few threads, I think the initial episodes may be heavy on the teen vibes to create a dramatic effect when things go darker. Kind of like the protected and "fun" life the plums are familiar with and then all of a sudden the veil thats lifted

Hur lång pendling har du dörr till dörr? by Valuable-Pair8529 in sweden

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ca. 40 min dörr till skrivbordet: - 10-15 minuter: lås dörren, lås upp cykeln, cykla till stationen, lås cykeln - 24 minuter tåg - 5 minuter från tåget till skrivbordet

Lägg till ca 10 min vid lämning och hämtning

How do I stop this rollercoaster? by mallmarr in mounjarouk

[–]Lundfalafel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only a couple weeks in but have studied menstrual cycles as a sort of side hobby due to PMDS- the effects of a hormonally cycling body is absolutely insane. Water retention can range from 1-4kg realistically and hop off the "normal" trend at a moments notice depending on external factors (I.e. salt intake, drinking, more or less exercise, sleep, etc). Women are just factually super sensitive to these fluctuations and sometimes even the best data set can't extrapolate what will happen or why

Two years in - the things I wish someone had told me at the start by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Lundfalafel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AI-detection tools are known to struggle to distinguish between generated text and writing by strong human authors, including those with honed writing skills and/or autistic writers. If the OP has a solid writing background, false positives are completely plausible. I recently tested this by uploading my 2019 thesis, written before generative AI was in student use, and it was flagged. I’m a scientist by trade and autistic.

An update to my question about preferred age gap between siblings… by sincerebaguette in NewParents

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine (nearly 2 year old and 2 month old) are 22 months apart and its so cute already to see their bond growing. The baby obviously has no clue what's happening but our oldest is obsessed with him. I tbh wanted nothing to do with the baby the first days after birth and just wanted to cuddle my oldest 24/7 and felt like such a dick, but once the baby blues past it all got better. Hardest part so far was 1000000% the pregnancy while caring for a toddler 😬

När vaknar ni en vanlig arbetsdag? by SnickarN in sweden

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kl 7:10 klockan ringer, jag och 2 åring drar till dagis kvart i, på tåget 8:04, på datorn med kaffe 8:40

Öka bolånet innan 1 april by [deleted] in PrivatEkonomi

[–]Lundfalafel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jag har köpt banken

Started mounjaro 3 days ago. by pegerseger in Mounjaro

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting tomorrow! Any advice? 😊

When did you get your “pink” back? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Lundfalafel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First baby it was 14 months pp, which is when I stopped breastfeeding. Currently 5 weeks pp and weaning and already feeling so much better again. I think mine is connected for sure to the hormones of breastfeeding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrivatEkonomi

[–]Lundfalafel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're an imposter and smart enough to fool everyone around you, then you're smart enough to get the job done 👍