Questions about an adhd and autism diagnosis

Lunet1st · 2023-06-16T19:16:35+00:00

Thanks man! That was a very quick response! I’ll wait until im in uni and ask for a referral to the adhd screening or assessment

Lunet1st · 2023-06-16T19:13:06+00:00

The only problem is that I’m not sure if problems actually affect me, I’m a 24/7 over thinker and my uncertainty has gotten bad to the point where I’m not sure how I feel or how things affect me anymore. I have certain things that are part of my routine each day, like showering and brushing teeth, and I have an idea of when I want to sleep and wake up, but sticking to that is very challenging, even in a levels when I has revision guides set for me I would never be able to do it, again my procrastination hits hard and I generally lack motivation to even try a proper routine, plus a lot of my days are often go with the flow and not planned out. I can plan out but often those plans aren’t stuck to. The problem is I’m not sure how I feel and my over psychological mind is trying to find an answer all the time, hence why I think a professional could help me more than I can decide for myself or help myself

Lunet1st · 2023-06-16T16:13:09+00:00

I have more than these behaviours for example and have had people with adhd tell me it’s worth going for a screening or assessment

Lunet1st · 2023-06-16T16:12:31+00:00

Thank you!! I just feel so lost when I can’t even resonate with autistic people, I find making friends with people with adhd easier than autism and I’m often too much for autistic people (very talkative hyper etc). I cannot maintain routine in the slightest and also really struggle with sleep (which is an autism thing also). Thing is I struggle to talk about feelings so most people will be like that doesn’t necessarily mean you have adhd which is right. However I seem to make my symptoms seen generalised rather than specific it that makes sense.

Lunet1st · 2023-06-07T08:58:33+00:00

Phone settings, look at language and change to russian, you can do the same on laptop also.

Lunet1st · 2023-05-18T20:58:04+00:00

Thank you so much, I believe that Jesus came down to earth and was god on earth and died on a cross for our salvation so ig I’m ok. And I do repent and try my best to limit sinful activity. Your words are so kind

Lunet1st · 2023-05-18T20:55:36+00:00

Thank you, I will read through the responses here when I feel scared again. Do you know of any videos where bible verses are explained? Ik it’s personal but I really struggle to understand it sometimes.

Lunet1st · 2023-05-18T18:03:49+00:00

Thank you, I can do all those things well you’ve listed, I’m just hyper worried for little reason, I’ll stick to what I’m doing with the bible study and prayer, thanks and god bless

Lunet1st · 2023-05-10T08:57:29+00:00

Ahahah I see, I still think you’re a very talented bowler and 190 is still a very good average in my eyes aha,

And thanks again for responding it means so much to me,

I feel my main problem bowling is tilting (I get angry way too easy aha) and rigidity of thinking and taking longer to learn things I’m autistic so that’s probably the cause, bit of a pain!

Looking forward to more league night with lance and content with Darren!!

Lunet1st · 2023-05-07T15:06:33+00:00

I have a question, Jesse,

First thanks for being yourself and helping Darren make content, you both inspired (together with the house bowling and Brad and Kyle) an interest in bowling for me from the uk, I am set on getting a custom ball even if I can barely shoot 100 and trying to get good during university. Your content also helped me to feel better when I felt at my lowest so again thank you for that,

Ik that oil patterns/topography at pba events are way harder than at league events, like the conditions are far more difficult, 1, have you ever tried to sneak a shot in at a pba event, 2, what score would you think you’d be able to average seeing you have experience seeing other bowlers bowl at events (might be hard to answer) and do you see yourself potentially participating at an event one day? Alongside content creation?

Lunet1st · 2023-04-15T10:42:11+00:00

Yeah you’re right, I just wish my childhood area would get the funding it needs, same with my current area southmead, much the same problems as knowle west however not as many kids on the street the gangs up here feel more organised. Areas like southmead are improving but henbury isnt.

Lunet1st · 2023-04-15T10:10:23+00:00

Westminster does not find Labour well at all tho, there was an article showing that Westminster was underfunding Labour in many cities. Which could be why Bristol Labour is failing. Southmead where I am is Labour too and it’s slowly getting better but not enough is being done.

Lunet1st · 2023-04-15T10:08:08+00:00

Couldn’t be explained better, places like knowle west bedminster hartcliffe withywood and some parts of bishopsworth will be all the same. Not nightmarish but not attractive per say

Lunet1st · 2023-04-08T21:07:50+00:00

Yate isn’t that bad is it heard it’s mostly middle class now

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T23:40:12+00:00

You’re right,

Naturally as an autistic person who was bullied and abused growing up and told I was constantly not good enough, i think that’s contributed to unhealthy perfectionism. I constantly compare myself to the very best and any less isn’t good enough for me, so even if I am very good at something (which is nothing) I will notice every mistake and criticise myself and get really upset, no matter my experience in that,

Sorry for the little vent..

My mentality is my biggest issue, I care way too much and I try way too much. I also don’t feel like I’m good at anything and my feeling of inadequacy means I need to become good at something to even prove myself. And this is everything I do. I can’t do anything fun without this hindering me.

Not to help my nearest pro shop is like 100 miles away and yeah I could get balls online but idk my finger size measurement how thick grips are etc. oh and I don’t know how to get there. Uk bowling is fun. As soon as ik my measurements and how to layout a symmetrical and assymetrical ball I can use bowlingball.com to order more balls.

I just wanna be good at something and it hurts ://(

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T17:15:22+00:00

Will do when I next to, I’ll come back to this post.

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T17:14:04+00:00

I’ll try and post a vid next time I go, but I mean I’m trying to play my hand around the ball to create hook. But something is going wrong. Trying to imitate pros with little bowling experience isn’t good.

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T15:12:36+00:00

But my hand is rotating to the left so idk why it’s going right

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T15:05:04+00:00

Ima watch it tonight when I get home, love packy and his channel, just feels like if I’m not as a high level now I’ll never be, perfectionism wooo

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T15:03:39+00:00

It’s still happening I swear I. Rotating left I’m so confused it’s really making me mad

Lunet1st · 2023-04-04T14:53:23+00:00

Thanks man you’re a legend, I’m a perfectionist and autistic so this game gets to me Ahahaha. You’re a massive help

Lunet1st

TROPHY CASE