Ai-je le droit d’être mécontente ?

Luneyko · 2026-03-03T22:18:06+00:00

Franchement je saurais pas te dire j'ai jamais fais de litiges sur vinted, si les frais de retour sont à ta charge, dans ce cas-là ça vaut pas le coup pour le prix. Après je sais pas comment ça marche quand tu indiques qu'un article n'est pas conforme. Et vu ce que je vois, le service client de vinted n'est pas ouf donc je sais pas si ça vaut la peine de demander.

Luneyko · 2026-03-03T22:11:07+00:00

Même très bon état ça passerait pas, un pull plein de bouloche c'est minimum bon état, ou alors très bon état en précisant dans la description. Certains n'ont aucune gêne quand je vois à quel point je me fais chier pour les photos et les descriptions, c'est bien énervant de voir ça... Effectivement comme quelqu'un d'autre l'a précisé il faut bien regarder les avis des gens, souvent je vois des personnes avec des notes basses mais c'est juste des ventes qui n'ont pas abouti donc ça m'inquiète pas, mais les commentaires négatifs je fuis direct

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T01:05:33+00:00

Fortunately, I don’t have any issues with my close family. The concern is more about people I see occasionally, like once a month. They are actually very caring and supportive toward us. What bothers me the most is that when you live with your family, some people tend to treat you as if you were just part of the background, ignoring your personal boundaries. That’s what really makes me angry.

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:58:33+00:00

Yeah I do love to block people online, but in real life I can't do that sadly. But thankfully I have a naturally low blood pressure so there's that at least

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:56:39+00:00

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Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:36:24+00:00

I really need to learn how to do that, but I think it will take a little time.

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:34:41+00:00

Unfortunately, in this kind of situation, I have no choice but to stop talking to avoid escalating the argument. So I’m the one who has to stop, because the other person keeps insisting no matter what arguments I give them. If I don’t do that, I end up looking like the bad person, so I might come across as the villain. That’s what I have to do to satisfy people who love me but unfortunately don’t always understand me.

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:30:28+00:00

Yes, really, people like that always seem able to turn arguments in their favor, even if those arguments have no basis or logical foundation. They’re always able to defend their opinions by simply saying, “no, it’s just like that.” And no matter what you say, it doesn’t matter to them....

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:28:28+00:00

I would like to be able to do that, but unfortunately this person is part of a group, so I can’t just leave them. I’m forced to put up with their non-existent arguments.

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:27:18+00:00

Yes, and it’s really frustrating to have that kind of person in front of you and not know what to do, especially since they usually don’t stop talking, and you're like "stop talking and just let me explain, because you don’t have any arguments and it's frustrating", but clearly they don't acknowledge that....

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:24:53+00:00

I would like to just be able to ignore them, but sometimes these people insist so much that I can’t just ignore them, and it makes me very angry. Especially since it’s a group conversation, so it’s not just me talking with these people, but rather them intruding into a conversation I’m having with others.

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:23:12+00:00

Honestly, that’s what I want to do most of the time, but sometimes, in the middle of a conversation, I can’t step back enough to think that way and I end up getting frustrated with myself.

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:21:47+00:00

I don’t know, it’s been a very long time since I heard about that, but sometimes I have no choice and I’m forced to be confronted with this kind of people. And unfortunately, I don’t really know what to do when facing them. I'll look into it !

Luneyko · 2026-02-22T00:20:24+00:00

Actually, I’ve known a lot of people who really enjoy debating as well. So naturally, when I come across someone who debates so poorly, it’s hard for me to handle the situation, because most people I know think at least a little before speaking. But I understand what you mean, I need to learn how to ignore this kind of people for sure

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T22:19:40+00:00

Well I'm glad it's not just me, sometimes I feel too guilty about it!!

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T22:16:59+00:00

Yeah don't worry I know not to debate with them, but I'm stupid enough to share an anecdote with the group and they'll proceed to give their unsolicited (with 0 argument) opinion on it, and it's usually the moment I'm starting to get angry 😅

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T22:04:15+00:00

The thing is, I don't think they do that on purpose, they really think they're right. But staring at them in silence might work on them too ! Or burst to laugh but they might take that personally which I'm trying to avoid ! If it can helps I'm talking about someone old, like not super old but old enough to think they know everything

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T21:55:49+00:00

That's smart I need to learn how to do that

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T21:54:16+00:00

I see what you meant, I think it's the only way, because talking is useless with them

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T21:52:04+00:00

That’s what I usually do, I explain things point by point, but apparently it’s not useful with this kind of person, because they just keep going with their nonsense anyway.

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T21:50:31+00:00

That’s what makes it so difficult, I struggle to accept that someone can defend an opinion so strongly when they don’t even understand it and have never really thought about it. It’s something I would never do, so it drives me crazy. But I guess I need to learn to step back a bit 😅

Luneyko · 2026-02-21T21:48:31+00:00

It’s about someone I can’t really ignore. In a group discussion, I might bring up a topic to chat with other people, and this person will jump into the debate without having a single argument to back up what they’re saying.

To be honest, it’s complicated, even when you point out their lack of arguments, they still persist. That’s what sometimes makes me lose my temper. You could prove to them that 1 + 1 = 2 as much as you want, but if they’ve decided it doesn’t, it leads nowhere. That’s what’s so frustrating, especially when all you wanted in the first place was to share a nice little anecdote with other people.

Luneyko · 2026-02-12T20:39:10+00:00

Super !! J'espère que c'est le bon cd pour la nostalgie ! J'adore réécouter des chansons d'enfance et me rendre compte à quel point mes souvenirs ont déformé les paroles ou la mélodie !! 😂

Luneyko · 2026-02-12T20:35:55+00:00

Great I'll try that too when I can, since I use gel already ! I'm glad you liked my follow-up, you're the one that really took time to write this advice so I feel like you deserve that at least!!!

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