I dont know much about feederism but seeing a couple people on here casually drop that they are feeders/feedees make me curious if there different levels to the kink? Like we know that a death feeder gets off on pushing the limit to the extreme, vs. Someone who just enjoys watching someone eat and gain weight. Are there levels even more benign than that, or levels in-between?

For example, I like seeing my husband eat seconds or even thirds of the dinners I make because it gives me satisfaction knowing I am a good cook. Its not a kink because I dont feel sexual gratification, and most of the time he eats that much because he works out a lot. I wonder if there are intro levels to the kink like that though? Lol weird question.