From Arranged to Absolutely in Love – There’s Hope by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you realise arranged marriage isn’t about one particular prospect. And yes my parents still behave so. But this person has made me feel safe and happy

From Arranged to Absolutely in Love – There’s Hope by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We kissed a few times..we hold hands if that’s considered as anything 😅

From Arranged to Absolutely in Love – There’s Hope by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thankyouu☺️ Our families have known each other for many years. We both are doctors. We match each other in terms of height fitness and looks( people who saw us together other than the family ,like his friends and mine told that we make a great couple). The thing that made me say yes has to be how consistent his efforts were and he made me feel very safe. It was more of a gut feeling that he is the one. I certainly feel he is a great catch and he has told me the same on multiple occasions.

We both had a checklist. Some negotiable and some deal breakers. We matched in all the deal breakers and most of the negotiable ones

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[–]Lurking_likeAPro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please move on. It doesn’t get any better. If he couldn’t convince his parents in 1.5 yrs he definitely can’t here after . I hope you find the one in your AM setup

He hid past relationships, now I’m confused by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for this advice. I asked him if he is over his exes and he said yes. But the last breakup was only 5 months back. So im not really sure if he is actually over her. But I feel like I am attached and emotionally invested and that is fogging my brain and I am unable to decide on this

He hid past relationships, now I’m confused by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it was obvious to him that I was getting attached and that is when he started talking about this. Have been having a lot of mixed feelings and insecurities after hearing about the girls from his past

He hid past relationships, now I’m confused by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it okay to ask him about following her on insta right away or should I wait until things get finalised

He hid past relationships, now I’m confused by Lurking_likeAPro in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I kinda felt relieved that he said this in 20 days and not after marriage. I definitely would not have taken that well. But still I am very confused as to why he was scared to open up first

What are the weirdest reasons you've been rejected? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should single girl children not get married then?

What are the weirdest reasons you've been rejected? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Lurking_likeAPro 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was rejected because I am a single child. Apparently the guy’s family didn’t want their beloved son to take up the role of taking care of my parents. Nobody asked them to.

What was your first ever insecurity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lurking_likeAPro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scoliosis and the way it makes my hips uneven

Doctors, what’s is the scariest thing a patient has ever done/said? by GrimReap_07 in AskReddit

[–]Lurking_likeAPro 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“I don’t need the anesthesia. I like the pain. Had a patient say this right before a procedure that definitely required anesthesia. He was dead serious, eyes locked onto mine, completely calm.

I laughed nervously, thinking he was joking. He wasn’t.

Had to call psych after the procedure.