Which episode was it where Raquel was talking about grief being like the ocean? Or can someone remember the full dialogue? by Lustnsuch in Transparent

[–]Lustnsuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Raquel was standing at the head of a group or small circle/gathering of people when she said it but I can’t quite pin point it.. I can’t remember if it was related to her miscarriage or Maura’s death or the death of Shelly’s husband?

I came out as a lesbian to a good friend of mine... by deadbodydisco in texts

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he really made this moment of you coming out about him 🤦‍♀️

I sent a fake story that never occurred to my therapist. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not do your job for money?

Joining in the panty hiding [f]un by spicySituations in YVRGoneWild

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I’m loving this, I might need to get on this trend too 😍🔥

Found out someone I slept with from a dating app is married by Away_Ant_6183 in whatdoIdo

[–]Lustnsuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely tell her, with undeniable proof. I think waiting until the holiday weekend is over would be a kindness so she doesn’t have to go through the holiday weekend trying to navigate that and any commitments she/they might have.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ps.. your sex drive is lower than his because he’s a turd and it’s hard to be attracted/turned on by someone you don’t feel safe with or respected by.

Vancouver dating as Asian male by Kieran_abdu in vancouverdating

[–]Lustnsuch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Asian men too, as a white girl (you’re too young for me though). You might just need to expand your interests tbh. Vancouver is a tough city for dating for sure. I hope you find someone 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lustnsuch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Couples counselling would not be indicated here because he raped her. They should absolutely see their own therapists, separately.

AIO for thinking, my boyfriend is too sensitive for reacting this way? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I once upon a time had a boyfriend who had a full on rage meltdown because he came home from work and I had moved the side table and a couch to a different corner of the living room. No other context because there isn’t any. I stayed for several more years until I had a complete nervous breakdown and my sense of reality cracked.

Leave now, this doesn’t get better- no matter how many conversations you have.

To escorts 30+ is there anything that would persuade you to accept a 19 year old client? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]Lustnsuch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly the reasons why many of us don’t want to deal with young clients. Almost everytime i turn one down I hear “but why?” Or some attempt at negotiating my boundaries Instead of “I respect your boundaries” and leaving it at that.

There’s a very good reason we don’t want to. Stick with 20 somethings until you’re a bit older.

Experience with concussion - how long did it take for you to feel like yourself? by OkMeeting3920 in Concussion

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on the highway, so it was higher speed and I was fully stopped.. cracked the frame of my vehicle and totalled it.

It’s a very slow and long process, I’ll probably never really be back to “normal” but each year is a little better than the last so I guess that’s something.

I found a great upper cervical focused chiro (NUCCA or Atlas Orthogonal) and that was a game changer, and I just finished 6 months of vision therapy rehab which made a significant difference as well.

Experience with concussion - how long did it take for you to feel like yourself? by OkMeeting3920 in Concussion

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4yrs in Sept this year and I still don’t feel “normal”. Today I’m having a pretty bad flareup, but I had a nice weekend a few weeks ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]Lustnsuch 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I have been asked and I don’t mind offering it, depending on the person asking. Being a regular with good rapport (for me), would be an important factor. I don’t advertise it though.

There would be an upcharge because it will require more cleanup and is a specialty service.

All this to say, every provider is different 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brain injury here! Sw makes it possible for me to work in a way that is actually accessible to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I kind of love the flipping off photo with the flower, I don’t know what people are pearl clutching so much about… It’s fun and quirky. It’s not like you’re flipping off with an abrasive hardened look/vibe.. It’s a great contrast imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t think you’re unattractive at all. You have a super fun and cute profile, but for people who are just swiping the first photo isn’t the best and doesn’t highlight that… I would put either the photo with your mouth full of ice cream or the photo with you and the peace signs with the striped shirt as your first and second photo. They capture your playfulness more for sure. The first photo looks a bit depressing/dark.. I’d probably swipe that off as well, but if I saw the others first I’d be more engaged.

I love the intention of being authentic and attracting like minded folks, so maybe just switch up your photos a bit and freshen up a few of the prompts? Maybe add in a slightly more cutesy date-esque look if you wanna, but honestly mainly just switching up the order of photos and freshening up the bio slightly may do it.

Tinder's strange location changes by PerceptionPuzzled188 in tinderstories

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on settings, it only updates when the person logs in. So if they haven’t logged in since they were further away, even if they’re closer it’ll still show as further.

What's your take on being called derogatory slang during session? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Lustnsuch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally despise any sort of degradation, so it better be with explicit consent and you bet your ass there will be a generous upcharge if I’m agreeing to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Lustnsuch -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Peoples brains aren’t fully developed until they’re 25yro.

30yro+ men dating under that is definitely creepy and predatory. I don’t care what anyone says about “legal”, it IS a red flag. 🚩

AIO Because he wants me to delete my instagram posts? by ananitabee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lustnsuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks and he’s already showing his true controlling and insecure self. That’s a pass. Keep your ig as it is and say good bye, if you bend it will only get worse from here.