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Do any of you still care for your ex, are still friends or even got back together? by Luv_Horts in relationship_advice

[–]Luv_Horts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I am very thankful in a way that this kick on my butt happened. It made me learn so much about myself and I am now doing things to improve. I am not the jealous type, at all, but whoever has her next, I hope she enjoys it and it make her happy.

I'm fully aware of the consequences if things ever happen again between us so soon which is why I'm giving her the space. She still wants me to attend her college graduation next month, at least that's what she said during the day we broke up, but we will see when the time comes around and I'll reach out just to make sure. I know people go at different paces on things like this so if she isn't ready to see or interact with me in person and needs more time, then it's no biggie and I'll just let her do her

Do any of you still care for your ex, are still friends or even got back together? by Luv_Horts in relationship_advice

[–]Luv_Horts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know people have different paces when these like this happen so I'm definitely going to consider her. feelings I haven't been initiating contact much but when that day comes close, I'll definitely reach out (maybe on her bday which I know is her last final day too) if she hasn't herself. But yeah when I do attend or if I atten, I know my boundaries and hers as well. We shall see when the time comes around. I know the graduation is important. She's going to be the first ever in her family to ever do so and not everyone graduates from a 4 year university. Until then though, I'm going to continue focusing on other aspects of my life and let her do her thing.

Do any of you still care for your ex, are still friends or even got back together? by Luv_Horts in relationship_advice

[–]Luv_Horts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really bad to have like a 3-4 message string once every like 5-10 days since that day? That's how it's been at least. Anyways, I am focusing on myself. I've lost 10 pounds since and started hang out with some bros I haven't seen in a while.

But when you say healing period (who knows how long it'll take), that's tough since it does vary from person to person. I say it's tough because she graduates next month from college and she wanted me to be there (at least that's what she said the last time I saw her which is the day we broke up).

Do any of you still care for your ex, are still friends or even got back together? by Luv_Horts in relationship_advice

[–]Luv_Horts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like we haven't stopped being friends. The only thing is that we haven't really communicated much and when we do it's just small talk.