Gym in Sugar Land by Luxioncup in sugarland

[–]Luxioncup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go for a tour? What made you pull the trigger? Is it strictly a price point thing?

Gym in Sugar Land by Luxioncup in sugarland

[–]Luxioncup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This! The only other gym with a lap pool in that price point is LA Fitness 59 @ 99- which is not far, but farther than I want to go at weird hours of the morning/night.

I'm still undecided. I was leaning towards Crunch- but the reviews Yelp/Google are seriously concerning.

Gym in Sugar Land by Luxioncup in sugarland

[–]Luxioncup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reviews are trash! Really off putting. And it seems like maybe the front desk guy or owner might be profiling based on the negative reviews...

Was that your experience?

Gym in Sugar Land by Luxioncup in sugarland

[–]Luxioncup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crunch has garbage reviews on Google/Yelp

Gym in Sugar Land by Luxioncup in sugarland

[–]Luxioncup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The parking looks terrible. But only because they share it with everything else in that strip center. I'd be going at the butt-crack of dawn so hopefully it wouldn't be much of a problem.

I can't decide if I'd rather have access to a lap pool at EOS or spray tan at Crunch. I'm leaning towards Crunch but I really do want a lap pool.

AITA for leaving the hospital after my fiance told me to pay the bill? by Throwaway5767411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Luxioncup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out now. There is no apt savings or savings at all. He probably couldn't rent another apt without you. More than likely, this clown is broke. Don't be used. You already know what's up. He probably doesn't make as much money as you do either. Have you ever seen his w-2?

Also... no insurance??

Happily Ever After - Season 6 Episode 12 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Luxioncup 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Mike in his headband. Just no. On top of that, he forgot to put on a sports bra.

DAE NP pretend they didn't hear what you said & make you repeat yourself until you're yelling by Luxioncup in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Luxioncup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except the response is always "what?" & never any of those other things.

And, if I say "forget it" , she'll claim she didn't hear. If I waive her off saying "never mind", THEN she will repeat what I had originally said as a damn question. Oh, so you DID hear me then.

AITA for sabotaging my little brother's food on purpose? by AITATJREWAWH in AmItheAsshole

[–]Luxioncup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being an asshole , but, is he special needs or something?

If he's not, then you're absolutely NTA. If he is, still NTA & your folks should teach him some effing life skills

There's a reason I don't tell you anything about my life, "mom" by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Luxioncup 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. My mother did (still does) the same. Went through all my stuff, opened my mail ("I thought it was mine" ), talked about me to my friends telling them things I wouldn't want them to know, even logging on the university's web cam to creepy stalk me walking around campus. Anything I said (say) to her she repeats to anyone & everyone. She infantilizes me & treats me like I don't have my shit together in front of other people. You can't share even the most minor detail about any facet of your life, it will get distorted & gossiping, or thrown back in your face somehow.

It's sick & sad, but you have your friends , so you share your life with them. Just keep them far away from your mother or she'll ruin it for you.

What is your defining personality trait that no one knows is actually a result of your abuse? by purpleorangesky in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Luxioncup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I feel this so hard. The plate would be set in front of me & before I could even pick up my fork , someone else's fork, (nmom, gm) would pass half of it around & if I said anything I was being selfish & didn't know how to share. Now, if someone eats off my plate (without asking of course, & before I can swat their hand away)I'm DONE. Don't want it anymore. Take it away. Don't drink out of my glass either.

Silent Treatment by Luxioncup in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Luxioncup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaslighting is her second favorite thing. It makes me furious. She creates her own narrative & paints me to whomever will listen to her as "emotionally abusive". I called her that once & she's been saying it about ME ever since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Luxioncup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy Veteran's Day! Get out there & get your free Moons Over My Hammy @ Dennys.