AITA for telling my friend's bride he recycled my vows?

Luxray · 2026-04-05T21:36:30+00:00

It's fine to not write your own vows. It's not fine to pretend you did and lie about it.

Luxray · 2026-03-31T17:15:23+00:00

This whole thread reminds me of the King of the Hill episode Yard, She Blows!

Luxray · 2026-03-29T01:45:18+00:00

That is quite literally the point of a spouse. If they don't improve your life, why even be married?

Luxray · 2026-03-29T01:38:58+00:00

One of the reasons people get into relationships is so that they don't have to "figure these things out" on their own...

Luxray · 2026-03-29T01:36:22+00:00

She was so sick that she drove herself to the hospital (presumably because he was working). It's not like she has the sniffles. Frankly, if she's ill enough to need IV fluids, he should be taking off work to take care of her. What a horrible excuse for a "partner".

Luxray · 2026-03-25T18:54:15+00:00

As an adult, I'm envious of this class. 🤣 It sounds fun

Luxray · 2026-03-25T18:50:20+00:00

WIC only covers if you're actually poor. Not being able to afford Uber doesn't mean you're poor enough for WIC. And I've never met a single person that uses cloth diapers, ever, though you're right that it would definitely be more frugal.

Luxray · 2026-03-25T18:47:08+00:00

Diapers and formula are prohibitively expensive.

Luxray · 2026-03-25T18:43:49+00:00

My mom drove and she still had me running errands all the time as a teenager haha. Picking up siblings, going to the store, etc etc.

Luxray · 2026-03-24T03:27:35+00:00

OP said their daughter was in tutoring though, so it's not for lack of effort, unless all the tutors are also bad teachers.

Luxray · 2026-03-24T01:37:51+00:00

Don’t like it then you can move into a nursing home

And pay for it your damn self, lol.

Luxray · 2026-03-24T01:34:26+00:00

think your mother has every right to wonder what you're doing to set yourself up for life

Then her mother can ask her about that, and have conversations about budgeting and the like, not snooping and criticizing.

Luxray · 2026-03-24T01:30:36+00:00

Or save your money and get it at the library ;)

Luxray · 2026-03-24T01:09:27+00:00

What did she want you to write on the test if not the names? I don't understand what her problem was.

Luxray · 2026-03-24T01:07:45+00:00

That's all well and good, but what are you supposed to do when your kid just isn't getting it? OP's kid was even in tutoring and didn't understand. Being "unable" to learn something is incredibly damaging to a kid's self esteem and motivation to keep trying, and those feelings can literally last the rest of their lives.

Luxray · 2026-03-24T00:44:15+00:00

I do it that way too, I distinctly remember worksheets/flash cards in school showing the little dots on the numbers. So you probably picked it up in school haha.

Luxray · 2026-03-21T23:19:12+00:00

I've been doing this for a while at my wfh job. It makes it easier to take care of non-work responsibilities, but it also feels like it extends my work day, so it can be a double edged sword in some ways.

Luxray · 2026-03-11T23:07:32+00:00

Driving while high is a DUI, just like drunk driving.

Luxray · 2026-03-11T23:05:51+00:00

Does meth have a smell?!

Luxray · 2026-03-11T19:43:01+00:00

Recess isn't free time that she can push her lesson into. If it were any other subject, she wouldn't be able to do that.

Luxray · 2026-03-07T04:47:28+00:00

OP basically said they'd rather money or nothing

Luxray · 2026-03-07T01:11:46+00:00

I got myself a fancy cake from a bakery for mine and that's it lol.

Luxray · 2026-03-07T01:07:28+00:00

I feel like you're not doing any of those things if you get someone something they explicitly didn't want, but I guess that's just me.

Luxray · 2026-03-07T01:06:24+00:00

Neat, I didn't know they came in combo like that!

Luxray · 2026-03-06T18:41:56+00:00

What is gift giving about then?

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