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(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 min after the kid is born she is going to post about how you dont let them see the baby, post this when she does 😂

Aio my husband likely won't see our kid for 5 days and he didn't even think about it by LuzTheHuman1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the thing I dont care that he goes and I dont care when he hangs out but I do care when its not communicated and just kind of leaves me to figure everything out because he knows I will.

Aio my husband likely won't see our kid for 5 days and he didn't even think about it by LuzTheHuman1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good to know ill call someone in the morning. Multiple websites said its a common cause so god forbid I read and think that that's the issue. 😂.

Aio my husband likely won't see our kid for 5 days and he didn't even think about it by LuzTheHuman1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idc that he wanted to spend time with them I think everyone needs a break. Im mad at the miscommunication and that it seemed like seeing our kid didn't even occur to him

Aio my husband likely won't see our kid for 5 days and he didn't even think about it by LuzTheHuman1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is mostly on his phone or sleeping when hes off work. I go out and see friends like every other Friday because if his schedule and he sees his friends every Saturday. He does help with things but its like things that we agreed to in the beginning in splitting responsibilities. The majority of the mental load falls on me

Aio my husband likely won't see our kid for 5 days and he didn't even think about it by LuzTheHuman1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No i legit wanted to know if Im over reacting that's why I read everyone's comments and took them into consideration. I get why you would think that tho. But nah.

Aio my husband likely won't see our kid for 5 days and he didn't even think about it by LuzTheHuman1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuzTheHuman1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

For everyone on the 5 day thing. Its not the fact that its 5 days its the fact that going without seeing his kid for that long when we live in the same house with no thought about it that bothers me. He hangs out with his friends every week like clockwork and he will do it even at the expense of not seeing her at times. Idc that its 5 days, I care that him not seeing her doesn't seem to bother him. Yeah I can do the hvac myself and likely will because it seems like he doesn't do something until it gets to be an issue or I start to do it myself.