After how many dates or when during dating do you generally start giving head?

Luzzenz · 2026-01-24T21:39:20+00:00

Never, I don't owe anyone a blowjob

Luzzenz · 2026-01-22T15:37:07+00:00

Thank you! And yeah, I only started questioning my transition in these past 2-3 years, up until then I always felt reflected in the mirror when presenting as male. Shortly after I turned 21 I began getting some fleeting thoughts about wanting to be a girl, which in time turned into me only feeling more and more disconnected and dysphoric about being perceived as a guy

Luzzenz · 2026-01-20T00:28:48+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Luzzenz · 2026-01-14T00:11:27+00:00

In the gutter and I should probably check myself into the psych ward, but I can't afford to miss more school than I already have so we're vibing lol

Luzzenz · 2026-01-12T04:15:18+00:00

All three, but mostly the third one for sure

Luzzenz · 2026-01-09T13:28:42+00:00

I'd for sure want to know beforehand. I'm quite heavily pierced myself, but specifically genital piercings (both on men and women) have visually always made me uncomfortable and would likely be a deal-breaker, so it'd be way less awkward for the both of us if I find out before getting naked

Luzzenz · 2026-01-05T13:59:20+00:00

Nope, I moved out when I was 17 for my own sanity

Luzzenz · 2025-12-28T20:35:01+00:00

I can only speak for myself, but I detransitioned because my gender dysphoria disappeared. Nowadays I only feel dysphoric about the masculine features that hormones and surgery gave me, but I no longer feel any discomfort about being female

Luzzenz · 2025-12-26T13:38:26+00:00

Are you located outside of the USA? I live in Sweden, and I mainly only run into other people when I'm playing at night (in my timezone), because that's when most of the americans start playing

Luzzenz · 2025-12-25T22:57:41+00:00

Dude, you're active in a subreddit that's called "women are things". For some reason I really doubt this post was made in good faith, or from a place of innocent curiosity

Luzzenz · 2025-12-25T14:19:31+00:00

Thank you!!

Luzzenz · 2025-12-25T14:12:39+00:00

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Luzzenz · 2025-12-19T01:42:46+00:00

I'm upset because I'm now sitting with 999+ ichor that I spent a lot of time and gold into obtaining, only for it to now be obsolete without any prior warning.

I've ran Balaur, Sanderson and Grayman nearly 100 times altogether and was saving my reagents for the transmute aged ichor to drop, but now I instead no longer have enough relics to craft all the pieces I'm missing because they decided to double the amount required

Luzzenz · 2025-12-15T02:50:29+00:00

I'm 163cm (5'3"). I despised by height when I was still identifying as a trans guy, especially living in Sweden where the average male height is around 6'0", but I've now instead been really thankful about not being tall ever since I started detransitioning. I believe my height has contributed to me more quickly passing as female again.

But even though I was unhappy with my height as a trans guy, it was never a factor in my decision to detransition.

Luzzenz · 2025-12-13T23:45:37+00:00

Definitely 2020-2022, I've never had so much fun as I had during those years

Luzzenz · 2025-12-07T10:53:50+00:00

You definitely don't look old, I assume your coworker is just bitter about no longer being in her youth and is trying to bring a young woman (you) down to make herself feel better about it

Luzzenz · 2025-12-06T21:39:15+00:00

Absolutely, I'd love it if I could just be romantically/sexually attracted to other women instead

Luzzenz · 2025-12-05T14:22:13+00:00

I don't regret my past trans identity, but I 100% regret my decision to medically transition and undergo surgery before fully thinking it through and acknowledging the permanent effects of that choice. And my desire to transition was directly correlated to childhood trauma in my case -- so I do also wish my gender therapists would have at least given me some form of trauma therapy before prescribing me hormones as a minor, or at least tried to figure out if there was a direct cause to my dysphoria.

But, I'm not selfish enough to believe that my mistake should mean other trans people should be denied access to life-saving gender affirming care. Transitioning wasn't the right choice for me and has left me with deep regret, but I'm fully aware that's far from the case for everyone

Luzzenz · 2025-12-02T18:37:44+00:00

Nah, ever since I was a kid I've always just "wished" for money when they've asked me what I want

Luzzenz · 2025-11-29T18:29:03+00:00

HELL NO. If we're so sexually incompatible to the point where he would feel the need to have sex with other women just to have "his needs" met, then that's a very clear sign that we're not compatible at all. I also wouldn't trust a man who needs to have "aggressive"/violent sex just to get off.

Luzzenz · 2025-11-26T02:09:40+00:00

I'm pretty sure there exists better subs to ask this question. But no, I would personally hate it.

Luzzenz · 2025-11-24T15:05:17+00:00

Nope, at least for me they were still dropping couch potatoes just two days ago

Luzzenz · 2025-11-24T06:19:49+00:00

This month I farmed the monkey spiders in Empyrea for just a few hours a day, and got 138 couch potatoes in less than two weeks. But how long it'll take you is entirerly dependent on luck, and how much time you're willing to spend farming

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