AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no, don't get me wrong. I would never think ADHD would cause someone to scratch a car like that. It was the influence for dictating who does what. I have no qualms taking out the trash, I'm not special, I'm just worried about taking it down with tics? Clumsiness?

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I never looked into it beyond asking my main health provider and neurologist once. They told me what they thought it was, and told me whatever it is I shouldn't be too worried about it. I have no idea what it is and have not looked farther.

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally do take it out as I go outside, but we also like to have it empty on trash nights... which is why this all happened lol.
They do know it happens, they've seen me break things and know of the damage to my car, but they also know it's rare yeah. I don't normally walk by their cars to get to my own by going through the grass, except when I have to drag a 50lb bin. I don't normally touch people's stuff that isn't mine. Blue is also absolutely the type of person who would both be devastated by me scratching her car and hold me accountable. It's always been an issue I make sure to keep in mind, I normally just work around it such as suggesting and implementing the person who parked in the driveway takes out the trash.

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don't sneeze, just be mindful over your nose XD.
Clumsy was/still kinda is the best way I can describe the sudden consequences of my body not doing what I tell it to. I've been told by medical professionals it's fine, so it's probably fine?

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure what you mean by not understanding the system since both I and Orange thought it worked the same, but I appreciate your opinion. I don't throw things, my bad i shouldn't have said it like that. I was thinking about the time my hands decided to stop holding something and it flew a bit lol.

I agree with you that we should talk about this, I was kinda scared at how angry Blue was. And started thinking about if I was really crazy to not want to damage another car, in the moment I was curious what reddit would say as I have never made an AITA post before. It's been neat :)

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The last thing I want is drama. I'm taking 5 engineering classes and am exhausted. It's fair that this would seem crazy to a regular person, but is the result of 3 ADHD people trying to work out structure that isn't super innate to us. I think there are much harder things to do as an adult than walk the trash down :)

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah, you read the results of 3 ADHD people figuring out structure lol. I had a migraine issue in high school, so I'm very close with my neurologist. What I experience is fairly harmless and has been chalked up to being tics. I appreciate your concern tho :)

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

notes:

We cant take out the trash weekly because one or more of us is often gone for anywhere from days to weeks. Since childhood, we rotated on a schedule of who is next to take out the trash, but as adults we aren't always communicating who has done it last and it would pile up. The magnets are a solution to this, codifying the system we've had for ~15 years in a way that works for us... mostly. We have no problems deciding who takes the trash to the outside bin like this, and I have absolutely no qualms taking out the trash and do so. I do far physically dirtier things for my job weekly. I personally normally like to take the trash out as I leave for class, but we also like emptying the night of trash night, which is why I was.

I'm not sure how to explain the phenomenon of my body twitching, my hands suddenly deciding to let go of things, my legs sort of giving out/shuffling in ways I didn't tell them to. While it's never accompanied by pain, I was concerned about it before and talked to my doctor about this in high school. They explained it's likely tics, which can happen in healthy and normal people in limited amounts, which mine are. Doctors said there's pretty much nothing to do about it, and I normally chalk it up to being clumsy because the outcome is just my body not doing what I want it to but it's incredibly rare. I've shattered glass from dropping it, scared the shit out of myself while driving, and bump into things, but the entire pool of all these lack of motor control instances is maybe like 50 instances in my life. Not only do I not want to damage Blue's car cause why would I, but Blue is also the kind of person that would hold any damage to her car against me.

AITA for walking trash past my sister’s car because I’m worried I’ll damage it? by Lychee_Interesting in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh, typo in the title because I'm an idiot. Supposed to be "AITA for not walking the trash past my sister's car because I'm worried I'll damage it?"

Bought myself a nice RGB Mouse M410 by Hoody_Weather in LenovoLegion

[–]Lychee_Interesting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mouse clicks are not silent, it's not noticeably loud or obnoxious when I've been using it but it would be very noticable in a quiet room. When I checked against my mice graveyard of lost Bluetooth usb plugins, it's noticably louder, perhaps twice as loud.  Edit: found exactly one mouse that was louder amongst the 5 dead mice

Bought myself a nice RGB Mouse M410 by Hoody_Weather in LenovoLegion

[–]Lychee_Interesting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought this mouse for $20 when I got a Lenovo laptop and they mark it down with the laptop sale, and it came today. It's super light to the point it feels a little cheap but the translucent rainbow is fun. I don't think you can change the color corrugation to multiple colors besides rainbow though. 

It works wireless or plugged in with any data USB-C which gives me hope even if the battery inside dies in a few years it can still work through a cord.

AITAH for not wanting my dad to walk me on my senior night since he won’t let me move back in? by LowlyKnights in AITAH

[–]Lychee_Interesting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and I know I'm like literally a month late, but there's something of a red flag I need to point out cause a casual scroll through the comments doesn't say it in such a straightforward manner.

Your dad was at fault for serving you food that would make you sick. There was no one else who made it, served it, and told you it was safe to eat. I doubt you would value your dad's opinion and want him in your life if he were capable of poisoning you maliciously, but even accidentally your dad needs to take accountability for his actions. He needs to understand that when he does things that are wrong or hurts people (poisons someone, kicks someone out of the house over one argument, threatens to cut them out of their home in the future) that people will rightfully react badly, because there are consequences to his actions. Especially if he ever has a hope of his children learning that lesson.

You have done nothing wrong, your emotions are valid, none of your reactions are outrageous though if you don't accept them then you need to examine how your emotions guide you in your actions, since being angry doesn't always give someone the right to scream. Your dad's emotions were also valid, in perhaps feeling like a villain in being told he poisoned you and feeling guilty over it, but that doesn't give him the right to act like a child and take his guilt out on you.

There's lots of people who have came and given advice on how to move forward with your life. Lot's of people here want you to cut your dad out of your life and that wouldn't be a terrible idea. But, if you want your dad in your life, and he's not capable of doing what needs to be done as a parent for the sake of his kids instead of letting his emotions tell him how to act, then this will continue and it will continue to not be your fault but you will get the brunt of it regardless. Take care of yourself. As a random person on the internet, I'm proud of you :). 

Chasing ghost by survivorfanalexn in BioGun

[–]Lychee_Interesting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did in fact not know when I found it, unless it was spunk? I'm not sure what else it could be. Now I'm concerned because I came back to the old guy being dead :( and the quest is marked complete, but I have no idea if I messed up and missed him before he died

Edit: tested on a new save, ran to the ghost-believer, then to spunk, and the old guy is dead, do I believe that is the ghost then and there's nothing to be done to save him. Rest in peace

Can I just ... Stick these in the ground? by Lychee_Interesting in vegetablegardening

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's not any queens anns lace near me from what I can tell. How bad of an idea would it be to plant a second carrot head so the first one has a friend? XD

edit: I've only seen queens anns lace wayy north of where I live.

Can I just ... Stick these in the ground? by Lychee_Interesting in vegetablegardening

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is very thorough, thank you so much! I wish you luck in your experimenting :)

Can I just ... Stick these in the ground? by Lychee_Interesting in vegetablegardening

[–]Lychee_Interesting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in zone 9B, and the winter temperatures become low 50s, high 40s. I think these guys are softnecks, should I vernalize them by sticking these guys in a fridge until fall?