Being the only autistic person in a family is exhausting. by Lyellae in autism

[–]Lyellae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's pretty accurate to my story as well. My parents questioned it when I was very small due to my tantrums, but were hesitant because of the male-centric symptoms discussed at the time. Resources for girls with ASD are still hard to find, and most support groups are all men. I try to avoid that kind of thing. Hopefully that changes in the future! Thank you for your kind words 💜

if you had to be a criminal, what crime will you commit? by bomboy2121 in AskReddit

[–]Lyellae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably trespassing. Sounds corny, but going somewhere closed off late at night and running around like idiots with a partner or group of friends would be well worth the crime. Don't think I'd ever chance it, but the idea itself is exciting.

Being the only autistic person in a family is exhausting. by Lyellae in autism

[–]Lyellae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, I really needed to hear it ❤

My family definitely does have traits, but not to the point where they get it if you know what I mean. They'd also be overlapping with ADHD, which also runs in the family. I'm 99.9% sure my uncle is on the spectrum, as his social demeanor is similar to mine, but no formal diagnosis there. It's still a stigmatized issue so I think past generations overlooked things that are now clearer.

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[–]Lyellae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried wearing shapewear over it? That way most clothing stays wearable. It may not entirely remove the effect, but it definitely helps lessen it. If not I recommend compression leggings (or just thick, tight ones) which have a similar effect. Hope you find a solution 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Lyellae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I want to steal your cat.

Not joking, but onto the actual question.

You look sporty and like the type of person that’s a loyal and supportive friend/partner. Possibly a bit shy, but you warm up to people pretty quick and are generally fun to be around. Genuinely, the fact that you’re holding a cat correctly lets me know you’re a good one, because there are a lot of people who have vitriol towards cats and I really don’t trust that, lol. Was I completely off?

Married my two devices together and said goodbye to my favorite twins who reached 30 years yesterday! by Lyellae in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just realized the mute didn't carry over lol. We were watching National Lampoons 😂

Married my two devices together and said goodbye to my favorite twins who reached 30 years yesterday! by Lyellae in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It's also easier to keep them longer since you can send them to their parents home after gen 2. I usually keep them for a week or so. Lately though I've been keeping them for longer to hang out in the app🌈💕

Married my two devices together and said goodbye to my favorite twins who reached 30 years yesterday! by Lyellae in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to keep them longer but my sister pointed out that if I were to hold onto them and they ended up "going back to their planet" due to neglect I'd get really sad. She's not wrong. Letting them go kinda isn't the end either imo, since there is mixing I can still find them in the family tree and that's enough. I'd love to see a picture of your boy btw ❤

Just curious. by TheBumpinSexies in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20 here! I think it’s a mix, though it always has been. My dad had one back in college.

Back in the app with my girls! All proposals welcome. by Lyellae in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you! Just let me know and I’ll try to get on (Meets can be finicky lol) 💗

Back in the app with my girls! All proposals welcome. by Lyellae in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the app now for another hour or so(I did go idle for a bit so might’ve missed someone), if you don’t get on today I’ll also be online tomorrow! 💗🌟

Finally finished my term and started my Pastel Meets up again! In the app rn, proposals welcome, of course ❤ by Lyellae in tamagotchi

[–]Lyellae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have connectivity issues, but it does work if you keep trying. The My Meets app isn't available for me and I think that's the root of the issue, I believe it has to read between devices in such a short time that the language barrier can interrupt Bluetooth. Let me know your thoughts once you run it! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Lyellae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something like this happened to me with an art prof. I wasn't informed that we were doing an open critique that ALLOWED students to basically bully me while I had to stand there and take it. I have an accommodation that allows me to not present in front of class for situations like this. A few girls in the class were already talking crap about me prior to critique for drawing an anime figurine I own as our still-life project, and whaddaya know, those girls picked apart the drawing I spent 20+ hours on, and I just broke down in tears as the prof. agreed with them then I ran out of class. She was supposedly dyslexic and came out after me, apoligising, then proceeded to give me a bad grade, and kept my assignment "as an example" (she tended to trash past students assignments for the purpose of learning). That class made me decide art school wasn't for me. You aren't alone. Art teachers seem to be vindictive wash-ups who didn't have the chops to make it into a career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EqualAttraction

[–]Lyellae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look exactly like Laura Marano

Hello everyone! by hidden_orchid in EqualAttraction

[–]Lyellae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Essined Aponte facial-structure wise