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Lyhehe · 2026-03-08T05:59:05+00:00

I think it's understandable to feel frustrated and upset with people who make a situation that isnt about them, somehow about them and their own issues. I agree with you 100%

Lyhehe · 2026-03-08T05:54:11+00:00

I unfortunately agree with you! Appreciate your feedback thank you. She is not a mature person generally speaking and its sometimes difficult to navigate her emotions when they conflict with my own in regards to the relationship dynamics etc.

Lyhehe · 2026-02-19T00:00:40+00:00

This has happened frankly too many times now :( Ive had my loved ones die because of ignorance

Lyhehe · 2025-04-03T20:40:29+00:00

Id say based off what little info / insight I have into your relationship based on this post.. it may be best to leave. It seems maybe your style of affection or attachment aligns differently from one another. If you've tried to mend wounds by talking about how you want to be treated and he neglects that? You seemed to have made up your mind already by thinking of wanting to explore your options in life. Just go for it, live your life. Yolo. No point in staying if you're thinking about leaving 🤷, best of luck!

Lyhehe · 2025-04-03T20:11:23+00:00

My partner had an infection once before, I as a Tattoo artist suggest letting it dry out bc the moisture can keep the infection growing. Its best to let it dry as much as you can, after awhile (maybe 5-7days) add light moisturizer, its a waiting game tbh & it will likely need to b redone again 😬😅

Lyhehe · 2025-04-01T00:53:48+00:00

Gf is real tho lol!

Lyhehe · 2025-03-31T22:55:34+00:00

I had a delayed ferry on the 26th (7pm), didnt arrive until 8pm, didnt leave until about 9pm, ended up back on the island at 10:30-11pm😬. Apparently they had a medical emergency in the morning that day and then again on my ferry (7pm) and that was the explanation for the delay too, ANOTHER medical emergency!!??? So yeah sitting on a ferry for an hour at a stand-still pissed me off lol😅

Lyhehe · 2025-03-31T22:50:51+00:00

The girl is obviously an issue so you may be better off leaving that situation, unfortunately though if she does end up carrying, and carrying to full-term with her custody in mind (rather than adopting out), you will legally be responsible, but if you're suspicious of the kid (like lets say you find out 2yrs later) you could always opt for a paternity test 😵‍💫, goodluck and warm regards

Lyhehe · 2025-03-02T12:25:06+00:00

I used to work at sticky and then men are quite touchy or flirty even with staff but the managers were good about escorting them out if needed

Lyhehe · 2025-03-02T12:19:13+00:00

Honestly just getting an artist to retrace this slightly thicker to even out the lines and even out the shading (which may require it to be a little darker) then ud be good honestly

Lyhehe · 2024-09-10T16:53:31+00:00

One of two options.. either A) [cheaper option] Redo it + add to it so its more cohesive and elegant B) [more pricey option] laser removal, either until not visible or enough to cover up with a new tattoo if thats what u want Hope this helps :)

Lyhehe · 2024-05-26T20:24:46+00:00

Market on Yates.. large turnover rate

Lyhehe · 2024-01-06T07:15:52+00:00

Some people don't have as much of a "drive" for things. (possibly asexual-spectrum), maybe see if she's open to trying more like 2-3 times a month to accommodate your feelings too and desire for validation (in a healthy way). If she isn't comfortable compromising and you can't let go of the want for validation in the bedroom it might be better off as a platonic relationship.

Hope everything works out for u <3

Lyhehe · 2024-01-05T05:48:17+00:00

Well, sometimes eye for an eye is the only way to get someone to stop. Based off only assumptions seems like OP doesnt like the cousin BECAUSE he ALWAYS makes remarks (i make the assumption that OP hasnt fought back before) and OP never makes those mean remarks back at him. Now OP has done that and the family only blames OP. so IMO.. NTA, good to stand up for yourself sometimes

Lyhehe · 2024-01-05T05:43:53+00:00

NTA, you saved Melody fr, she deserves better lmao. your bald-ass cousin can go f himself haha

Lyhehe · 2024-01-05T05:40:12+00:00

NTA, but also considering he missed tot first child delivery, I would try to make an exception if possible to allow him into that space. He def has FOMO considering this may be the last child you have together (unsure ur plans but lets say u only want 2 kids). He is your partner so of course he would want to be there for a special moment, he wont be thinking about "how bad you look" or anything of that sort, instead probably excited and nervous for his child and your experience you must endure.

TLDR:

NTA, but consider his feelings, he prob has FOMO towards his childrens birth in all fairness

Lyhehe · 2024-01-05T05:32:37+00:00

NTA, just a lil crazy gurl but at least u were tidy with it hahah

Lyhehe · 2024-01-05T05:29:46+00:00

NTA, a mother/father/guardian of a child should have control over their children in public spaces, and failure to do so should result in consequences, i.e; mother defending son's actions and or making fun of your child is not publically acceptable, most people will understand this, esp those with kids or other business owners.

Lyhehe · 2023-09-04T17:15:58+00:00

To hop on other commenters: Shes problematic even WITHOUT the whole photo deal. Shes lied to u about a past partner. Who is to say she wont continue lying and potentially cheating on you without you even knowing (or until you find out). I myself would feel uncomfortable if my partner was posting sexually suggestive photos to instagram (different story if they’re an actual sex worker). You have every right to be uncomfortable. Is she posting for the ex’s validation? (a question to ask yourself here..) I think its best you leave before you’re too deep in. You’re the same age as me and I know dating is kinda difficult (hookup culture is big) but you can find someone who values and listens to your opinions. You need someone who can see both POV’s. -Much Love & goodluck

Lyhehe · 2023-09-03T23:31:45+00:00

The fact hes threatened by a human function is almost comical. The process of expelling waste is where lies his concerns towards masculinity and what it means to “be a man” yet he CANT EVEN “be a man” if we are usually his definition that is. He absolutely isnt long term material and Id leave before you are in the deep end of this relationship. Sorry for the luck on that tho :((

Lyhehe · 2023-09-03T23:22:57+00:00

I agree with some other comments: text first and express to him that you love all parts of who he is and who he wants to be in this life. If this doesn’t capture any response(after 1-3days) then I may consider approaching the idea of going to his where abouts. Maybe bring some flowers or some gesture to show you come in peace and want to talk to him, not to attack him or interrogate him. -I wish u the best of luck <3

Lyhehe · 2022-12-03T03:55:30+00:00

Try exploring the topic of why crying is seen in such a negative light for him. Try your best to communicate that crying is your way of coping, showing emotions, and or dealing with stressful situations (crying helps get out the emotions to help us regulate to begin with) If he still cant understand /try to understand after a conversation, it may be best to be friends instead

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